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tidbit5021 -> RE: Why do they block you for being human??? (12/29/2012 12:44:02 AM)
OP: When the "Doms" get snarky/nasty/rude, you can block them. It is more important whether or not you are interested in them, not whether or not they think your are polite, a "true sub," or passing whatever test they have devised. As for tangential part of the thread, maybe you all should collaborate on a romance novel! I'd buy it. :)

littleone14 -> RE: Why do they block you for being human??? (12/29/2012 9:32:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tidbit5021 As for tangential part of the thread, maybe you all should collaborate on a romance novel! I'd buy it. :) I totally agree! I know I was riveted! [sm=book.gif] quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC I think it's sort of like King Arthur & Excalibur but in reverse. I vote on this as the theme...........

lkn4bbgrl -> RE: Why do they block you for being human??? (12/30/2012 5:11:59 PM)
When I'm talking to a gal I try to be polite and courteous. I usually get blocked a lot. I was thinking I shouldn't start out so vanilla and go for the ME DOM YOU SUB approach.

EsotericLady -> RE: Why do they block you for being human??? (1/6/2013 4:13:57 PM)
With all due respect to your thread, littleone14, the following are some examples of my experiences when I have replied to non-compatible messages from submissives with a "thank you" for your interest, an explanation as to why I wouldn't be interested, and a "best of luck to you" signoff: "Are you paranoid? What the f* ck is the matter with you?" "So you think you're superior to me? Who do you think you are, btch?" "Go to hll! You're probably some ugly fat cow anyway." (I honestly went back and forth FIVE TIMES with someone today trying to convince them I really wasn't interested in their interests, as opposed to blocking them.) So you see, this is what those of us who ARE nice get in response... I'd say over 50% of the time. It's all a two-way street....... quote: ORIGINAL: littleone14 What is up with doms blocking you for trying to figure out wether you are compatible? A local guy emailed me this morning, and we were chatting a bit. I was asking what he was looking for. I didn't want to get into a conversation about kinks or anything, but from his profile I couldn't determine if he just wanted casual or was looking for more. He said something about when he first met me walking up to me and kissing me without any conversation. I told him (nicely, I thought) that I wasn't comfortable kissing a stranger and wanted to get to know someone on a vanilla level first. He emailed back that I didn't need to get so defensive, and that no one was attacking my point of view and I didn't need to get my panties in a twist. Then he blocked me....... Anyways, obviously this is a good way to weed out people. This guy is a jerk and I really don't need to get to know him more to know that I don't want anything to do with him. But why do people fly off the handle like that just because what we are looking for is different? Can't they just say "sorry, I don't think we're compatible" and leave it at that like two adults? Or maybe I'm just expecting too much........ [sm=sigh.gif]

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