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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/4/2012 8:26:33 PM

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Would someone please TRANSLATE that for me? Ugh.

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/4/2012 8:31:25 PM

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What part of my post needs translating?

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/4/2012 9:23:51 PM

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Wow, OP. Just wow.

First off, DS is right. If you are handing out your banking info for somebody to clean you out, stop calling yourself a Master until you manage day to day life without being a guy who has to pay women to pay attention to him. At this point, I'm not even sure you are able to handle internet dating, much less a kinky lifestyle.

Second, go to a munch. There are lots of real people there who are actually doing these things and living their lives this way. When the reality of that hits whatever fantasy that you've got going on and the fantasy gets blown away as BS, take what you learn from the munch and fix up your profile. It will make you more attractive to women if you have a realistic approach.

FOR GOD'S SAKE, PUT PANTS ON!!!!! A high majority of women have absolutely no interest in seeing somebody naked that they don't know. Naked pics along with fantasy stuff on the profile ATTRACTS people who are less than sincere because they can tell just by what you've got out there that you don't know what you are doing about internet dating.

Last but not least, please remember the most valuable tip. If you don't have much luck dating in the vanilla world, don't expect to be Casanova in the kink world.

ETA - By the way, nobody is going to take you seriously with all of those "expert" designations. Keep the expert selections for those that you have extensive experience in or are teaching in the BDSM community.

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/4/2012 10:52:00 PM

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I spit coffee on my computer... I need to stop drinking when I'm here reading.

OP try and think of it this way. Would you walk up to a woman and rip your cloths off and say hi? If not than maybe some pics with your cloths on is a good idea? If you would I would suggest you keep cash in a "Please come bail me out of jail" fund.

Second you gave your bank account info to a stranger! Dude what the hell are you thinking! I don't give that info to anyone let alone people I only know from a few chat experiences on the net.

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/4/2012 11:22:01 PM

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Not drianed like that just.....

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 12:08:21 AM

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there is no hope for you if you are not going to take suggestions from people who have been here alot longer than you. if you wouldn't do it at the neighborhood bar, don't do it here. don't strip down and show everyone your junk, i'm sure it's not that impressive. don't brag about being an expert when you're not, people will think you're a jerk. don't give anyone your personal information, you're just asking to be taken advantage of in a big way. if you want real people, learn how to act like one. otherwise you're out there looking like an easy mark. when you stand on a street corner and waive a handful of money someone's bound to try to rob you, so don't be too surprised when it happens. read some profiles to get ideas on how to write a good profile and leave the fantasy to erotic novelists. this isn't a meat market, you don't walk in and place an order and have the perfect bottom delivered. take time to make friendships, build relationships and educate yourself, it can be very worthwhile.

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 1:33:45 AM

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99% of the ppl here is fake everyone know that lol

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 2:27:03 AM

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99% of the ppl here is fake everyone know that lol

If everyone is fake then you are wasting your time posting about it. Fake people don't care- it's like replying to those spam emails about penis enlargement. No real person to read it.

Also they won't become any more real if you complain about it.

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 2:35:54 AM

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Maybe you think that way because your profile is so lame. You whine that life is boring and you have no lifestyle interests on your list. You give no one a reason to contact you other than to con you out of your money.

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 3:41:37 AM

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If writing clealry is over your head, some awsome photos of you doing things (clothed and non kink) could show a potental girl that you're more then... what your current profile shows...

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 3:54:32 AM

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The photograph of your penis with what appears to be some sort of lesion on the head is really repulsive.

Put some pants on, make an appointment with a urologist and get your manly bits fixed up before embarking on a search for a woman.

And, for god's sake, don't give out your bank account information to strangers on the internet. Wow. Just. Wow.

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 3:57:14 AM

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Im sorry but my first instinct is someone is having a laugh, or a poor attempt to.
Using someone elses pic, lousy and I mean beyond embarrassing spelling. etc etc
just my two cents

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 4:19:15 AM

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Profile screams fake, wannabe, and easily scammed. Put some clothes on, go see your GP about that lesion, take an English language class, and do some soul searching to confirm that you are dominant. I know this thread is ask a Master, but as a sub the only thing your profile does is make me snort apple juice out of my nose!

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 4:23:36 AM

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quote:

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Im sorry but my first instinct is someone is having a laugh, or a poor attempt to.
Using someone elses pic, lousy and I mean beyond embarrassing spelling. etc etc
just my two cents

Ya.

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 4:26:36 AM

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quote:

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quote:

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Im sorry but my first instinct is someone is having a laugh, or a poor attempt to.
Using someone elses pic, lousy and I mean beyond embarrassing spelling. etc etc
just my two cents

Ya.

You have always been a smart lady

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 4:37:03 AM

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I'm not sure, but I hear the best strategy for avoiding fakes is making sure to let everyone know you will give out bank information to the right pair of tits.

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 4:39:17 AM

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I dunno. I didn't get my panties wadded over the fab four debacle the way so many did. I only got annoyed at the vitrol that was spewed.

Honestly, on here, I more than half expect people to be misrepresenting themselves, have more than one profile, etc etc etc....... It's almost the internet way.

Example........I wouldn't be one bit bothered to find, that fine ass is a stock photo and not belonging to the person posting. I would be bothered if there was a full blown witch hunt to destroy you and polluting the forums with vicious spewage, just because people discovered that it was not your ass, but instead a stock photo attached to a second account created by another poster. It all just isn't worth it.

If I believe ,give a damn, and was wrong......too bad for me. If I make it everyone else's problem, creating negative drama over it..... it reflects badly on me, and those that jump on my destruction band wagon.

Sure, I've had people contact me on the other side. that misrepresented themselves. There has even been one or two that created a momentary 'bummer' pang. But it's all part of the gig. No different than going out to the bars, years ago, believing the person that talked themselves up, hopping in their car to spend the night thinking you really scored, only to wake up the next morning to a whole different reality. People lying to score, whatever their goal is, isn't a new phenom. It's just that the net gives them a different angle to do it.

Anyone that believes everything everyone tells them is the rube, not the person doing the telling. The person doing the telling is ultimately going to get what's coming to them. If the OP is genuine (which I doubt but..........whatever) gave away money, it's his fault. He didn't give it to a fake. If the person was 'fake', he'd still have his money. He simply believed a fairytale a very real person told him. Because HE WANTED TO.

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 4:48:39 AM

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I rarely responded to the fab four.
Ive never made an attempt to say my avs are me. not once, and yes I often get attacked for using them. Shrug n move on. their issue, their problem.
I rarely get mixed up in crap that goes on in anything other than P&R.
Im far from perfect, but different strokes for different folks
Never bothered to have a second profile either, I have enough on my plate as it is.
THis particular one scream at me that its someone takin the piss. I could be wrong... I dont give that much of a damn tho

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 4:59:24 AM

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Next you'll be saying I'm not a wonton hussy. *waiting*

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RE: where do you find non fakes - 12/5/2012 5:08:24 AM

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Why on earth would I say that you wonton hussy..
mmmmmmm wontons
yummy hussy:)

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