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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 4:57:58 PM   
JeffBC


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The point here Nick is that I could play tonight if I wanted to because I have invested up front. I have friends. I agree that if I was expecting to simply walk into some place cold and "get lucky" in whatever way you mean that then it'd be tough. But that's not how my life works so it's not tough for me.

Insofar as my generalization about men you read it wrong. I'm with you that men get stereotyped poorly in our current culture. I'm no fan of feminism any more. I have lots of not-PC comments about females and I sometimes say them on these very boards. I was more talking about YOU in particular.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:04:30 PM   
naughtynick81


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Sure, men have it harder at finding casual encounters than women do, because there are more men looking for that than women.

What does it matter if men have it harder? You seem to be so dead set on proving that men have it harder, say it's true, now what? If there is an imbalance, how do you suggest taking care of the unequal supply and demand problem? Can it even be taken care of or do you have to suck it up at some point and move on with things?

Btw, not many things in life are fair or equal. What about all of those things? Should everything be equal? Is that even possible? So someone is born in a third world country shack, as many people are, and others are born into better circumstances...it happens. What do any of those people do with their lot in life? You make it sound as though there is something to be done about this injustice of not having enough women to go around for what you want them for, should there be laws requiring women to give up their time/energy/sexual favors to men simply because it's what men want? This topic of how unequal it is for men and women is pointless. Maybe it's time to work within the system and try to get what you want, instead of continuing to point out that it's not falling into your lap.


Why does it matter? Because I see it totally unfair how harshly men get criticised for not finding luck and expressing it on a forum. Such like the OP here in this thread. Look at the harsh treatment he got. Does anyone ever consider at all how damn friggen hard it is for most men on this site when dealing with over privileged women who are nearly impossible to please due to what they can easily get already? It's like trying to please a child who is already overly spoilt.

Why is it that the people who have it harder (men) are judged so much more harshly when they complain about not getting luck compared to a woman who complains about not finding luck? Don't you think the people who have it way easier should get treated more harshly? It's like a rich person complaining about how hard life is for them compared to a poor person doing the same. Who is more validated?


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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:06:50 PM   
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most men on this site when dealing with over privileged women who are nearly impossible to please due to what they can easily get already


Then how about providing what is NOT so easily gotten, like respect, seeing women as PEOPLE, and not shoving your ass in our face.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:08:42 PM   
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Because women, in general, are looking for different things than men when it comes to BDSM.


So men in general don't want relationships or friendships? But if I accused women in general doing X, I am wrong, right?

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:10:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81


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Good gawd yer a whiney man. Put some damn pants on and get happy with your own self.

That is the key to happiness grasshopper.


heh yeah how dare a man has a politically incorrect opinion unfavorable of women. So let's just make shaming tactics towards his masculinity.

Screw democracy ay? lol

If all you got out of my comment was thinking that I was "make shaming tactics towards his masculinity. ", you just aint gettin it.

Good luck finding what you seek though!

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:11:16 PM   
naughtynick81


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Then how about providing what is NOT so easily gotten, like respect, seeing women as PEOPLE, and not shoving your ass in our face.


But there is no problem when women have pics of just body parts, right?

Anyway, as I said earlier in this thread, I don't take anyone on this site seriously no more, therefore, I am not interested in pussy pleasing. I am just interested in telling the truth. Does it look like to you that I am showing any interest at all in picking up women on here?

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:18:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

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Because women, in general, are looking for different things than men when it comes to BDSM.


So men in general don't want relationships or friendships? But if I accused women in general doing X, I am wrong, right?



Judging by what I've seen? No, the vast majority show no signs of wanting relationships or friendships.

I don't know about you, but I don't shove my bare ass in people's faces and say "I just wanna be your friend".


Talk is cheap, whether it comes to friendship or love. Women's brains are generally not wired in the same way men's are. When the first thing you show us is your bare buttocks, we tend to think you are an ass (and treat you that way). When the first thing you show us is a cock shot, we think you are a dick. When the first several emails are about sex and how you either want to eat pussy or get a blow job, have a strapon used on you or getting anally fucked, then we tend to think you only have one thing on your mind and are ruled with the little head.

As the song from My Fair Lady goes "Show me". If you want friendship and a relationship, show us that. We kinda get that you are kinky already merely from you being on the site. What else do we have in common?

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:18:36 PM   
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ok since youre so desperate for some free domming here ya go!!
look here you whiney bitch the problem is YOU, has always been YOU and will always be YOU unless you
-sit down
-shut up
-dont open your mouth until you can apologize for your short comings

ETA- jeff I'd do you just because you know how to spell non-profit, for the record yes any man inside a charity actually working...makes you lust candy to every woman there!

< Message edited by theRose4U -- 11/27/2012 5:21:58 PM >

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:19:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nick, all I can say is this.

PLEEEASE you and all your ilk keep up your butthurt entitledness.
I'm 52, Im short. Im grey. I'm balding. I'm 20# overweight. I'm a Dominant who wants to be fucking SERVED

I have more young women hitting on me now then when I was in my 20's, had 18" arms and a 29" waist.

Know why? I'm not an entitled asshole any more.

If y'all get a clue, I'm DOOMED

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:19:46 PM   
searching4mysir


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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

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Then how about providing what is NOT so easily gotten, like respect, seeing women as PEOPLE, and not shoving your ass in our face.


But there is no problem when women have pics of just body parts, right?

Anyway, as I said earlier in this thread, I don't take anyone on this site seriously no more, therefore, I am not interested in pussy pleasing. I am just interested in telling the truth. Does it look like to you that I am showing any interest at all in picking up women on here?


You still seem to think men and women think the same way. Until you change that notion, you are going to continue to fail.


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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:22:20 PM   
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When the first thing you show us is your bare buttocks, we tend to think you are an ass (and treat you that way). When the first thing you show us is a cock shot, we think you are a dick


I see profiles of dommes all the time with a display pic of their arse, feet, their toy collection, femdom cartoon pics etc. So that must mean all men are entitled to treat them as a walking kink and nothing more, right?

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:24:06 PM   
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You still seem to think men and women think the same way.


So it's okay for women to be hypocrites?

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:26:46 PM   
Hillwilliam


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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

quote:

You still seem to think men and women think the same way.


So it's okay for women to be hypocrites?

You just don't get it do ya.

They're not hypocrites.
They just don't think the way you do. Deal with it

I got news for ya. A lot of those "women" who have pics of body parts. they aint women

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:28:14 PM   
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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:28:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

quote:

When the first thing you show us is your bare buttocks, we tend to think you are an ass (and treat you that way). When the first thing you show us is a cock shot, we think you are a dick


I see profiles of dommes all the time with a display pic of their arse, feet, their toy collection, femdom cartoon pics etc. So that must mean all men are entitled to treat them as a walking kink and nothing more, right?



Are they pro- or "fin-dommes" (using fin-domme loosely)? Chances are that once you get past the pictures and actually read the text of the profile, that they are.



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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:29:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Can't take this whining any more, night all I'm gonna go hit the 2 for 1 sale at Dommes R us, heard they got a fresh shipment of weel twue subs of quality.

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:31:20 PM   
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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:33:58 PM   
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They're not hypocrites. They just don't think the way you do. Deal with it


It seems that you are the one who doesn't get it. Let's go back to what searching4mysir said. Here's her quote.

quote:

When the first thing you show us is your bare buttocks, we tend to think you are an ass (and treat you that way). When the first thing you show us is a cock shot, we think you are a dick


So she's saying women think this or that if men show pics of their body parts as a display pic. Then I am asking, so why do women show such pictures of body parts for a display pic? If men are bad for doing it, why do women think they are allowed to do it?

quote:

Are they pro- or "fin-dommes" (using fin-domme loosely)? Chances are that once you get past the pictures and actually read the text of the profile, that they are.


Maybe you need to look around more. I see non pro profiles all the time with such pictures.



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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:34:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		So its true! You can lead a horse to water...and then watch it fall face first into said water and drown itself instead of drink. Thanks, Nick. Myth confirmed

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RE: Looking for Dominant Mistress in San DIego - 11/27/2012 5:35:28 PM   
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Think with your lady smarts, not your lady parts


Yet it's against the law for a male to be bitter. Gotta larf

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