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DarkSteven -> RE: question for the Subs/Slaves women only (12/21/2012 5:04:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Alltiedup57

May I ask a quesition here.. I was being mentored n trained, must have made a mistake n he refuses to tell me what it is n let me go.
So here's the quesition...is it true that a Slave has no voice n does as he/she's told, n a Sub has a voice n can choose if she wants to obey r not???
I'm really trying to learn....thank you


Sounds like you were being used as a plaything and for whatever reason he decided to move on.

I very seldom recommend training relationships or mentoring relationships. There are one or two here that do train conscientiously, but mostly it's a way for an HNG to get his rocks off. And having mentored myself, it's not easy from either end.

Basically, you can get a real relationship or you can get casual play, but it should be up front which it is.



sunshinemiss -> RE: question for the Subs/Slaves women only (12/22/2012 2:31:32 AM)

Sunny Quote of the Day
goes to
CynthiaWVirginia

for

(Look, I'm not even dead yet
so the tally on tallywhackers could keep piling up.)

[sm=bury.gif]


and

When fishing...use the right bait.
I don't think the fish care if the fisherman is frustrated,
standing on the embankment
[sm=argue.gif]
cussing at them to take the damned bait
cuz he wants some fish and that
they're not being fair.

because I couldn't decide which one I liked better.


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kiwisub12 -> RE: question for the Subs/Slaves women only (12/22/2012 9:15:55 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia


.

1) Be nice.
2) Read a book on good manners; be more immpressive than your competition.
3) Be interested in the PERSON.
4) Don't act like a john.
5) Seduce the heart/mind and the pussy will follow.
6) Fisherman...if your skills and your pole and your bait are not catching fish, stop blaming the fish.[/color]



Actually, i think if the average man dating/Mastering/Dominating a woman for any type of relationship would, on the first date, escort the woman to her door at the end of said date, thank her for the pleasure of her company and leave without any expectation of sex, would probably score like crazy on the second or third time. For me, a man who is willing to be a gentleman is a keeper. A man who is actually a gentleman is probably a "lock them up and keep them" person.

Being respectful of a woman as a person, not as a walking vagina/anus/mouth is a great way to get repeat sex.



littleone14 -> RE: question for the Subs/Slaves women only (12/22/2012 9:42:18 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12


Being respectful of a woman as a person, not as a walking vagina/anus/mouth is a great way to get repeat sex.


Amen to that!



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