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RE: Kicks just keep getting harder to find... - 12/12/2012 3:34:11 AM

graceadieu

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Are her tears and pain for her pleasure or yours?

One idea, if it's the latter: don't bother with warm-up or foreplay. Just lay her down and go straight into the caning or whatever you like to do.

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RE: Kicks just keep getting harder to find... - 12/12/2012 7:30:25 AM

SimplyMichael

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You might try doing a few things to manipulate her headspace before you get home and or experiment with some rituals.

Text/call her with some terms of endearment. Tell her to.bathe and prepare herself. Instruct her to.lay out special toys. Prepare the space. Upon your arrival have her in a position, be ready with a drink or a collar, be dressed in a certain way. Those steps can be powerful. When you find ones that work, rituakize them and they become even more so.

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RE: Kicks just keep getting harder to find... - 12/12/2012 10:28:43 AM

absolutchocolat

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caning on the soles of the feet always gets me (and others i've tried it on) into subspace.

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RE: Kicks just keep getting harder to find... - 12/12/2012 11:50:38 AM

SimplyMichael