TheLilSquaw
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Joined: 10/24/2012 From: Middle River, MD Status: offline
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I worked in both private and public school settings for years, primarily with special needs children. I myself have a special needs child who is no longer in public school. He is autistic and on the extreme end of the spectrum. No, he didn't graduate. I choose to pull him out and home school him. He was not being educated in public school and was starting to act out. I'm an active parent, always have been and always will be when it comes to his education. Every teacher, he ever had was used to seeing my face, working with him at home, and volunteering in his classroom. For me, I had to pull him out because I saw that the school he was at, was failing him. Notice, I said the school. Not the teachers. After I pulled him out of the high school, I discovered that the last 2 years they had failed to past standardized testing requirements and were "revamping" their system. My thoughts as a parent, as a teacher of special needs students was .."Well damn! If you can't educated kids in the main stream population you sure aren't going to educate a child with special needs." He just had his 1st semester review. He is for the 1st time in 2 yrs of high school meeting his IEP goals, their words NOT mine. However, the sad reality is in a public school high school he was lost in the mix and often feel through the cracks. His special needs class had 20 students in it with 1 teacher and 2 aids. The students had various special needs ranging from extreme learning disabilities, autism, and CP. So EVERY child in that class was on a different learning level. Yet that single teacher was expected to not only educate them but follow IEPs. THAT isn't a negative reflection on the teachers but on the administration on federal guidelines. Far to many parents, for various reasons don't take an active role in their children's education. I know growing up, mine never did. A teacher isn't in this alone. Parents have a role, a responsibility as well. How can you blame teachers or a school for your child's education if you never sit down with them and do home work, if you never check to make sure it's done, if you don't make sure they get enough sleep at night and a rested for the next day, if you don't make them read on a regular basis. These are all things far to many parents do not do but when their children fail they are the 1st to blame teachers. The reality is a teacher doesn't start their school day at the 1st bell and they don't end it at the last bell. They prepare curriculum, grade work, prepare their classrooms, ect. Teaching is NOT an easy job, its can be rewarding but it also can be heart renching and thankless. I will say I am not a fan of "tenor" I have seen far to many BAD teachers hide behind it. I believe that schools and teachers should be reviewed by admins and peers on a regular basis. I believe that they should be required to continue their education especially in certain areas. I believe that parents should have to take an active role in their children's education. Even if that means simply signing their home work that you saw it.
< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 12/28/2012 6:18:09 PM >
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