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nakedfreedom -> Financial Dommes vs. Prostitution (12/7/2012 9:45:07 AM)
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We all know that financial dommes exist in the BDSM realm. But how can anyone tell the difference between a financial domme and a prostitute? The question is almost as similar as the difference between a guy desperate to get off and another guy who really wants to explore. Or it could be a "Domme" who expects to be served without even a frank conversation about boundaries and expectations. Both parties are looking for nothing more than a quick fix. It's frustrating because it's hard to tell. Just read the journals members have placed online. We usually tell them to fuck off.
Anyone can go into Videochat and ask for money to view their cam. It's none of Collarme's business as long as they don't ask for money publicly. Try quoting your prices in the Videochat room and admin will threaten to kick you out. On the flip side, it's hard for people who come here just to socialize. They might find an angry "financial domme" who expects to get paid the second you click the cam. A few months ago, I had one young woman who became insulting after I merely asked, "How are you?". How dare I try to start a conversation and not even pay a dime for it? My answer: A collarme member who is using the site for what whom it was made.
So, who has right of way on Collarme? Should members ask to pay before viewing a cam? Or should members expect not to pay? Is it to be expected to have to sift through the profile to see who wants money for a conversation? Should "financial dommes" publicly insult a member in the public room if they express frustration over this issue? If financial dommes truley exist, are they anything like the dom/dommes who enjoy this lifestyle?
That could be a good way of knowing the difference between a financial domme and a prostitute. A financial dom/domme - like any other dom/domme - might try to establish a relationship. They might try to communicate boundaries and expectations. If not, they are they any different that the individuals who expect to play right at "Hello". Is there a difference between asking for a quick orgasm or a quick buck? If so, what's the difference?
Prostitution is the difference. Most guys and gals who visit prostitutes want something quick and easy. They don't care about each other. They may not even like each other. Their simply offering a sexual service. A financial dom/domme - like any other - seem to strive more than that. They may even want some kind of relationship.
That's the difference between a financial domme and a prostitute. And that's why I'll tell you to fuck off. I'll tell you to fuck off just as I would tell any Domme or sub to fuck off if they expect to role-play at "hello". That's why I would call you a prostitute. And that's why members who tell a "financial domme" to get lost should be given right of way on the site.
Go and make your money some place else. My guess would be "erotice services".
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