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CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 7:18:52 AM   
OmegaCuck


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Status: offline 		Cuckolding has evolved from what was a married man whose wife cheated on him. But in reality it is the primal desire of women to mate with Alpha Males over Beta or Omega males. But women still have a need for males they can use to serve their needs beyond sexual -- to do things an Alpha male will not do. So whereas Beta and Omega males cannot sexually fulfill them these women seek Alpha Male boyfriends. So a woman can be submissive to a real man Alpha male while dominating a cuckold submissive male.

In Cuckolding, the woman can have multiple boyfriends but the cuckold is faithful only to her. Sex between a woman an a cuckold is determined by the women. It can be complete or partial Chasity for the cuckold or the cuckold only serves her orally. Her Alpha boyfriend can also determine what if any physical contact is allowed between the female and the cuckold.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 7:33:08 AM   
poise


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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 7:37:28 AM   
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You're one of those "alpha" males that all women have a "primal urge" to mate with?

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 7:39:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		WTF? I signed up for General Chemistry and this sounds like Cuckolding 101. Is this Andreeson Hall, or am I in the wrong room?

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 7:40:07 AM   
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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 7:42:21 AM   
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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 8:15:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		Lovely explanation of the way that you see cuckolding. Any particular reason you are offering it to those of us who are familiar with the practice and/or enjoy that kink?


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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 8:36:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Lovely explanation of the way that you see cuckolding. Any particular reason you are offering it to those of us who are familiar with the practice and/or enjoy that kink?



Or those of us to whom it holds no appeal what so ever? Because it certainly doesn't belong in the General BDSM category.


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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 8:45:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah, I always wonder why these fellas dont ever come out here and explain motorcycle maintenance or how to change your oil, something of a more general interest.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 9:36:02 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
Or those of us to whom it holds no appeal what so ever? Because it certainly doesn't belong in the General BDSM category.

I'd still think it should be here. It's emotional S/m for some people. Certainly it's related to the authority that the female has in the situation.



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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 9:41:04 AM   
SeekingTrinity


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Status: offline 		Oh thank God someone cleared it up! Here I thought it was the way we were supposed to hold chickens or something. I wasnt having any of that though. I dont hold chicken unless its on a plate covered in marinara and a Parmesan/mozzarella cheese blend. Im sooooooo glad you cleared this up, OP.

Now can the rest of the Deltas and I finally get off double secret probation?

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 9:55:10 AM   
meatcleaver


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ORIGINAL: OmegaCuck

Cuckolding has evolved from what was a married man whose wife cheated on him. But in reality it is the primal desire of women to mate with Alpha Males over Beta or Omega males. But women still have a need for males they can use to serve their needs beyond sexual -- to do things an Alpha male will not do. So whereas Beta and Omega males cannot sexually fulfill them these women seek Alpha Male boyfriends. So a woman can be submissive to a real man Alpha male while dominating a cuckold submissive male.

In Cuckolding, the woman can have multiple boyfriends but the cuckold is faithful only to her. Sex between a woman an a cuckold is determined by the women. It can be complete or partial Chasity for the cuckold or the cuckold only serves her orally. Her Alpha boyfriend can also determine what if any physical contact is allowed between the female and the cuckold.


Actually you have it the wrong way round. Alpha males are usually the cuckolded in my experience. Over the years I have had a couple of relationships with women I could not keep to the level they are accustomed to. While their partners were making loads of money in the City of London, the women were in my studio spending his money on my art and taking time out to have a little attention spent on them that their partner's didn't have time for. Now whether these alpha males knew their partners were playing away I'm not sure but one said to me, her partner knew how highly sexed she was and he wasn't giving it to her so he must know she is being satisfied somewhere or he just isn't paying attention.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 10:46:16 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		In nature, its the alpha that gets cuckolded...

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 11:24:45 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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ORIGINAL: OmegaCuck

Cuckolding has evolved from what was a married man whose wife cheated on him. But in reality it is the primal desire of women to mate with Alpha Males over Beta or Omega males. But women still have a need for males they can use to serve their needs beyond sexual -- to do things an Alpha male will not do. So whereas Beta and Omega males cannot sexually fulfill them these women seek Alpha Male boyfriends. So a woman can be submissive to a real man Alpha male while dominating a cuckold submissive male.

In Cuckolding, the woman can have multiple boyfriends but the cuckold is faithful only to her. Sex between a woman an a cuckold is determined by the women. It can be complete or partial Chasity for the cuckold or the cuckold only serves her orally. Her Alpha boyfriend can also determine what if any physical contact is allowed between the female and the cuckold.


Can you explain to me the distinction between Alpha, Beta and Omega males? Because I don't understand why a woman would marry a man that wasn't 'alpha' in her eyes. Dom, sub, or vanilla, I'm only interested in the man that's the best according to my own definition. If my husband wasn't the best option, I wouldn't be off screwing other better quality men, I'd be married to one of them instead.

I realise that sounds a bit snarky but that's not my intention, I don't know how else to phrase it. I can understand the appeal of having someone faithful to you while you have others, or the thrill of submission or humiliation for the sub. But I don't understand the suggestion that she is married to someone she genuinely sees as inferior. If we were into cuckolding, I'd be doing it for the satisfaction of both me, and my awesome partner, who deserves satisfaction.

I must be misunderstanding, it sounds similar to the whole 'slave submits because they are worthless' which goes against my idea of a good D/s relationship.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 11:31:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		I just want to hear more about this alpha, beta, omega and god-only-knows-what-other-categories-might-exist business. I'm deathly afraid this is going to show up on some pop quiz and I'm going to lose yet more manliness points somehow. When I was much younger I never did learn the difference between all those damned bases and how they related to girls. To this day I still don't know and I'm sure it's scarred me for life. I just don't want a repeat of that with this whole alpha, beta, omega thingamabob.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 11:41:33 AM   
coldslayer


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Status: offline 		mmm alpha males. yum

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 12:08:59 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		I just figured Alpha males could NOT keep a woman for themselves so they had to screw other men's women.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 2:29:40 PM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: OmegaCuck
But in reality it is the primal desire of women to mate with Alpha Males over Beta or Omega males.

Both men and women have affairs, and engage in emotional cheating. I think the numbers are about the same for both sexes. However, when it comes to BDSM cuckolding, the cases I am aware of have been 99% the man's idea, pushing the woman to find another guy so that the wannabe-sub could realize his fantasy. I know a few relationships this has wrecked.

I've asked a few longtime scene players how many successful, healthy cuckold relationships they know in real life. The answers have been things like "One," or, "Two."

This doesn't appear to be a fantasy that translates very well to real life. Also, the women I've run into who are genuinely into it are ones who already have a boyfriend and want to find a finslave to pay for their dates. So it's closely related to online findomme. Probably not what you're talking about OP, because you sound more old-school to me. Still, if you have real-life experience that supports your OP, please post about it. I've more or less seen the opposite of what you describe: it's a primal desire of some men, and they talk women into trying it out.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 2:35:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Both men and women have affairs, and engage in emotional cheating. I think the numbers are about the same for both sexes. However, when it comes to BDSM cuckolding, the cases I am aware of have been 99% the man's idea, pushing the woman to find another guy so that the wannabe-sub could realize his fantasy. I know a few relationships this has wrecked.



I haven't got the stamina to google but I am sure a couple of years ago a prominent American university did a study on adultry and found women were more likely to have an affair than men by a ratio of 3-2.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 2:43:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: meatcleaver
I haven't got the stamina to google but I am sure a couple of years ago a prominent American university did a study on adultry and found women were more likely to have an affair than men by a ratio of 3-2.

Hm. Did the study differentiate between "cheating" and "having an affair?" My total and utter guess would be that men are more likely than women to cheat with one night stands or prostitutes, and women are more likely than men to have an affair (meaning multiple dates with the same person).

Also, maybe the most interesting question with respect to this particular OP: were the women dating "up" or dating "down" when they had these affairs? Not that I buy into some linear structure like Alpha-Beta-Omega, but general question: does the woman stray because she is attracted to power, or because she wants companionship?

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