Phoenixpower
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Tough. The bottom line is that we pay your salary for a service you provide to our children. So yes, we are going to have an opinion about how our money is spent and our children raised. While I understand the allure of "Why the fuck won't you all just go away and leave me alone to do my job" the real world just doesn't work that way. The thing is, success for one child is different for another. While straight A's may be the most awesome thing Sally can do, Jimmy learning that there are people who care about him at school this year may help him do better in the years following. Helping a child who does not get regular meals and care at home, as well as helping their parents learn parenting skills, can be a success that means much more and lasts longer than straight A's. There can be no one way to judge teachers, because there is no one kind of student with only one kind of needs. So, while you may want me to spend all my time getting your child ready for Algebra, I can not do that if I have a child who is sick from lack of sleep, because mommy got her ass kicked by daddy at 3 am and she spent the night hiding under her bed. It takes a village to raise and educate a child. And, sadly, I think our villages have gone to hell in a hand basket. Well said   I don't work as a teacher, I work as a team leader in the daycentre, where we take care of the kids until the parents pick them up (or some of the older ones go home on their own). There we have at times similar issues...during September, the first month we were opened, I worked on my own with 20 kids, as my colleague could not start until october and some parents were a real pain in the arse...expecting basically 1:1 support for their kids for the 2 bucks they pay us per hour (which include warm cooked food from our cook and snack time before they go home)...now, if all Kids would be have like many of our kids do....well yep, then all would be a piece of cake...cause then the kids would just sit down during their homework time do their stuff and I can go along and help them where necessary....but as we have about half of them who display more difficult behaviour (not surprising when they get shit like coke during the first year of school already and get told by school and by us that we don't allow fuzzy drinks here) with flooding their homework if they get a chance to do it, with just being loud all the fucking time, which then of course disturbs the well behaved kids, too....then 20 kids can be quite a lot during homework on your own...and then moaning parents "why did s/he not complete the homework?!" Ahem...we have one hour homework time...what s/he doesnt get done, needs to get done at home...we are not teachers, we are not a schoolwork facilty...we only provide an hour time for it and help when we can...but we work mainly on other stuff, such as improving behaviour and providing play time which some of those kids don't have at home either...though we also do make exceptions when we know it is important, as it is with one kid where I realised recently, that her father can neither read nor write and he was glad that she was finished with homework as he can't help and mum won't come home until midnight...so since I know that, this girl is sitting on her homework until she is finished with it completely...cause she has not much help at home....but the main focus is in our work not the homework, no matter how pestering parents can be in that matter As parents they still have a fucking job to do, too... now...since october my colleague is with me and we do homework in 2 seperate rooms, so the atmosphere improved big time...but nevertheless of course we still have about half of the kids who struggle a lot with their concentration and so prefer to do nonsense during that time...and so they take away a lot of attention (though I do have times I do chuck those ones out as then quite frankly its the job of their parent to do them at home with them)...and whilst some of our trouble makers improved since we started the box with little gifts for good enough behaviour...i disagree to some parents who say "you should have started that earlier, then he would have been easier from the start."....ahem...nope...you cow should place importance on parenting at home, then we would not need this for your son!!! In November I had the situation, where I locked myself into our room with the kids once, when one of our most disturbing kid wanted to throw a chair into the crowd of the other kids...as I work since many years with challenging kids I have seen it on time and took the chair away from him before he could do so...and I made clear to him that he is no threat to me when he walked with the scissor towards me...so he put it back into his school bag... that was also the last day that he visited out daycentre and as I heard now, he is now in a childrens home, which is the right place for him for the next time, cause he needs the smaller group setting... on that occassion I did not lock us in out of fear but to get the situation calmer faster, cause with doing so, the kids could eat their meal in peace as he could not come in anmore, and my manager could work on it, getting him out of our daycenter (as he still tried for a while to get into our room)...and there, quite frankly, I am glad that we don't have guns easily available here...as IMO he would have been at risk of using it, due to not looking far enough ahead of the consequences for doing so... anyhow...whilst it is difficult for me to explain...i do know what it is on the side of looking after the kids, even when I am not a teacher and whilst I think they could do with significantly less holidays...(especially with the lack of staff in my field over here, they could provide some daycare service, too (or for example school-lessons for the weaker pupils) during half of those 6 weeks summer holiday over here....would not harm them either and they would still have way more holiday then the rest of us AND would potentially even to get to know the kids better...
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