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RE: Friends With Someone's Dom or Sub - 12/10/2012 12:20:15 PM

littleone35

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To the OP niohing is wring with takjing in a friendly way to others. If it strays into topices you don't ant to discuess just tell them. if they don;t stop then don't talk to that aerson anymore, easy enoough., problem sloved.

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RE: Friends With Someone's Dom or Sub - 12/12/2012 10:25:10 AM

TwistedChange

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Also be aware that you could be being used as Jealousy Fodder. Some Doms will happily tell their subs who they talk to online and make a point of creating jealousy, whilst the sub herself isn't allowed to talk to anyone.
Gotta love that 'I will do what I want and screw your feelings' attitude in some Doms.

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RE: Friends With Someone's Dom or Sub - 12/12/2012 12:40:03 PM

JeffBC

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Not all of us are so insecure that the term "poacher" even has any meaning. So be a good friend and if someone ends up having a melodramatic meltdown over it then good thing you found that out sooner rather than later.

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RE: Friends With Someone's Dom or Sub - 12/18/2012 5:27:22 AM

subseekstheone

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I am Friends with a former Master and have befriend a couple of others but all with my Master knowledge.
I know all of the ettiquet that should happen while i am talking to any of Them.
As far as their sub or slave are concerned i have no idea how they feel.
If there is a problem then it will either be mentioned by the Masters including mine or handled within their Dynamic.

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