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questions for all Mistress - 6/17/2006 2:29:25 AM   
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RE: questions for all Mistress - 6/17/2006 3:27:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not sure why you would want to? But if you are looking for relaxation techniques then perhaps you can try anal plugs on occasion?
 
To much anal play will eventually loosen the muscles... but try to keep in mind that those particular muscles are used to keep feces from sneaking out every time you sneeze... so I wouldn't suggest over-doing it.
 
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RE: questions for all Mistress - 6/17/2006 4:00:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		Jewels right or try anal Beads they will help too.

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RE: questions for all Mistress - 6/17/2006 5:44:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		You might want to look into "anal kegels" or "anal breathing", which while neither is intended to loosen, both will help you gain an increased awareness of what the muscles are doing back there, which should lead to more control over relaxation.

If you are looking into this with someone, finger play during other activities (ie during oral sex or a hand job) which have you relaxed and thinking about other things are a good first introduction to anal insertion.  If you are alone experimenting a small dildo or butt plug might be more suitable.  Keep in mind that if using a dildo one with a wider base is best, or being careful of overinserting is necessary.  You really don't want to "loose" it.  Either way, be patient with yourself and don't forget the lube! 

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RE: questions for all Mistress - 6/17/2006 7:09:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with Jewel. You may want to start with a smaller plug and work your way up to a larger one. Do not leave in for extended amounts of time, just about 20 minutes at a time. If you are having problems holding it in place, try wearing a G string <s> It helps alot.

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RE: questions for all Mistress - 6/17/2006 7:53:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ncheckrequired

what is the best way to lossen my ass hole with out having the real thing?


Just find a strapon training domme and let her show you.

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RE: questions for all Mistress - 6/17/2006 1:31:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel

I'm not sure why you would want to? But if you are looking for relaxation techniques then perhaps you can try anal plugs on occasion?
 
To much anal play will eventually loosen the muscles... but try to keep in mind that those particular muscles are used to keep feces from sneaking out every time you sneeze... so I wouldn't suggest over-doing it.
 
Jewel



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