BeachMystress
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Joined: 4/3/2004
From: Naples Island- Long Beach CA - Southern California
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ORIGINAL: MiladyElaine
Does anyone know of any websites that have anonymous wishlists- besides extremerestraints?
Extreme Restraints wishlists are NOT anonymous, as I found out yesterday. An ex sub had to ask me my address to send a gift. Below is my question to ER about this, and their response. They claim to have never had an anonymous purchase wishlist, although I do know it was touted as such when I signed up for it.
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To: [email protected]
Subject: XR Website Question or Comment
Below is the result of your feedback form. It was submitted by
(beachmystress) on Saturday, November 13, 2004 at 21:38:46
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Name: Beach Mystress
Message: A friend tried to purchase something from my wishlist and it
did not indicate that it would be sent to me. He ended up entering my
address manually. Why was that
reply:
Dear Beachmystress,
We have a really strong policy on protecting the privacy our our customers
and site members.
It's outlined in our information section. By requiring the purchaser to know
the shipping address, it protects both you and our company.
There are so many situations where we might have to reveal the address we
send the goods too, in order to resolve a dispute or follow up on shipping
problems.
There are also a lot of liability concerns on our part for doing so. The
best protection for both our customers (you) and ourselves is to require
that the purchaser know where they are sending things.
If this is a problem for you, you may want to set up a shipping address at a
mail server.
Many pro dommes do this and have their clients send items to their mail
service instead of to their homes.
Mail services can sign for packages on your behalf if it is something that
is sent signature required for proof of receipt, if you give them permission
to do so.
I hope this makes you feel confident that we've got everyone's best
interests at heart.
We really strive to provide the best customer service we can and to protect
the privacy of all our customers.
Warm Regards,
Kelly
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Beach Mystress
to Kelly
More options Nov 17 (23 hours ago)
When I signed up for the wishlist it was touted as being one that was
anonymous. I was never notified of a change in service and was
surprised to find out that it was no longer what I expected. Thanks
for letting me know about this change.
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Kelly
to me
More options Nov 17 (14 hours ago)
Beach Mystress,
It is anonymous, we do not give out any explicitly revealing information
whatsoever. We would in no way endanger you or your identity. That is why we
do not give out any information. It is up to you to share your list with
whomever you choose. Our policy has never changed from when we first
instituted it. If we were to 'coordinate' between buyers and receivers,
there would be no good way for us to keep things anonymous between the two
parties. So we do not do it. It is up to you to arrange things if you wish
to receive goods from someone. Our wishlist is provided so you can share
your desired items, if you choose to do so.
You can elect to not display your wish list if you choose.
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Beach Mystress
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Wow! Thank you for that post. That explains that! LOL
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