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Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 4:30:15 PM   
alexbdsm


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i'm a single guy in mid 20 and the idea of being with older woman was always there and being with a woman in the same age or younger seems not so good as being with an older woman
i thought i was weird or sumthing but i found alot of other people out there with the same idea as mine so i went out and made some researches to find out the reason for why i wanna be with an older woman and i pretty much got the answer
but what i wish to know is that older woman POV from being with a younger man how does it feel when a much younger man approach you what in ur mind when that happens maybe some one with previous experience could enlighten me
thanx
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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 5:08:19 PM   
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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 5:10:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: alexbdsm

hey
i'm a single guy in mid 20 and the idea of being with older woman was always there and being with a woman in the same age or younger seems not so good as being with an older woman
i thought i was weird or sumthing but i found alot of other people out there with the same idea as mine so i went out and made some researches to find out the reason for why i wanna be with an older woman and i pretty much got the answer
but what i wish to know is that older woman POV from being with a younger man how does it feel when a much younger man approach you what in ur mind when that happens maybe some one with previous experience could enlighten me
thanx



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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 5:28:34 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		How I feel about younger guys depends on the guy and how he approaches me. My Kitty is 21 and I'm 41, but he approached me as a person with similar interests who might be willing to engage in intelligent conversation. Kink didn't enter the conversation until we'd exchanged a few email messages. He also used proper spelling, punctuation, and grammar throughout our conversations.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 5:55:22 PM   
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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 6:02:00 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		I generally can't do the younger man thing. I have 3 adult sons ranging from 31 - 21, I'm just not interested in men that are approaching their ages. I find that I don't have much in common with men younger or older than I am and that concerns me. I need a strong connection to my partner.

What happens when a younger man approaches me is that I feel uninterested in getting to know him. I don't like being a target for someone's attention because of my age. That turns me off. You've been told that before as you've been here before asking about this subject. I can't imagine that the answers this time around will be much different.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 6:11:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lizi

What happens when a younger man approaches me is that I feel uninterested in getting to know him. I don't like being a target for someone's attention because of my age. That turns me off. You've been told that before as you've been here before asking about this subject. I can't imagine that the answers this time around will be much different.


Yup, any conversation that starts with "I looooove older women" ends very quickly.




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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 6:17:50 PM   
SinFix


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Status: offline 		I get younger guys interested and yeah, it is a huge turn off. Sad thing is, they just cannot understand why I say I'm not interested and try to argue me into changing my mind...

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 6:35:58 PM   
Aylee


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ORIGINAL: lizi

What happens when a younger man approaches me is that I feel uninterested in getting to know him. I don't like being a target for someone's attention because of my age. That turns me off. You've been told that before as you've been here before asking about this subject. I can't imagine that the answers this time around will be much different.


Yup, any conversation that starts with "I looooove older women" ends very quickly.





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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 9:11:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		I generally think I won't have any common ground with much younger men, and I am a bit suspicious of their interest in me. A man 31 years younger than me messaged me today on Fet; instead of freaking out like I sometimes do, I told him how to find TNG groups and wished him well.
While I would stay fairly close to my own age group for relationship purposes I have to add that I stumbled upon the most amazingly fascinating person today, on CM, and he's only 23. I will never knee-jerk judge young men ever again.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 9:24:04 PM   
RemoteUser


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Status: offline 		Enjoy the person, not the age.

(This coming from someone who married a woman 7 years his elder, and who currently has a girl 13 years his junior. Really. Dude. It's how you connect.)


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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 9:38:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		To me the age difference does not matter tooo much. For me the need to be mentally mature and are in touch with themselves. I have had younger submissives - but they have been guys in uniform ( Military Guys ) that have seen a whole lot of things and have problems connecting with girls their age after service. How ever my current Sub is not military- but is 39. We connected in a whole lot of areas and we talk about a lot of stuff out side of the Kink too.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 9:50:20 PM   
tidbit5021


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Status: offline 		I find that going more than 10 years younger or 10 years older doesn't work well for me. I find that men in their 20's, in general, do not have enough life experience and I can only think of them as kid brothers. The fact that I could actually be his mother bothers me as well. I wonder a man that young sees in me.

As a side note, I'm not attracted to anyone who fails to use complete sentences, types primarily in text-speak when messaging, and neglects to proofread.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/30/2012 10:00:12 PM   
DianeB269


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ORIGINAL: alexbdsm

hey
i'm a single guy in mid 20 and the idea of being with older woman was always there and being with a woman in the same age or younger seems not so good as being with an older woman
i thought i was weird or sumthing but i found alot of other people out there with the same idea as mine so i went out and made some researches to find out the reason for why i wanna be with an older woman and i pretty much got the answer
but what i wish to know is that older woman POV from being with a younger man how does it feel when a much younger man approach you what in ur mind when that happens maybe some one with previous experience could enlighten me
thanx



Doesn't work for me...I have no interest in younger guys...

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/31/2012 5:48:03 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Having spent most of my life's waking hours around men, I don't get the attraction for the women, but to each their own.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/31/2012 6:07:17 AM   
WomanlyWiles


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Status: offline 		As a mummy domme, younger men are my thing. I tend to find men from my area who are my age astonishingly aged - the Scottish diet and climate is not kind to people in general, whereas I look considerably younger than my chronological age. Occasionally I come across someone fit and youthful but not often enough to make it worth my while.

I've also met 20 year old men and 40 year old boys, so I don't tend to put too much faith in age as a measure of maturity.

If I ever actually meet Kevin Bacon this will all go out the window, of course.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/31/2012 8:25:06 AM   
alexbdsm


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Status: offline 		thnx all for ur posts
1st im graduated from faculty of commerce
2nd i've never asked that question before i have only 7 posts thats the 8th and 6 of them were in one thread
finally thanks for sharing your experiences (notice im using full words now XD) it was helpful

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/31/2012 9:19:15 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		To be blunt, I think there's a different view if you're a Dominant. You're the one in control and their lack of life skills doesn't matter so much.

From the sub side of the kneel, giving control of my life to some 20 year old guy doesn't seem like a very smart thing to do.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/31/2012 9:54:56 AM   
needlesandpins


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Status: offline 		i've always been attracted to older men, it's only now that i've caught up to the top end of my age range. my playmate is 6yrs older than me, and that is about as least a gap as i like. however, because i'm now 40 i find that the much older men are not my thing. i guess as i age my upper age limit will raise. as it is i have never liked younger men, but i do get approached by alot of them. even when i had profiles saying i was looking, but with a lower age limit, they'd still get in touch and try to convince me that they were something special that i was missing out on. the number of times i've had 'age is only a number' said to me by these guys. yes age is a number that tells me you are too young to respect my lmits, now if it's only a number stop bothering me, fuck off and play with someone your own age.


my son is 18, and i have a step son aged 22. i seriously don't want to be with someone who is more like my son.


there does seem to be plenty of women out there that want the toy boy, so i have no idea why guys have such a problem finding them, or leaving those of us that don't want them alone.


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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/31/2012 10:02:09 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		when I was looking, I dated men in their early 30s (I was in my early 40s) and it was a bit weird. Although I could enjoy their company, I never got that dominant 'zing'.

Guys in their teens and twenties messaged me too, but as I teach kids up to the age of 16, I find the thought of dating someone only a few years older than my students too creepy for words.


Master is 6 months older than me, and that works pretty well in my world.

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