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Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 9:52:33 AM   
littleone14


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Status: offline 		What is up with doms blocking you for trying to figure out wether you are compatible? A local guy emailed me this morning, and we were chatting a bit. I was asking what he was looking for. I didn't want to get into a conversation about kinks or anything, but from his profile I couldn't determine if he just wanted casual or was looking for more. He said something about when he first met me walking up to me and kissing me without any conversation. I told him (nicely, I thought) that I wasn't comfortable kissing a stranger and wanted to get to know someone on a vanilla level first. He emailed back that I didn't need to get so defensive, and that no one was attacking my point of view and I didn't need to get my panties in a twist. Then he blocked me.......

Anyways, obviously this is a good way to weed out people. This guy is a jerk and I really don't need to get to know him more to know that I don't want anything to do with him. But why do people fly off the handle like that just because what we are looking for is different? Can't they just say "sorry, I don't think we're compatible" and leave it at that like two adults?

Or maybe I'm just expecting too much........
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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 9:54:35 AM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		Look at it this way. If a fuckwit blocks you, you just saved a bunch of time and effort.

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 9:56:14 AM   
Nakhla


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Status: offline 		I've got this often enough.

Weirder are the ones who block you... Then a week or so later unblock you and write as though interested again. Really quite mind-bending. ( I've only ever blocked obvious spam accounts. )

I think it's a sign of insecurity and inner conflict.

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 10:01:13 AM   
JeffBC


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ORIGINAL: littleone14
But why do people fly off the handle like that just because what we are looking for is different?

Because in the BDSM comic books being dominant equates to being an asshat with poor self-control and these folks are living the comic book lifestyle.


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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 11:38:04 AM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Status: offline 		You didn't play along to the script... He is living on BDSM Fantasy Island. He walks up to you and to show his dominance grabs and kisses you. The proper response would have been " overtaken by lust she sank to her knees..."

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 11:39:49 AM   
JeffBC


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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
You didn't play along to the script... He is living on BDSM Fantasy Island. He walks up to you and to show his dominance grabs and kisses you. The proper response would have been " overtaken by lust she sank to her knees..."

Well obviously you are not an experienced submissive. You missed the "futilely beat hands against chest" stage.


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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 12:38:54 PM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone14
But why do people fly off the handle like that just because what we are looking for is different? Can't they just say "sorry, I don't think we're compatible" and leave it at that like two adults?

Or maybe I'm just expecting too much........


I've come to the belief that a lot of the guys here do things like that as emotional blackmail. It's a hope that you'll back down, be apologetic and do something that you don't want to do. It's a twist on the "You're not a REAL submissive" routine, which is a hope that you instantly do something to get their rocks off in an attempt to prove you really are submissive.

quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
You didn't play along to the script... He is living on BDSM Fantasy Island. He walks up to you and to show his dominance grabs and kisses you. The proper response would have been " overtaken by lust she sank to her knees..."

Well obviously you are not an experienced submissive. You missed the "futilely beat hands against chest" stage.

While breathing audibly through a slack mouthed expression.....

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 12/24/2012 12:40:05 PM >

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 1:26:42 PM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: littleone14

What is up with doms blocking you for trying to figure out wether you are compatible? A local guy emailed me this morning, and we were chatting a bit. I was asking what he was looking for. I didn't want to get into a conversation about kinks or anything, but from his profile I couldn't determine if he just wanted casual or was looking for more. He said something about when he first met me walking up to me and kissing me without any conversation. I told him (nicely, I thought) that I wasn't comfortable kissing a stranger and wanted to get to know someone on a vanilla level first. He emailed back that I didn't need to get so defensive, and that no one was attacking my point of view and I didn't need to get my panties in a twist. Then he blocked me.......

Anyways, obviously this is a good way to weed out people. This guy is a jerk and I really don't need to get to know him more to know that I don't want anything to do with him. But why do people fly off the handle like that just because what we are looking for is different? Can't they just say "sorry, I don't think we're compatible" and leave it at that like two adults?

Or maybe I'm just expecting too much........



Maybe he thought he was Errol Brown ?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?gl=GB&v=L3pf7o-9OOk&hl=en-GB

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 1:35:30 PM   
littleone14


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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Maybe he thought he was Errol Brown ?



I'm sure that was it.........

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 1:40:55 PM   
littleone14


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss
" overtaken by lust she sank to her knees..."

futilely beat hands against chest

While breathing audibly through a slack mouthed expression.....



Don't stop now! I'm dying to know what happens next!

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 3:05:26 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		Well, I`m sure that rope and a penis is involved ...... and a true submissive would know what is going to happen next.

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 4:26:54 PM   
frazzle


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Yes im odd, ive been kissed by total strangers as i walked into a bar. have not a clue what buying my own drinks is like.

Did i freak out. hell no, i ordered vodka and coke and then walked off. I wasnt traumatised, raped or in need of therapy. Oh the down side. i went home with the money i went out with and virginity still in tact!!!!

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 7:41:15 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Your question could be rephrased as "Why are so many jerks on the Internet"? One answer is that they don't do so well offline.

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 7:59:22 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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Id have suggested he kiss a MAX train first. If the train gave positive feedback on his kissing style and would vouch for him that he wasnt a disease ridden pestilence factory, you could have told him you'd kiss him then

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 8:18:33 PM   
JeffBC


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
Your question could be rephrased as "Why are so many jerks on the Internet"? One answer is that they don't do so well offline.

Not me. I'm here because back a few years ago when there weren't enough jerks on the internet and they were running that big promo I got 20% off for signing up.


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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 8:21:32 PM   
Nakhla


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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
Your question could be rephrased as "Why are so many jerks on the Internet"? One answer is that they don't do so well offline.

Not me. I'm here because back a few years ago when there weren't enough jerks on the internet and they were running that big promo I got 20% off for signing up.



I think that package came as a bundle with unlimited rant minutes and free sexting to randomly generated telephone numbers.

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 8:21:40 PM   
SomethingCatchy


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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 8:49:00 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		The answer is simple. You said you wouldn't "kiss" someone when you first met them which translates to them....you won't fuck them. That's not what they want to hear, thus you are a fake and not "submissive" and so they block you. Laugh and move on.


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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 8:56:54 PM   
Kana


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You aren't a Twue Sub. Live with the shame, if you can :-p

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/24/2012 9:00:18 PM   
utterlyHers


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Status: offline 		i have met people that i thought i could be friends with. i have quite a few conversations about god and the world and then we disagree on something and they block me. Immature?

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