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naughtynick81 -> RE: When it comes to feminism, slut shaming is bad, virgin shaming is great! (1/1/2013 1:32:17 PM)
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You're very confused, nick
Far from it. This is just a poor attempt from you trying to be condescending.
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I'm willing to work with you on this.
There is nothing to work on. You have your biased opinion and I have mine.
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By the way, you do have a tendency to do that yourself when you're angry, don't you think?
Ahhh the "angry" shaming tactic. So arguing with you and disagreeing with you equals being angry? lol I am actually laughing at your posts as you don't seem in touch with the reality.
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you should also be willing to look at how your own approach to communicating your (doubtless excellent) ideas might be failing somehow.
Again. blaming me for the sexist actions feminists are making.
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unwilling to confront the fact that your posting style may be partly the cause of your trouble.
Again. blaming me for the sexist actions feminists are making.
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There is a very logical answer that could explain why you end up being mistreated
There is no logical answer. I come up with an argument. I get ad hominem attacks back in return. This is no one's fault except the people who make these immature attacks because they can't argue the point. Again, you are trying to put blame on me for the sexist actions feminists are making.
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If, for example, you were a nasty little troll who just sets out to piss people off, who is so utterly lacking in self esteem that the only way you can eke any value out of your otherwise futile and pointless existence is by irritating strangers on the web then, sure - this would be your fault.
Even what you said right after this quote, it still seems you are subtlety indicating that I'm a nasty little troll, I lack self esteem, and the only way I can eke any value out of your otherwise futile and pointless existence is by irritating strangers on the web.
This shaming tactic is just as ridiculous as the "you can't get laid" shaming tactic.
So all of this for disagreeing and arguing with feminists? I am this or that [insert strawman here] simply because I disagree and argue with feminists. You have to be blind Freddy if you can't see the feminist bigotry.
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You seem to have issues with responding to questions
Only to questions that are irreverent to this topic. I am tired of people trying to shift the goalpost of this topic, this is why I am less inclined to answer their silly questions. But wait, all your posts are irrelevant in regards of this topic. As people like you so desperately try to make this about me instead of the feminists doing the wrong action. People seem to want to make the feminists doing the wrong action totally out of the picture and try to point all blame on me due to their bias.
So to the questions you asked, I will give one answer to all. There is no excuse, not one logical reason that exist, for a feminist to be sexist towards someone she disagrees with. You seem to be trying to make excuses for why it's okay for feminists to be sexist. You seem to indicate a lot that I'm a troll. For what? For disagreeing with feminists? So disagreeing with feminists equals being a troll. And for that, you seem to be indicating that it should be all given a pass that now feminists are allowed to be sexist.
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but we are trying to explore how your behaviour might provoke these actions.
But again, you are trying to make excuses for why it should be okay for feminists to be sexist. You are trying to point blame at me, You are trying to make this about me. You are trying to shift the goalpost of this discussion.
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I'm sure you'll have rolled your eyes when some pathetic little tosspot rocks up on a board with a reference to some piece of shitty pseudo-research (often hauled from one of those wacky ultra-biased websites - You know, like the one you got the article you cited from earlier) that claims to refute decades of evidence about one topic or another and then argues like an asshat when people challenge him on his idiocy?
You seem to think that anyone is a pathetic little tosspot who simply disagrees with the feminist stance on paygap, that's the problem, not me or anyone else simply citing the refutation. If you think Christina Hoff Sommers or the US department of labor is a biased source, I have to laugh.
But it seems in your feminist world, everything is wacky and ultra-biased when it opposes feminism. Can you see the irony in your stance?
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This cannot be answered as you've been unable, or unwilling, to provide links to the conversation in question. If you provide a link, I could provide a crystal clear explanation for you, I am certain.
For starters, in places like fetlife and feminist sites, these threads the majority of time get deleted. I could spend a lot of time digging up old threads which will be pointless and a waste of my time as people will still just simply disagree due to their bias. The fact of the matter is that if you haven't seen this happen, you must be living under a rock.
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The important thing is not to fall into the silly mistake of assuming that because you've met one asshat who claims to be a feminist, you can then infer that all feminists are asshats
I never said they all were, but there definitely are too many of them.
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You've expressed yourself poorly, leading people to the mistaken conclusion that you're an asshat.
lol look at your own posts, you keep expressing yourself poorly as you are constantly trying to shift the goalpost of the discussion. I put up an OP that is as clear as day. But people seem to be twisting this topic into another direction as for pointing it at me instead of the actual issue addressed in the topic. Which is typical whenever a male raises any such issues. The fact is that you are the one expressing yourself poorly towards this topic as you want to make the focus on me instead of what the topic is actually about. Then have the audacity to say that I express myself poorly when I get to a point of not bothering to answer questions that are totally irrelevant to this topic.
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Gosh, what sort of buffoon would say that everything is always the fault of the male?
You seem to be displaying this attitude in here. As you think the sexist actions feminists make is my fault. Also ask your feminist friends, I am sure plenty of them would be happy to tell you that patriarchy is to blame for nearly everything in the world as it's their favourite multipurpose scapegoat.
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And, wow... who would be soo foolish as to say that a male is even at fault for the sexist actions women make? Fuck me... point me to the posts where people have made these claims
Wow you don't even know what you post. Just read your own posts, the examples are all there. Even in this post alone, I have pointed it out. You seem to think my posts are an excuse for why feminists can be sexist.
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Can you see how this might be interpreted as an adhominem attack?
Not at all.
I just simply pointed out in other words that you may not be thinking clearly.
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are you going to answer the questions posed in this post.
I have but this is the last. You just keep asking me all these questions, mostly the same ones over and over, that are totally irrelevant to the actual discussion. Why should I keep answering questions that make no progress to what the actual OP is about? Again, the OP is not about me, it's about feminists being sexist. What part of this don't you understand? You seem to want to pull the exposure of feminists being sexist under the rug by trying to shift the focus and goalpost to a different direction.
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