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Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 12:04:33 PM

ObedientPet760

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I have searched on CM to find a Mistress to train me to be obedient. So far not much success! Very disappointed!

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 12:07:20 PM

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You've been here two whole days and haven't found the fetish delivery system of your dreams yet? These are truly dark days we live in.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 12:11:13 PM

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Spank me till I am purple...OR HELP!!!!

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 12:16:41 PM

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There are no short cuts. Are you going to munches and events and meeting people in the flesh? Are you checking profiles regularly and sending clean, polite and interesting messages to those who appeal to you? Does your profile give the best possible impression of who you are as a person and what you have to offer in a relationship?

This is like saying 'I put a personal ad in the paper two days ago and I still haven't found a wife! Someone find one for me!' (a) be patient and (b) be discerning. A potential Mistress might well read your post and get the impression that anyone will do so long as you get your kink on immediately. Can you imagine how that might be off-putting?

Relationships take time. Finding someone worth pursuing a relationship takes time. And work.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 12:21:09 PM

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Good advice. Thanks. I will get on my knees and will be patient.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 12:22:40 PM

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Good advice. Thanks. I will get on my knees and will be patient.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 12:22:54 PM

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People here have welcomed you and offered you solid advice. You show gratitude by trying to hijack threads and allowing your erection to dictate what you post.

How rude.

You think all this foolish behavior is going to lead to some woman springing into action and taming you? Think again.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 12:24:54 PM

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You know, a better plan than just waiting on your knees, would be to get up on your feet and make it happen.

I know I'm only a kid next to you, but I've found that good things don't just happen to you. You go out and make them happen. Be productive. Be awesome. Learn everything. Look your best. Make yourself useful and interesting. Have hobbies. Read. Make sure you're wonderful at cooking, cleaning, car maintenance, home improvements and anything else that would be handy for a dominant.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 12:30:43 PM

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Spank me till I am purple...OR HELP!!!!

You appear to be beyond help.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:05:07 PM

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They arent just going to fall out of the sky. Quit looking to others to serve as your personal kink pimp and do the damned work yourself.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:26:25 PM

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:28:37 PM

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As this is all completely and totally easy for women, I can see why some men wonder why it can't be this way for them. Like even bi sexual or lesbian women can easily get other women at the click of the finger. Males are deemed disposable unless they are super duper above average. Not women though, they can be a fatass and boring as fuck but yet still NO DOUBT have plenty interested. Even other women!

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:30:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

As this is all completely and totally easy for women, I can see why some men wonder why it can't be this way for them. Like even bi sexual or lesbian women can easily get other women at the click of the finger. Males are deemed disposable unless they are super duper above average. Not women though, they can be a fatass and boring as fuck but yet still NO DOUBT have plenty interested. Even other women!

Then, maybe you should think "How can I be seen as super duper above average"

It's really fucking simple.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:33:56 PM

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Have you ever considered that if you were obedient, it would be easier to find a Mistress?

Joking aside, you live in San Diego. You're not in some kind of wasteland that has no kink scene. Have you been participating in your local community? Did you think if you made a profile here that a woman who was interested in you going to fall into your lap?

I have noticed the way you have acted on other threads and frankly, it's not doing you any favors. I'm kind of hoping you make a better impression in person, rather than acting an ass because nobody knows you on the internet.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:36:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

As this is all completely and totally easy for women, I can see why some men wonder why it can't be this way for them. Like even bi sexual or lesbian women can easily get other women at the click of the finger. Males are deemed disposable unless they are super duper above average. Not women though, they can be a fatass and boring as fuck but yet still NO DOUBT have plenty interested. Even other women!

Did you ever consider the possibility that it's easy for Me just because I'm a damn good top?

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:43:23 PM

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LP, you have to be blind to not see that to be a woman, your social status quo is a lot higher than it is to be a male.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:44:28 PM

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As this is all completely and totally easy for women, I can see why some men wonder why it can't be this way for them.

Actually, my last two ex's get laid way more easily than I do. I needed spreadsheets to keep track of all the women they were with.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:49:30 PM

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LP, you have to be blind to not see that to be a woman, your social status quo is a lot higher than it is to be a male.

She's also not an bitter, angry misogynist. I don't suppose that could have something to do with it?

Your problem is not your gender, nick. The men here in successful relationships prove you wrong every day.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:50:23 PM

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Actually, my last two ex's get laid way more easily than I do. I needed spreadsheets to keep track of all the women they were with.

How many men out of the whole male population exactly get to do this? Of course it's easy to cherry pick a small minority of men who get lucky like this. But to be realistic, if this was so easy for all men, you wouldn't get men daily or weekly in these forums asking why it's difficult for them.

On the other hand, you can be nearly any woman on here and still have a handful of people interested. Geez all you have to do is make a fake profile posing as a female. You don't even need a picture. You can just mention a few kinks in your profile and before you know it men and women will be approaching you.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 1:56:29 PM

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LP, you have to be blind to not see that to be a woman, your social status quo is a lot higher than it is to be a male.

She's also not an bitter, angry misogynist. I don't suppose that could have something to do with it?

Your problem is not your gender, nick. The men here in successful relationships prove you wrong every day.

Call me a misogynist all you want. I believe women on this site are over privileged spoilt brats that have it all and yet plenty still remain unsatisfied of having it all.

I don't take anyone on this site seriously anymore.

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