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RE: Teaching a sub - 12/25/2012 11:14:27 PM

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Aw damn it, I missed nekkid pics?!?! I take one day off to cook a whole Christmas dinner for family and I miss out on all the good stuff

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RE: Teaching a sub - 12/25/2012 11:18:01 PM

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i'm now seeing the bathroom pic, and i too missed the nekidness.
He had a standard webcam pic, with a hoodie on, when i made my post.

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Hey, wait a minute, i'm naked ...

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RE: Teaching a sub - 12/25/2012 11:54:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: jay1371

I was just curious about the different ways different dominants teach their submissives. mainly the steps you would take, if any, to teach a new submissive with no experience. Examples of discipline, service, and how they are to communicate with you would really help. Also things you might do to learn about your sub or specific questions you may want to know before even considering taking someone as a sub.

You been given some good advice.

I'd add:

This can vary a lot depending on the nature of the relationship. If you are getting together now and then for some kinky fun, that's one thing. If it's a serious relationship that extends outside the bedroom, that's another.

As others have said, there really isn't a template. Her personality, your personality, and the energy between you will dictate a lot of this. Stuff like discipline, service, and communication will vary a lot from person to person.

The main things are openness and honesty, If you embrace those things, instead of looking as yourself and the other person as characters in a play who are supposed to be acting in a certain way, you'll do OK.

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