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High tolerance question - 12/18/2012 9:25:58 PM

HighThreshhold

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SO I have a high tolerance for pain, I've always known this and recently I demonstrated this to my friends. They are both doms and spent a lot of time beating me with all manner of devices whips riding crops flogs ect and with little result, I laughed off most of it, (I'm extremely ticklish) and the rest I barely felt at all. I'm just curious as to whether this frustrates dominant women, or do they consider it a challenge?

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RE: High tolerance question - 12/18/2012 9:45:14 PM

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I can't speak for anyone else, but I'd consider it boring. Unless you're offering superior service that includes anything and everything from washing dishes to landscaping, I'd probably move on to a more interesting playmate.

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RE: High tolerance question - 12/18/2012 9:53:30 PM

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quote:

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SO I have a high tolerance for pain, I've always known this and recently I demonstrated this to my friends. They are both doms and spent a lot of time beating me with all manner of devices whips riding crops flogs ect and with little result, I laughed off most of it, (I'm extremely ticklish) and the rest I barely felt at all. I'm just curious as to whether this frustrates dominant women, or do they consider it a challenge?

I would call it an unusually rare medical condition & not one really attractive to me. If there is such a thing as a sadistic bottom, think you would be it.

Don't even know that superior cooking or landscaping skill would make this appealing.mind fuck from the bottom?

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RE: High tolerance question - 12/18/2012 9:56:56 PM

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Are you tolerant to other pain outside of bdsm? If so this sounds like a medical condition and you should really get it checked.

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RE: High tolerance question - 12/18/2012 10:02:52 PM

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I especially enjoy the howls, squeals, yelps, and noises my partner makes in response to what I'm doing to him. If I'm looking him right in the eyes as I torture his nipples and he gasps and groans, it's very satisfying to me. If he just laughs it off, I'd very shortly get bored and it wouldn't be fun or satisfying for me at all. I'm not sure frustrating would be the word for me. Boring is more like it.

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RE: High tolerance question - 12/19/2012 7:36:07 AM

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I played with that type once as a favor to a friend (his "girlfriend" for lack of a better term). His gig was that he remained perfectly stoic, and if he remained so, he "won".

Well. To put it simply, I wasn't going to play that game. He was completely unable to remain stoic, to put it mildly. Prison straps will do that to a person ;-) He promptly declared it the "worst scene of his life" LOL I asked him - how good do you really think you are for your partner? Totally did not get it.

So yes boys....you need to do a lot more than just show up to be a "fun" person to play with.

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RE: High tolerance question - 12/19/2012 7:52:42 AM

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This OP sounded more like a fun night over a some friend's house where the guy double dog dared some dominant friends to be able to make him scream or cry. It didn't read to me like this was HIS dominants he did this to. It was actually just a fun little game to pass the time. Am I right, OP?

I have a high pain tolerance...sort of. I squirm, scream, cry, flinch, and all that good stuff, but it is usually some fairly intense stuff that will finally send me flying. That being said, there's some types of pain that are like a soothing massage to me. There are others that have me about to crawl out of my skin at the first sensation. Have you tried other things besides impact? Maybe cutting, needles, electric, or other different types of pain sensation? How about biting, pressure points, etc? If nothing works, then I'd be seeing a dr as already suggested. Reality is lots of subbies male and female get leatherbutt. It doesn't mean much except that you played too much in one way for too long.

Personally, I wouldn't have played your game. I would have tickled you til you wet yourself, or hit subspace, or both...

Then again, I actually am mean.

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RE: High tolerance question - 12/19/2012 5:52:49 PM

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It would depend on the individual Dominant if she enjoyed playing with a SAM (Smart Ass Masochist) or not. I would find a little of that amusing and definitely a challenge. On a regular basis, it would probably get old fast.

I am always amazed that often just don’t realize that dominants or submissives are real people with varying likes. What one likes the next may not.

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/5/2013 7:59:53 PM

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When I first got involved in the local community, I got somewhat of a reputation as a stoic, non-responsive bottom and didn't get much play for quite awhile. Then I played with a few of the more sadistic tops at the club and it was learned that I'm not stoic and I am very responsive. It just takes a little bit higher of an energy level before it gets fun.

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/6/2013 9:39:21 AM

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Not all Dominants want to inflict pain or are sadists.

I enjoy sensation play. Were I to get bored by your lack of response to pain but I noticed you were ticklish - well there are divine ways to torture a ticklish man.

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/6/2013 10:59:52 AM

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... but I noticed you were ticklish - well there are divine ways to torture a ticklish man.

This.

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/6/2013 11:07:34 AM

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I'd be fine with it, but then I'm not a sadist looking for a pain response. While I often enjoy other types of scenes, my primary interest in a bottom is the ability to stay still for as long as I need them to stay still.

Oh, but to add: If you were ticklish or trying to show off how impervious to pain you were I wouldn't bother with you at all.

Isn't an attitude I want to bother with. As said above, I've no interest in making you break or react to or feel pain. I just don't like the tone of the post's question so we probably wouldn't be a good fit personality-wise. Maybe it's just the way it's worded and we would, but that's the initial vibe I'm getting.

Also, yeah, I wouldn't feel it was a challege... again, no interest in making you hurt or react to the hurt.

When I'm cutting, piercing or stapling someone I don't care of they do or don't hurt. Just stay put until I'm done.

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/8/2013 10:56:21 AM

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Hello A/all,

Thanks for the insights!

I have always thought that (especially in public/party venues) the more stoic I was, the more proud my Mistress would be of me. I do not know what my pain tolerance really is. I did forget that it has to be fun for her too! Mea Culpa!

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/8/2013 11:18:58 AM

MistressDarkArt

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I have 1 word for you, threshold.

Electro.

Stoicism goes out the window when this dial goes to 11.

Generally speaking, I don't often enjoy inflicting pain. But when there's a call for it, electro gets the job done: no muss, no fuss, no blood, no marks. Skillfully done, it leaves an indelible (though invisible) impression on the receiver. It is an excellent training tool and attitude adjuster. It can then become a source of pleasure when the boy learns his lesson.

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/8/2013 11:50:56 AM

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Give some consideration to what MistressDarkArt and others have posted.
It sounds like impact-play isn't your thing.

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/8/2013 5:10:09 PM

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I guarantee I can ratchet up the pain past your ignore-the-pain tolerance level!

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/11/2013 6:38:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FelineFae

Give some consideration to what MistressDarkArt and others have posted.
It sounds like impact-play isn't your thing.

A very valid point here. Fact is, when I first started playing, it seemed like everybody was almost exclusively into the thuddy, heavy floggers. They do practically nothing for me. Bring out the singletails, violet wands and scalpels, on the other hand.....

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/11/2013 6:59:01 PM

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I do enjoy when a bottom / sub tells me something like BRING IT or you can't make me tap.
It's a challenge one of which I will gladly take. :) I remember watching a woman from the forums with her former daddy at the Crucible say the same thing to him and it was wonderful to watch him bring it. Lol

Id enjoy mixing tickling and pain with a bottom who liked both.

As a bottom / submissive in a session, I have an extremely high pain tolerance and am ticklish every where.

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/11/2013 6:59:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SnowRanger

Hello A/all,

Thanks for the insights!

I have always thought that (especially in public/party venues) the more stoic I was, the more proud my Mistress would be of me. I do not know what my pain tolerance really is. I did forget that it has to be fun for her too! Mea Culpa!

Respectfully,
Mike
SnowRanger

I for one enjoy the "stoic" response more than the squealing bawling response, especially form someone collared to me. His ability to present a collected front and endure the mistreatment is classier to me than being reduced to a pile of whimpering rubble at the slightest twitch and reflects more the kind of thing I wish to present of myself and my slave to the public eye.

For the OP, the answer to your question is "depends on the mistress" because I am not alone in my tastes. But you should get yourself checked out if the reason for your tolerance is that you can't feel the pain. If it is, on the other hand, because you don't mind it, how are you at actually serving as a submissive? ;)

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RE: High tolerance question - 1/13/2013 4:28:42 AM

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I'd get inventive

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