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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 3:21:29 PM   
littlewonder


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why should it? If they are calling each other it, that's their life, not mine. If a stranger calls me something I don't like, I shrug it off and move on.


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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 3:27:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

doesn't bother me at all.

why should it? If they are calling each other it, that's their life, not mine. If a stranger calls me something I don't like, I shrug it off and move on.



What that smart bunny said....

the only title I got is Miaow....or....at least thats what my cats call me  and somehow...they actually got me so far...that I do bother what they call me

but well...must be cause they are just plain honest folks all the fucking time  and awesome, too  not something which can easily be said about many ones of those human ones...

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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 3:32:31 PM   
syllabub


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So does this mean I'm actually NOT goddess of banana hammock? OMGi feel so traumatized!!!


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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 3:34:26 PM   
syllabub


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I don't care what anyone else does. If it makes them happy then who are we to tell them otherwise?

For me, I don't like titles. Any sub that calls me Mistress, Ma'am, Goddess will be bluntly told to call me by my real name. Fortunately Steve is the same because if I was ever to hear his sub calling him Master or Sir, I would be rolling my eyes and wondering who the hell I had married. Titles, as far as I'm concerned, make it all feel a little too much like a role-play fantasy game.


This is the same for me,
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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 9:07:45 PM   
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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 10:05:16 PM   
descrite


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Status: offline 		Errr...am I the only one, upon glancing at the thread title, who read

"Titties/names"

?


I am? Sorry. Carry on.

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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 10:21:07 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		And just what do you name your titties?

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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 11:03:34 PM   
descrite


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Lefty and Fred. Of course.



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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 11:07:10 PM   
poise


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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 11:27:59 PM   
descrite


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Ahem.

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RE: titles/names - 11/27/2012 11:34:29 PM   
poise


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My apologies to the OP for this slight hijack, but sometimes there are things one just has to know.

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RE: titles/names - 11/28/2012 3:05:13 PM   
DesFIP


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So does this mean I'm actually NOT goddess of banana hammock? OMGi feel so traumatized!!!


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RE: titles/names - 11/28/2012 4:02:18 PM   
theRose4U


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP


quote:

ORIGINAL: theRose4U

So does this mean I'm actually NOT goddess of banana hammock? OMGi feel so traumatized!!!


Careful now. If Alpha sees this you may find it under your name.

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RE: titles/names - 11/28/2012 10:53:44 PM   
Nelee


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I agree with what everyone is saying. The use of "certain" names is up to each couples dynamic. In my case, I prefer my girl to call me "Sir" or "Master" when responding to a direction or command from me. When in public, less "Formal" names are acceptable, though "Yes sir" is always a good fail safe. As far as speaking to other Dominants (Male or Female), I prefer my girl to show respect with a "Yes Sir/Ma'am". My girl also is allowed to use a "pet" name for me when we are speaking to each other in "normal" or mundane, circumstances.


This is the dynamic I am most familiar with, to be honest. Though, titles are not a HUGE deal for me, they are a way of establishing dominance in some relationships nonetheless, and that's a viable use.

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RE: titles/names - 11/29/2012 6:18:07 AM   
KingVictory


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Status: offline 		I also find the names to be useless; To me there more personalities then names.

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