JeffBC
Posts: 5799
Joined: 2/12/2012 From: Canada Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I still think we should change his forum status back to vanilla....just to scare the newbies.... LOL. all I know is that I happen to like animals and I'm more than happy to add "snuggling kitties" onto the giant list of things that prove my undomliness. In a more serious vein though, how I'd say it is.. It is a true story that you subs seem be very willing to connect actions with mindsets. So action X becomes "dominant" and action Y becomes "submissive". Any sub who thought that way is automatically a really poor match for me. I can only imagine the first time I go and do some action that she thinks is "submissive" and so she tries to tell me not to do that any more. Right about then is when she'd learn what the word "dominant" means. This is why I think people should write their profiles the way THEY want to rather than the way they think will appeal to some theoretical "broad audience". I don't want to appeal to a broad audience. I want to appeal to the right audience.
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I'm a lover of "what is", not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality. -- Bryon Katie "You're humbly arrogant" -- sunshinemiss officially a member of the K Crowd
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