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DomKen -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/26/2012 3:43:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri

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ORIGINAL: Aswad
It's not the bad seeds that concern me. I frown at them, same as anyone else, but I don't define myself in terms of the negatives. It's the good seeds I am concerned with. The downside with giving people the freedom to fuck up is that some will indeed fuck up. The downside with not giving them the freedom to fuck up is worse, because that affects all those that weren't going to fuck up in the first place.


THIS! A thousand times, this!!!

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For the good, the law must be just, else the law is unjust, and it becomes every (wo)man's obligation to disobey it.

And, the update:
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The law must do right by good people, or else it's an unjust law.


Herein lies the problem. What is just? What is unjust? Who gets to decide? Gunning down the cop that arrested your relative, resulting in a long jail sentence may be just to some people. Some people see eye for an eye as just. How is "right" (as in "do right") defined? I am not disagreeing with your statements or the idea behind it/them. It's the reality of the situation when you have vastly different thought processes in leadership positions.

Some think it's unjust to increasingly tax the successful to subsidize the unsuccessful. Some see any and all taxes as unjust. Some see complete State-control of everything as just. To be honest, pretty much everyone here is somewhere between the last two intentional extremes. How do we go about defining "right," "just," and, to bring in an over-used and ill-defined example from American politics, "fair?"


Either you just argued that it is unjust for a court to save a child from a long lingering death and give him at least a small chance at survival or you are way way off topic.




susie -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/26/2012 4:16:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl


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ORIGINAL: susie


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

http://news.yahoo.com/mother-loses-uk-legal-fight-stop-sons-cancer-170325898.html

If there's a good chance of a cure with little to no permanent damage, I could understand. Unfortunately, that is never the case with brain cancer. Malignant brain tumors have tentacles that are impossible eliminate. Even if radiation could kill the tentacles, is side effect of permanent brain damage, permanent mental retardation worth it?


dbg

I have seen many of your posts in the past when you appear to be ignorant of the facts regarding the topic and have thought that you are a little stupid. Now I see that I was wrong and little is entirely the wrong word.

4 years ago I was told I had a massive brain tumor and was given 6 months to live. Luckily a brilliant Neurosurgeon saw my case and decided to attempt to remove it. I was told of the many many things that could go wrong such as blindness, possibility of deafness or paralysis and memory loss. The tumor was removed followed by a course of full brain radiotherapy. I was told that during this healthy brain tissue would be destroyed along with any tumor left after the surgery.

I have had regular scans following the surgery and I am clear of any cancer (my brain tumor was a secondary cancer resulting from skin cancer).

There has been no recurrence of the tumor and absolutely no damage done by the radiotherapy.

Did I make the right choice by going ahead with the surgery? You bet your life I did
Did I make the right choice by going ahead with the radiotherapy? You bet your life I did






HOW OLD WERE YOU 4 YEARS AGO? Were you under age 10? I never said radiation therapy caused mental retardation in ADULTS. Knowing the difference between a child and an adult doesn't make me stupid. I grew up hearing about the dangers of radiation, radiation poisoning, babies born deformed because their mothers were exposed to radiation, etc. so I'm probably more afraid of high levels of radiation than some people. But I also remember the Fukushimia (sp?) disaster. If radiation is so harmless, why were so many people freaked out about it? Why were the young people kept away while the oldest Japanese workers exposed themselves? If radiation is harmless, why can't pregnant women have xrays? The fact is, the effects of radiation exposure, especially to the brain are far more harmful to children and unborn babies than to adults.


Please show me, specifically, in the post you made that I quoted, where it says you were only talking about radiotherapy on children.




defiantbadgirl -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/26/2012 5:13:59 PM)


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ORIGINAL: susie

Please show me, specifically, in the post you made that I quoted, where it says you were only talking about radiotherapy on children.


The title of the thread is: "court forces brain radiation on child" I am the one who started the thread and therefore I gave it that title. Obviously I'm talking about children.




JstAnotherSub -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/26/2012 5:20:58 PM)

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The title of the thread is: "court forces brain radiation on child" I am the one who started the thread and therefore I gave it that title. Obviously I'm talking about children.


Actually, you said
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If there's a good chance of a cure with little to no permanent damage, I could understand. Unfortunately, that is never the case with brain cancer. Malignant brain tumors have tentacles that are impossible eliminate. Even if radiation could kill the tentacles, is side effect of permanent brain damage, permanent mental retardation worth it?


You did not mention it being about only pediatric tumors anywhere in your OP.

Just because the linked article refers to a child, that does not mean that you , saying "that is never the case with brain cancer" are only speaking of pediatrics.




DesideriScuri -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/26/2012 5:22:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DomKen
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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri
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ORIGINAL: Aswad
It's not the bad seeds that concern me. I frown at them, same as anyone else, but I don't define myself in terms of the negatives. It's the good seeds I am concerned with. The downside with giving people the freedom to fuck up is that some will indeed fuck up. The downside with not giving them the freedom to fuck up is worse, because that affects all those that weren't going to fuck up in the first place.

THIS! A thousand times, this!!!
quote:

For the good, the law must be just, else the law is unjust, and it becomes every (wo)man's obligation to disobey it.

And, the update:
quote:

The law must do right by good people, or else it's an unjust law.

Herein lies the problem. What is just? What is unjust? Who gets to decide? Gunning down the cop that arrested your relative, resulting in a long jail sentence may be just to some people. Some people see eye for an eye as just. How is "right" (as in "do right") defined? I am not disagreeing with your statements or the idea behind it/them. It's the reality of the situation when you have vastly different thought processes in leadership positions.
Some think it's unjust to increasingly tax the successful to subsidize the unsuccessful. Some see any and all taxes as unjust. Some see complete State-control of everything as just. To be honest, pretty much everyone here is somewhere between the last two intentional extremes. How do we go about defining "right," "just," and, to bring in an over-used and ill-defined example from American politics, "fair?"

Either you just argued that it is unjust for a court to save a child from a long lingering death and give him at least a small chance at survival or you are way way off topic.


Or, you have no fucking idea what I'm responding to. If you can't follow a conversation, you might want to excuse yourself from it.




susie -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/26/2012 5:23:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl


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ORIGINAL: susie

Please show me, specifically, in the post you made that I quoted, where it says you were only talking about radiotherapy on children.


The title of the thread is: "court forces brain radiation on child" I am the one who started the thread and therefore I gave it that title. Obviously I'm talking about children.



No not obvious. Your quote said
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
Unfortunately, that is never the case with brain cancer. Malignant brain tumors have tentacles that are impossible eliminate. Even if radiation could kill the tentacles, is side effect of permanent brain damage, permanent mental retardation worth it?


I would also be interested to read the scientific back up you have to the part of your post I have placed in bold. From what you say I still have tentacles of tumor remaining which is NOT TRUE




DomKen -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/26/2012 8:11:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri

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ORIGINAL: DomKen
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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri
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ORIGINAL: Aswad
It's not the bad seeds that concern me. I frown at them, same as anyone else, but I don't define myself in terms of the negatives. It's the good seeds I am concerned with. The downside with giving people the freedom to fuck up is that some will indeed fuck up. The downside with not giving them the freedom to fuck up is worse, because that affects all those that weren't going to fuck up in the first place.

THIS! A thousand times, this!!!
quote:

For the good, the law must be just, else the law is unjust, and it becomes every (wo)man's obligation to disobey it.

And, the update:
quote:

The law must do right by good people, or else it's an unjust law.

Herein lies the problem. What is just? What is unjust? Who gets to decide? Gunning down the cop that arrested your relative, resulting in a long jail sentence may be just to some people. Some people see eye for an eye as just. How is "right" (as in "do right") defined? I am not disagreeing with your statements or the idea behind it/them. It's the reality of the situation when you have vastly different thought processes in leadership positions.
Some think it's unjust to increasingly tax the successful to subsidize the unsuccessful. Some see any and all taxes as unjust. Some see complete State-control of everything as just. To be honest, pretty much everyone here is somewhere between the last two intentional extremes. How do we go about defining "right," "just," and, to bring in an over-used and ill-defined example from American politics, "fair?"

Either you just argued that it is unjust for a court to save a child from a long lingering death and give him at least a small chance at survival or you are way way off topic.


Or, you have no fucking idea what I'm responding to. If you can't follow a conversation, you might want to excuse yourself from it.

Since I do have an idea what the debate is and think you and Aswad's philosophy is absolutist nonsense of the worst kind I repeat the question, are you or are you not trying to argue that it is unjust for a court to prevent a parent from letting their child die when that death can at least be resisted?




Aswad -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 5:19:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Moonhead

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ORIGINAL: Aswad
As a collective of citizens banding together to secure liberty for themselves, and to perpetuate liberty for all citizens.

Apart from the ones who must die to protect somebody else's liberties, apparently.


Error. Apart from those who die. They aren't dying to protect somebody else's liberties. They die. And somebody else's liberties aren't infringed on to save them. Big difference.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




Aswad -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 5:49:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri

I am not disagreeing with your statements or the idea behind it/them.


I didn't think you would. [:)]

You have the concepts to understand what I said, so it makes sense to you. I submit it only makes sense to those that have the concepts, and that its only utility, except to be nice to read, is to unbungle a relation between concepts in the heads of those that have them but not the correct arrangement between them. Most people don't seem to have the pieces, to the extent that most I know with them eventually arrive at the conclusion that this is a binary thing, something that's either redundant to explain or impossible to grasp. I persist in hoping to find some way to convey it nonetheless.

I also submit that it's at the heart of every civil rights movement so far, and probably every that is ever to come.

The notion that a law must do right by good people is similar to "first, do no harm".

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It's the reality of the situation when you have vastly different thought processes in leadership positions.


This is the idealized purpose of a constitution, beyond the more pedestrian matter of formally establishing a nation: for some enlightened few that have the thought process that is based in the frame of reference which encompasses the frames of reference of the thought processes of the less enlightened leaders that are more common, and the spirit and vision to see what is right, so that these more common leaders may be more right than wrong in the course of their leadership than they might otherwise be, provided society doesn't allow the constitution to fade or the institutions of society to ignore it.

Die Verfassung des Deutsches Reichs was an impressive document in this regard, though it had some obvious flaws, and overall did not do much better than the Constitution of the United States of America (after the key Amendments), but both were good in the sense that they exceed my minimum standard of a constitution on this point. My own Kongeriget Norges Grunnlov falls far short of the minimum standard, even after the revisions that have been applied over the years, and will be amended more detrimentally next year unless the election turns out as the polls indicate (an antisocialist landslide).

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Some think it's unjust to increasingly tax the successful to subsidize the unsuccessful.


I'm one of those. It is, of course, in the best interests of those with the short end of the stick for all to be equal, but my sentiment remains that we must not do wrong to do right at the level of the State, because it's a loaded gun (I think we can agree loaded guns should be handled with healthy respect and due care). Egalitarianism should be about allowing equality, best accomplished through meritocratic thought, not about making people equal.

But, I see many other reasons to subsidize the unsuccessful, directly related to correctly spending the collected taxes for the good of those that paid them, and realizing the benefits of cooperation, which is after all inherent in having a State (a franchise, being the minimum notion of a State, is in essence a collaboration in itself, so we can't avoid that if we're going to have a State).

Also, obviously, there's no problem with the State establishing an agency which serves as an opt-in collaboration that provides the common good, and since a majority of the income in a healthy economy is going to be in the middle class, that should easily cover anything that isn't covered under the heading of what can ethically be imposed on all; since corporations aren't citizens, those can be taxed directly, too, which should provide ample income if done right.

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Some see complete State-control of everything as just.


The bane of humanity. If there is evil, this is it. And such a sweet thing, innit?

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How do we go about defining "right," "just," and, to bring in an over-used and ill-defined example from American politics, "fair?"


With gravity and great care.

«The law must do right by good people, or else it's an unjust law.» isn't a definition of anything, it's a statement, and one that is only meaningful to those who know what is meant by the words, but if those that get it are able to refine it into something that can provide actual guidance to those who don't already see it, then that could be useful. Such people of vision come along once in a while, like Ghandi, or Krishnamurti, but it's rare. It's such people, and only such people, that advance the state of humanity. Between them, we just muddle along. Let's hope we have another one soon. One with the vision, passion and eloquence to remind us again of the necessity of freedom.

Pardon the cursory reply.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




Aswad -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 5:59:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DomKen

Either you just argued that it is unjust for a court to save a child from a long lingering death and give him at least a small chance at survival or you are way way off topic.


He argued the former, as did I.

I have two kidneys and two lungs; I only need one of each.

Somewhere out there is a child that will die a long, lingering death for the lack of my organs.

For a court to decide that my organs must be removed from my body and given to that child is unjust, even though I would survive.

It is not only ends that can be unjust, but also means can be unjust, and so I must say that either you just argued that it is just for a court to engage in organ harvesting from still living people, or you are making a nonsensical argument. I tend to think it's the latter, and I hope you will confirm that.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




Aswad -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 6:14:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

Just because the linked article refers to a child, that does not mean that you , saying "that is never the case with brain cancer" are only speaking of pediatrics.


Give her a break.

Although she is admittedly freaked and not making much sense about radiotherapy, she's acknowledged in the course of the thread that the problem is with children, not adults, which I have also pointed out myself, on what I hope you'll agree are firmer grounds than the average poster (though I'll happily admit I'm nowhere near proper familiarity with the subject, let alone competence).

Some goodwill goes a long way, and makes people more receptive to good information.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




JstAnotherSub -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 6:18:18 AM)

You are kinder than I. When she can give someone who has survived a brain tumor a break, I will do the same for her.




DomKen -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 6:26:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: DomKen

Either you just argued that it is unjust for a court to save a child from a long lingering death and give him at least a small chance at survival or you are way way off topic.


He argued the former, as did I.

I have two kidneys and two lungs; I only need one of each.

Somewhere out there is a child that will die a long, lingering death for the lack of my organs.

For a court to decide that my organs must be removed from my body and given to that child is unjust, even though I would survive.

It is not only ends that can be unjust, but also means can be unjust, and so I must say that either you just argued that it is just for a court to engage in organ harvesting from still living people, or you are making a nonsensical argument. I tend to think it's the latter, and I hope you will confirm that.

IWYW,
— Aswad.


As I said before absolutist nonsense. The topic is not physically harming one person to save the life of another. It is enforcing reallity on a mother taken in by woo.

A simple way to keep this straight is "your rights end where my nose begins."




Aswad -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 6:43:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: susie

I would also be interested to read the scientific back up you have to the part of your post I have placed in bold. From what you say I still have tentacles of tumor remaining which is NOT TRUE


Malignancy in cancers is characterized by anaplasia, invasiveness, and metastasis.

She did specify malignancy, by which we may assume she was referring to this, without the understanding that some cancers lack some of these properties. In colloquial terms, it is not uncommon to refer to invasive and/or metastatic cancers as having "tendrils" or "tentacles" or some similarly colorful term. Indeed, some oncologists will use similar terms themselves when explaining something to a layman.

I've no idea what your diagnosis was.

Grade 4 medulloblastoma, however, is a nonspecific diagnosis that usually implies glial cell cancers with a propensity to be metastatic and highly invasive. Resection eliminates the tumor itself, but there tends to be a lot of cells in the cerebrospinal fluid, communicating directly to the lateral ventricles and, for lack of a better word, colonizing the ependyma and choroid plexus. From here, they progressively invade the surrounding tissues with a tendency to infiltrate well. Radiotherapy may on occasion yield total remission, but it's not common. Usually there will come a relapse later, and the relapse is probably not going to be a localized, well circumscribed tumor in a single location, but rather a diffuse, multifocal mess (no, not mass, mess).

So, yes, for this kid, from what has been said, there will probably be a post treatment situation that a layman might very well describe as «tentacles that are impossible to eliminate», as she did.

I hate defending people who are wrong, but I can't abide other people who are wrong attacking them without cause.

As I said, cut her some slack.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




Aswad -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 6:50:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DomKen

Since I do have an idea what the debate is and think you and Aswad's philosophy is absolutist nonsense of the worst kind I repeat the question, are you or are you not trying to argue that it is unjust for a court to prevent a parent from letting their child die when that death can at least be resisted?


Thanks, DomKen... I positively love new accusations, and this is the first time, if memory serves (and, to be fair, it rarely does, these days), that I've been accused of absolutism... just about everything else (including some mutually exclusive allegations), but never absolutism, that I can remember. Since Ì have been accused of being too much of a relativist, this tells me I'm on track.

[:D]

See a couple of post backs for the refutation of your post and position, incidentally.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




Aswad -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 7:04:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DomKen

As I said before absolutist nonsense.


You said a lot. You didn't say very much about the nature of your objection, though, just how you classify my position. Maybe you can start by actually adressing the argument I made, or supporting your classification by showing how you arrived at it and why it holds true in your view; ideally, all of the above.

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The topic is not physically harming one person to save the life of another.


Correct.

Which is why that has not been made the topic at any point.

It's been used to establish that means and ends are not the same thing, and to show that your argument was void, but it's not been a topic.

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It is enforcing reallity on a mother taken in by woo.


Reality usually enforces itself quite well without your help.

I realize this is hard for us dom types to accept at times. [:D]

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A simple way to keep this straight is "your rights end where my nose begins."


Yup, it's a nice rule of thumb, with the usual caveats about those.

Now show me how to apply it and still arrive at your position regardless; that part confuses me.

IWYW,
— Aswad.




Moonhead -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 8:03:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: Moonhead

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ORIGINAL: Aswad
As a collective of citizens banding together to secure liberty for themselves, and to perpetuate liberty for all citizens.

Apart from the ones who must die to protect somebody else's liberties, apparently.


Error. Apart from those who die. They aren't dying to protect somebody else's liberties. They die. And somebody else's liberties aren't infringed on to save them. Big difference.

IWYW,
— Aswad.


So your whole argument about the court forcing the mother to have her daughter treated is erroneous, then? You've just contradicted yourself.




DomKen -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 8:49:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: DomKen

As I said before absolutist nonsense.


You said a lot. You didn't say very much about the nature of your objection, though, just how you classify my position. Maybe you can start by actually adressing the argument I made, or supporting your classification by showing how you arrived at it and why it holds true in your view; ideally, all of the above.

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The topic is not physically harming one person to save the life of another.


Correct.

Which is why that has not been made the topic at any point.

It's been used to establish that means and ends are not the same thing, and to show that your argument was void, but it's not been a topic.

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It is enforcing reallity on a mother taken in by woo.


Reality usually enforces itself quite well without your help.

I realize this is hard for us dom types to accept at times. [:D]

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A simple way to keep this straight is "your rights end where my nose begins."


Yup, it's a nice rule of thumb, with the usual caveats about those.

Now show me how to apply it and still arrive at your position regardless; that part confuses me.

IWYW,
— Aswad.


This is simple, the parent does not own the child so the mother's rights end at the child's nose. I.e. she does not get to make lethal decisions for someone else.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 9:44:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DomKen
This is simple, the parent does not own the child so the mother's rights end at the child's nose. I.e. she does not get to make lethal decisions for someone else.


But a court does??

Where do you draw the line?

She has a legal responsibility to her child that she has in her custody.
That's what the law says.


What I'm guessing, in this particular case, is that the law has found her to be neglectful in her parental duties by refusing treatment that would otherwise prolong her son's life.
I also think that this case wouldn't have hit the headlines if the absent father hadn't brought it to the attention of the high court and used the medical profession to back up his claims that the mother is being negligent in her duties as a parent (vis-a-vis, allowing her son to die rather than have essential medical treatment).

I'm willing to bet, if the boot were on the other foot, and the father had tried to stop the medical treatment, it wouldn't have even gone to a local court hearing, let alone something to be heard in the high court.
The custody laws are so biased here that his application for a court hearing would have either been summarilly dismissed or put at such a distant future as to have no effect on the treatment his son would have had (it would have been completed long before he ever got to court to contest it).


So this whole topsy-turvy scenario, being unusual as it is, is the reason it hit the headlines at all.
Also, the mere fact that the high court have granted custody to the father whilst this is going on, is again somewhat unusual.


We can argue the semantics and medics 'til the cows come home.
I dare say none of us, even with what info we can use from the internet and our own personal knowledge or circumstances, have even half the information about the case that we would need to make decent sensible debate on it. We can only use what little snippets of info that have been released.





susie -> RE: court forces brain radiation on child (12/27/2012 10:06:01 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: susie

I would also be interested to read the scientific back up you have to the part of your post I have placed in bold. From what you say I still have tentacles of tumor remaining which is NOT TRUE


Malignancy in cancers is characterized by anaplasia, invasiveness, and metastasis.

She did specify malignancy, by which we may assume she was referring to this, without the understanding that some cancers lack some of these properties. In colloquial terms, it is not uncommon to refer to invasive and/or metastatic cancers as having "tendrils" or "tentacles" or some similarly colorful term. Indeed, some oncologists will use similar terms themselves when explaining something to a layman.

I've no idea what your diagnosis was.


My diagnosis was a Grade 3 metastastic left frontal lobe tumor.

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

Grade 4 medulloblastoma, however, is a nonspecific diagnosis that usually implies glial cell cancers with a propensity to be metastatic and highly invasive. Resection eliminates the tumor itself, but there tends to be a lot of cells in the cerebrospinal fluid, communicating directly to the lateral ventricles and, for lack of a better word, colonizing the ependyma and choroid plexus. From here, they progressively invade the surrounding tissues with a tendency to infiltrate well. Radiotherapy may on occasion yield total remission, but it's not common. Usually there will come a relapse later, and the relapse is probably not going to be a localized, well circumscribed tumor in a single location, but rather a diffuse, multifocal mess (no, not mass, mess).

So, yes, for this kid, from what has been said, there will probably be a post treatment situation that a layman might very well describe as «tentacles that are impossible to eliminate», as she did.

I hate defending people who are wrong, but I can't abide other people who are wrong attacking them without cause.

As I said, cut her some slack.

IWYW,
— Aswad.



I assume you are claiming I am wrong. In which case both of you, who obviously know much more about brain tumors than I do, will be happy to show the medical evidence and your medical qualifications on this subject.




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