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xLaChienne -> RE: Profile Problems (12/7/2012 3:42:21 PM)
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ORIGINAL: JanMikal
...what, perhaps, I am doing wrong.
So I can only imagine it must be my profile. If any of you would be so kind as to have a look, I would very much appreciate it if you would message me with your thoughts, and how I can improve my chances.
Between your profile and your responses on this thread you don't want anyone to help you, you want someone to validate you. To say that you are wonderful, as is, and the whole wide world must be blind that they can't see it! Perhaps they are mired down in PCness and can't see the goldmine that is you.
But let's be honest. You ain't getting laid. If you were, you wouldn't care whether or not you were getting responses or messages on here. The big, bad truth that many just can't accept is that if you ain't got the skills off line to get what you need then it translates on line, where that lack of skills is exacerbated. Let's face it, if you can't even get the high number of bi bois to look twice at you, the ones who are desperate for any attention - then yeah, the problem is most definitely you.
You appear to be socially inept. Instead of graciously taken the advice given, reflecting on it, and making changes that could actually help you - you defend, project, dismiss, and accuse. None of which are alpha traits. None.
If you want to improve your chances to get what it is that you think you want and need, I would suggest doing some self reflection and taking some classes on interpersonal interaction, social dynamics, women's studies, and learning to navigate the world in a way that will get you that which you think you want and need.
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