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ServiceBoy89 -> RE: Age (1/3/2013 2:58:21 PM)
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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
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ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89
I'am 23 and look for women between 28 and 37.It turn me on to be with older woman.They know who they are and know many things that this ''wonna be''young girls don't.[8D] lol.And if they are slim with long black hair to their ass and this specific light blue eyes
I'am forever her servant.But it is so rare to find this type.
That sounds oddly familiar... you don't happen to also be a big fan of black socks, by any chance?
OP - I'm gonna be brief because I did a very lengthy post about this in another thread on age that's still active.
Why do you think people have a problem with your age? Put yourself in their shoes (even if you don't agree!) and think up as many possible reasons why they MIGHT not want to be with a person your age. Write it all down. Seriously. Even if you think those reasons are so totally wrong and unfair, this is an exercise in thinking about how other people see the world.
I'll start you off:
- Young people might not have much knowledge of how to play safely
- Young people might not be as interesting to talk to, because they haven't done much with their lives
- Young people might not be very financially stable
Now. You need to either a) demonstrate that those things don't apply to you or b) demonstrate that you are improving yourself so that those things won't apply to you soon. Rather than spending time complaining, spend that time making yourself so totally awesome that you're irresistible. Go to demos and seminars to learn about the safety. Be fascinating by studying, reading, traveling, learning skills and doing surprising things. Get financially stable by getting an education and/or getting really good at your job, paying your bills, keeping out of debt etc. Look back at your list of reasons, and find practical ways to overcome them.
Yes these things will take work. And yes, they will take time. Maybe lots of time. But here's one of the most important things to remember in life: TIME WILL PASS ANYWAY. So you can sit and watch it go by, feeling sorry for yourself, or you can squeeze as much living into it as you can. This will achieve two things: make the passing time more enjoyable, and bring you closer to your goal.
You're only going to get older. Most likely you're going to do just fine - most people do. But if I were you, I'd want to increase my odds, because the worst feeling would be to wake up one morning and realise you're already old, and you haven't given yourself the best shot at happiness.
Thank you for your advice I will try to do this things.[:)]My main problem is the fear from the unknown.
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ORIGINAL: Baroana
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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
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ORIGINAL: ServiceBoy89
I'am 23 and look for women between 28 and 37.It turn me on to be with older woman.They know who they are and know many things that this ''wonna be''young girls don't.[8D] lol.And if they are slim with long black hair to their ass and this specific light blue eyes
I'am forever her servant.But it is so rare to find this type.
So, in other words, you're looking for a slim, blue eyed, long dark haired, 28 to 37 year old Fetish Delivery System? I wish you luck with that. I think when you grow up enough to accept that women are people, not fantasy objects and start looking for one who appeals to your heart and soul rather than one who just appeals to your eyes, you might have better luck.
This one isn't the OP and isn't asking for help, so who cares? For the record, he also lies about what continent he lives on.
You made me a really bad impression.Here what I want to say to you.Do not judge the book by its cover when you don't know what is between the pages.
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