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Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/8/2012 4:04:37 PM

Jk2010

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Hello everyone

I'm new here and looking for attention of course. I'm from Dayton Ohio. How does my profile picture do? Does it spark interest? I'm trying to get creative!

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/8/2012 4:08:08 PM

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Oh dear.

Please see this thread from earlier today. It should fully answer all of your questions.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4318109/tm.htm

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/8/2012 4:11:39 PM

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Not really. Looks like the other 324,097,789,654 headless torsos on the site. The fact that you have a roll of socks in your shorts (or whatever) is a negative. Get a decent face photo in which you're fully clothed and smiling. Or, at the very least, showing you engaged in a vanilla hobby or sport. That will attract more attention than what you have now.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/8/2012 4:16:08 PM

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No interest at all. The photo is kind of boring. I would much rather see your smiling face and a well thought out profile. I don't know, maybe I am the minority but that is what would interest me.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/8/2012 4:22:05 PM

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Honestly....I am sorry, but on this site..naked chest, scantily clad body, erotic photo doesn't even make me stop unless I am reading your profile or have been intrigued by a posting. It is the equivalent of living in a nudist colony...it is so common, you just don't think about it. If you want to spark interest, I would not worry about the photo as long as it is not unflattering. (I.e. if you are a Dom, don't post a pic of you cuddling your cat or of you doing ballet...if you are a sub..no pics of you with your gun collection or posing with the 10 point buck you killed). You want attention? Your hook is that profile. Don't rant or give a laundry list of what you don't like in women. Don't describe in detail your sexual fantasies. Use the old "who, what, where and why". Briefly answer those questions including just enough interesting detail. You don't have to be Mr Sunshine but do keep it positive, friendly and open.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/8/2012 4:23:55 PM

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To me it's just a photo of some guy trying to bring attention to his dick. Which means you think that's the most important thing about you.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/8/2012 4:42:56 PM

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As the OP asked for profile pic feedback, this thread has been moved to Ask a Submissive.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/8/2012 4:46:42 PM

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Does nothing for me. I see some tats and a pair of blue shorts. oh blah dee oh blah dah life goes on

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/8/2012 5:29:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VideoAdminChi

As the OP asked for profile pic feedback, this thread has been moved to Ask a Submissive.

And the profile itself has been moved to Lord knows where.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/8/2012 8:40:20 PM

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aaawww...you all hurt his feelings! Bad bad people!

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/9/2012 8:05:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

aaawww...you all hurt his feelings! Bad bad people!

They should be beaten...harshly...with al dente spaghettini.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/9/2012 8:10:45 AM

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quote:

with al dente spaghettini.

Mmmmm. Al dente pasta. With Rao's Marinara sauce and grated Pecorino Romano cheese. Yes!!

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/9/2012 10:32:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

aaawww...you all hurt his feelings! Bad bad people!

It's a group made of sadists and people that like spankings. I would expect nothing less.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/9/2012 10:42:36 AM

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was someone looking for some humiliation?

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/9/2012 10:47:47 AM

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Yawns.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/12/2012 9:20:17 PM

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Looks like he picked up his balls and went home.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/15/2012 1:35:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

If you want to spark interest, I would not worry about the photo as long as it is not unflattering. (I.e. if you are a Dom, don't post a pic of you cuddling your cat or of you doing ballet...if you are a sub..no pics of you with your gun collection or posing with the 10 point buck you killed). ... You don't have to be Mr Sunshine but do keep it positive, friendly and open.

Hello Knotts -
And why not? There was a guy on here awhile back who had a photo with his dog that made me all gooey. If a man is that sensitive with his pet, imagine how he'll be with me! Ooooo... squee! the gun collection - I think is against TOS, but I'm not sure. And if a fellow is into gals who are hunters, they will be overwhelmed with joy at the buck.

Some would say that using a handle that is a direct order is not the most submissive thing to do but are you really going to change your name because of it? Or are you going to keep your "topping from the bottom" name?

I'm not trying to attack you, but I am saying that just because *you* don't like it, doesn't mean *all* folks don't. Granted *most* gals don't like the sexy photos, and frankly I'm sure I've told fellows in the past that they are not the best choice in visual stimulation for las chicas, but the very specific stuff, the things that show *personality* (like cats and hunting)? Go for it I say! Frankly, I don't really want a guy who is all into hunting. Just not my personal cup of tea, and I appreciate the heads up with photos or info that show that. I love poetry and multi-culturalism. That is abundantly clear on my profile. Some good ole boy who doesn't have a passport and has no clue about Pablo Neruda or Rumi or e.e. cummings or Fifty Cent or Lao Tsu will probably be just as glad to see the obvious information on my profile.

best wishes,
sunshine
(I wouldn't mind if Mr. Sunshine were to appear, ahem)

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/15/2012 8:57:32 AM

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True. Master has pics of himself with his kitties. I think it's cute and he adores his cats to the point sometimes I get jealous of them.

And there are a few women on here and those I know in real life who seem to be attracted to photos of men with their guns and a 10 point buck. Then again, I grew up in the boondocks. I know more women who like that than the ones I like. Oh and a photo of him doing ballet? Could be hot depending on the man...think Mikhail Baryshnikov. That could be hot.

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/15/2012 10:37:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder
. Oh and a photo of him doing ballet? Could be hot depending on the man...think Mikhail Baryshnikov. That could be hot.

Lmao should I be shocked you're turned on by a guy that's openly referred to as a sadistic bastard?

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RE: Does My Profile Pic Spark Interest? - 12/15/2012 2:25:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
True. Master has pics of himself with his kitties.

Exacty! And who in their right mind could take Kana seriously as either a dominant or a sadist right?

Me, I think I'll go with that whole tried and true dominant thing of "how about I just be me". In my case, apparently, that involves lace thong underwear.

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