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Financial Dommes - 11/29/2012 1:19:50 PM   
Peetie


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Status: offline 		Can anyone put me right on this. Are financial Dommes genuinely exploring a part of the lifestyle, or are they simply looking for easy money. Is it possible that a number of them could be based in distant countries working in a 'mill' under duress trying to milk subs?
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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/29/2012 1:25:31 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		It's a legit kink, and there are also those looking for easy money. Not everyone falls into the legit kink category or the scammer category.

Sure, there are groups in poor countries whose goal is to get money from those who are persuadable.

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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/29/2012 1:48:10 PM   
RumpusParable


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Status: offline 		What they said: it's both.

Some folks (males and females) are into it as a kink. Some folks (males usually pretending to be females and females) use it as a scam.

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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/29/2012 2:10:26 PM   
Rochsub2009


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Status: offline 		Use the search feature. This topic comes up quite frequently around here (several times each week).

As Mulder and Scully used to say, "The truth is out there".

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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/29/2012 2:12:07 PM   
JeffBC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Peetie
Can anyone put me right on this. Are financial Dommes genuinely exploring a part of the lifestyle, or are they simply looking for easy money. Is it possible that a number of them could be based in distant countries working in a 'mill' under duress trying to milk subs?
peetie

Sure Peetie. That's certainly possible. It's also possible that they are aliens from another planet with a clever infiltration idea and a zillion other things. In the end, does it matter? In the end, do you really want to get into the business of judging what might be acceptable kink for someone else?


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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/29/2012 3:38:47 PM   
theRose4U


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Peetie

Can anyone put me right on this. Are financial Dommes genuinely exploring a part of the lifestyle, or are they simply looking for easy money. Is it possible that a number of them could be based in distant countries working in a 'mill' under duress trying to milk subs?
peetie

Both, this is also the fourth time THIS WEEK a newbie male sub asked about them. Please aquaint yourself with the search function!

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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/30/2012 10:14:06 AM   
littlewonder


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Be an adult.


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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/30/2012 10:59:51 AM   
noellesdestiny


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Status: offline 		This is definitely possible among other things. Be wise

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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/30/2012 11:12:06 AM   
theRose4U


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ORIGINAL: noellesdestiny

This is definitely possible among other things. Be wise

Ok sincere question here no snark intended: do you always speak in fortune cookie??

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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/30/2012 7:01:42 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Peetie

Can anyone put me right on this. Are financial Dommes genuinely exploring a part of the lifestyle, or are they simply looking for easy money. Is it possible that a number of them could be based in distant countries working in a 'mill' under duress trying to milk subs?
peetie


Hey...it's all good.

FinDommes are a unique subculture. There's a LOT of guys who dig this (I'm not one of them).

Some have said they should be excommunicated....others disagree.

I think there should be a check box.

Pro Domme....check.

FinDomme....check....

And a way to exclude those from any searches.

If they wanna sell shit...all good. Craigslist did it.

Frankly, I see it as an income source for CM. Charge accordingly (they are).

If they're selling....check the box....if they don't (check the box) and they ask for roses or cash....out they go.

Nice and simple.

You wanna finDomme....all good...Pro Domme....equally as good.

Wanna come here and talk to "others"....all good as well.

< Message edited by LookieNoNookie -- 11/30/2012 7:03:32 PM >

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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/30/2012 7:21:49 PM   
fetisheden


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Status: offline 		i doubt if there are findom sweatshops. i would say that 50% are men posing as women, %40 are women who are iso a quick buck, & the rest are ( like moi) women who love the power & control



i LOVE it when men here rant & say they want all findoms to be banned. as if that would make other women flock to their penis.....


quote:

ORIGINAL: Peetie

Can anyone put me right on this. Are financial Dommes genuinely exploring a part of the lifestyle, or are they simply looking for easy money. Is it possible that a number of them could be based in distant countries working in a 'mill' under duress trying to milk subs?
peetie



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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/30/2012 9:16:35 PM   
SWDesertDom


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Status: offline 		I never knew Findomme was a thing until I came here to the forums.

Now I just wish there were a quick and easy filter to filter out all the topics on the subject (but then who would we snark at?).

...oh, who am I kidding, love the train wreck topics.

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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/30/2012 9:29:09 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		There is...it's called the "next profile" button.

Oh, and you can block them when you see them. Next time you come back, voila! You don't see that one. Eventually you'll whittle it down I'm sure.


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RE: Financial Dommes - 11/30/2012 9:48:51 PM   
SWDesertDom


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Status: offline 		I'm cracking wise about the prevalence of the topic here in the forums. Still haven't randomly stumbled across a findomme profile on the other side (and probably never will), the only ones I've seen have been from following a link here in the forums.

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RE: Financial Dommes - 12/1/2012 1:25:53 AM   
absolutchocolat


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i don't get why this bothers people so much. the fin-domme and pro-domme profiles are often more interesting and well-written than the others! better than seeing a penis pic or ass pic with one line saying, "hi mistress i want to serve you and be humiliated". makes this site more diverse and fun, if you ask me.

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RE: Financial Dommes - 12/1/2012 1:35:43 AM   
coldslayer


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Status: offline 		i like money. i like gifts. i like teasing and torturing little bitches. not dogs though. dont call animal cruelty services on me i kinda want one. my pretend puppies arent cute enough. maybe i should make one of them buy me one.

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RE: Financial Dommes - 12/3/2012 5:27:27 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: coldslayer

i like money. i like gifts. i like teasing and torturing little bitches. not dogs though. dont call animal cruelty services on me i kinda want one. my pretend puppies arent cute enough. maybe i should make one of them buy me one.


Yeah but, the truth is...your subs are dispensable...tell me that you plan on keeping these dudes if they stop paying.

Go ahead.

FinDommes should have a check box next to their name....no less than Pro Dommes....

Want one? Izzat yer kink? Click on the box?

Wanna be here as a Pro Domme (you're providing a service)...pay a fee.

HEY!!!! CM!!!! Here's a fee structure....and NO ONE would object!!!!

(And it'd make it easier for kinksters that are into this shit to find it).


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RE: Financial Dommes - 12/3/2012 5:48:19 PM   
joshua69


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

There is...it's called the "next profile" button.

Oh, and you can block them when you see them. Next time you come back, voila! You don't see that one. Eventually you'll whittle it down I'm sure


No littlewonder, you won’t. They just keep coming and coming. It’s like the zombie apocalypse. You put one down (“Hide User”) and another two pop up. And they’re all making that dreadful moaning sound – “Caaaassshhh!”. We’re at war here and on the losing side.



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RE: Financial Dommes - 12/3/2012 5:50:06 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		So ignore them with you know, that little thing called your mind. It bothers you that much to see them? What do you do in public when you see something or someone you don't like?


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RE: Financial Dommes - 12/3/2012 6:08:24 PM   
AllisonWilder


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Peetie

Can anyone put me right on this. Are financial Dommes genuinely exploring a part of the lifestyle, or are they simply looking for easy money. Is it possible that a number of them could be based in distant countries working in a 'mill' under duress trying to milk subs?
peetie


The real financial dommes aren't just out for the cash and they incorporate a hell of a lot more into their D/s dynamic than just "fuck you, pay Me." Block and move on.

If they're contacting you for tribute (because finDommes shouldn't be running around contacting people--I know I don't) then report them and move on.

There is no mill. We are not under duress. You'll learn to weed out the obvious fakes and hit ignore. I personally hide every findomme profile that I see that asks for cash and/or gifts up front. That's tacky as hell.

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