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I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/15/2012 10:41:01 PM   
lovinglyhers


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Status: offline 		I met a lady on this site I adore & I do mean lady but she's 20 yrs my jr. Is it appropriate for me to be part of her stable until a time when she finds a significant other & dismisses me?

Do any of you ladies have older subs in your stables?

We haven't met in person yet but that's pending.

She's intelligent, mature, compassionate & understanding. She's also very lovely. I can learn & grow a great deal just being around her.

The only drawback I see if we do become intimate, she likes to receive Tim jobs! I fail to see the pleasure she derives from thi but I suppose I can learn to do it. There's a lot of bacteria there do I'll have to keep a mouthwash ready in case she wants cunnilingus too.

Thank you ladies.
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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 12:37:11 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		1) If you're happy and she's happy, everyone's happy.
2) stable? Tends to strike me as a bit of a fantasy term, which, combined with her being wonderful in every way and much younger and you never having met her in person, leads me to say 'don't get overexcited until you have met in the flesh'
3) if rim jobs (I'm assuming you mean rim jobs, or that a Tim job is very similar) are a limit for you, say so.
4) there will be other draw backs, because human beings are flawed creatures. Doesn't mean that on balance she can't be awesome.

Are you content with a relationship where you know you will be ditched when a better offer comes along? Think hard about that, since it sounds like she will be continuing to date and look for other options.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 3:43:43 AM   
SophiaMaam


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Status: offline 		I honestly wouldn't invest too much of yourself until you meet face to face and start spending time together, face to face.

It's a huge leap from talking on the internet to being what each of you perceives the other to be in person.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 6:24:46 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		ROFLMAO! Boy oh boy OP, you sure don't get it even when we have tried to tell you how to get it. Nothing like an older man seeking out the youthful, ever mature lady that might cater to his fantasy. You ask if its appropriate? Well, if older guys trying to get a fantasy fix go to younger women promising it, why the hell not? Keeps you fantasy stuck men away from us older ladies that won't cater to you. Or it should.

First it was queening and smothering your way with a nick name that would cause severe eye rolling in any lifestyle domina and now stables of men.

Dude... go to the younger domina and ask her, stop trying to push your fantasy upon us and involve us when you can't take anything but your own foolishness and kink seriously.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 6:25:51 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		My vote is this excitement is all in your head, when you meet in person (if she shows up) you will be told you look like her dad. This along with the stable thing makes me think pure fiction...have you been giving her money?

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 6:27:21 AM   
coldslayer


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Status: offline 		I love older men in my stable but yuck. i dont let just anyone lick my ass. groty.

anyways you made it seem as if you met in person. this thread is way too premature until then.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 6:31:13 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		You're head over heels for some woman that you haven't even met, and it sounds like the attraction is purely physical.

Is she local to you? If not, she's about to ask for money for a plane ticket...

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 6:33:30 AM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovinglyhers
The only drawback I see if we do become intimate, she likes to receive Tim jobs!

I wonder if you mean she likes to receive Steve Jobs, in which case I can see the drawback.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 6:33:37 AM   
PrincessDonna11


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Status: offline 		This messege board is going rabid!

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 6:33:49 AM   
coldslayer


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ORIGINAL: PrincessDonna11

This messege board is going rabid!

lol. cute shirt/dress

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 6:45:34 AM   
SeekingTrinity


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From: The 'burbs of Portland, OR
Status: offline 		Why are you asking a bunch of people who dont know you about the appropriateness of what you are electing to do with your own life? Its YOUR life and YOU have to live with the consequences of whatever decision you make. Unless this was more of a bragging about netting a woman 20 years younger than you? Now lets just say for hypothetical reasons that she does actually exist, isnt a scammer looking to make your wallet lighter, and isnt a dude with a penis that will rival the size of yours. I cant imagine why what I or anyone else thinks would matter as far as your life goes. Just be wary when things seem too good to be true...

I wouldnt get all hot and bothered just yet. You havent met in person, so you have no idea what (if anything) would come from this meeting. Its a vastly different worlds...the online fantasy world and the reality world. People can talk a good game and be whatever you want them to be online. But have a harder time backing up their game when you are face to face with them. Slow your roll, player.






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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 6:52:01 AM   
Lockit


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quote:

ORIGINAL: PrincessDonna11

This messege board is going rabid!


Please tell us you are offering to cater to his fantasy. Then you both would be busy and we wouldn't have to hear his fantasy or your complaints. I've said it before and will say it again. Add something to it darlin. You are here... typing... you can do it. It just may take a few more minutes and you can refine this place.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 6:53:58 AM   
RemoteUser


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Status: offline 		It's only about age when you make it that way. Considering my girl is over a decade younger than me, I know it can work. Think compatibility (which is not solely derived from age) and go from there. If you work together well, go for it.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 11:32:30 AM   
saundrakitty


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Status: offline 		OP..I have to agree with everyone else and say that I personally would not put to much into this until you both meet for the first time and begin the Real Talks face to face. Internet aside- it really gets started when you meet some one- talking on line is fine as a starting point But..investing you're emotions based on her words on line- well you should by now know better. Now as for age- that does not matter, and should only matter if it bothers either one of you. I have a sub that I am in the stages of getting to know and He's younger then me- does it bother me? NO it does not. I had another sub in the past that was also younger then me by 20 yrs- but when he was deployed we no longer are together- but We are still friends and Talk.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/16/2012 11:59:39 AM   
theRose4U


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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise


quote:

ORIGINAL: lovinglyhers
The only drawback I see if we do become intimate, she likes to receive Tim jobs!

I wonder if you mean she likes to receive Steve Jobs, in which case I can see the drawback.

Ill do a multi-billionaire, even an old one but I draw the lines waaaaaaaaaaayyyy before dead ones

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/18/2012 12:08:59 AM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		OP,
Stable? Seriously dude? You're worried about her stable and giving her rim jobs when you haven't even MET her yet? This is just too funny. You are getting WAY ahead of yourself here. Get to know her in person before you start worrying about licking her ass. lol

Right now, this is just online fantasy and you don't know if you two will even be able to stomach each other in person. A person can be anything she or he wants to be online. They can be completely something else in reality. Wow.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/18/2012 10:09:17 AM   
cariadbach


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Status: offline 		What i do not understand about this thread is peoples issues with rim jobs? I mean.. Really? A clean ass is a happy ass.

Good luck lovilnglyhers, Hope your lady & her stable are all they seem to be..

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/18/2012 1:22:55 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		I have no problem with rim jobs at all, cariadbach. But I won't let just anyone lick my ass.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/18/2012 1:35:35 PM   
Marc2b


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Status: offline 		I'm just here because I'm wondering what the hell a "Tim job" is?

Is that some sort of weird Canadian fetish involving Tim Horton donuts?

On second thought, maybe I don't want to know.

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RE: I met someone wonderful on this site but... - 12/18/2012 1:49:26 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		lol

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