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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:27:44 PM

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2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse
and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?

That depends. Can she kick your ass?
If this happened 2 months ago, and she hasn't asked you for it again, why is this a concern now?

I buy her clothes from the topshop website. For that I needed her home address and her landline no. and she gave it. So i thought i was being unfair.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:34:30 PM

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Have you denied her any of her requests, other than the actual card numbers?
Perhaps she understands you aren't comfortable giving out your personal information (credit card)
but it doesn't seem to be an issue for her, as she is still getting the things that she wants.

I can't understand your dwelling on this for the past two months unless something has changed
in your dynamic recently to make you wonder what could have caused those changes?
Also, don't you think your mistress would have left you for greener (or more plastic) pastures if this troubled her?

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:38:04 PM

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I'm wondering why in the past year you have had no meeting other than online. Do you have an online only relationship? That's is understandable, but I think the prepaid is a great idea,and safe. You can bring it back up to her and tell her that it has been bothering you since you denied her. Communication is an important key. Use it.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:44:03 PM

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Have you denied her any of her requests, other than the actual card numbers?
Perhaps she understands you aren't comfortable giving out your personal information (credit card)
but it doesn't seem to be an issue for her, as she is still getting the things that she wants.

I can't understand your dwelling on this for the past two months unless something has changed
in your dynamic recently to make you wonder what could have caused those changes?
Also, don't you think your mistress would have left you for greener (or more plastic) pastures if this troubled her?

Yes i have avioded her requests on several occassions and ive made excuses for it. Apparently, she bought it.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:45:11 PM

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Or she just stopped asking. Just bc she doesn't ask or bring it up, doesn't mean she bought it. Just saying.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:45:15 PM

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I'm wondering why in the past year you have had no meeting other than online. Do you have an online only relationship? That's is understandable, but I think the prepaid is a great idea,and safe. You can bring it back up to her and tell her that it has been bothering you since you denied her. Communication is an important key. Use it.

We live in differnet countries

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 3:47:29 PM

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Ok this is understandable. I guess that would make it a bit challenging. Go with the prepaid card.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:01:30 PM

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Ok this is understandable. I guess that would make it a bit challenging. Go with the prepaid card.

Definetaly.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:02:21 PM

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Yes i have avioded her requests on several occassions and ive made excuses for it. Apparently, she bought it.

I need to ask something here, and I apologize for going off topic, but, if you get to decide what you will and will not get for her,
and if you actually lie about the reasons for refusing her, where exactly is the Dominance and the submission?
What were your reasons for refusing her something. And not the made up reasons please. I'd truly like to know.
There have been many threads recently about the allure of financial domination, yet rarely do we get the actually fin sub to post.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:03:44 PM

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Spidey,

No offence, but I seem to recognise you in your avatar from a different nick some while ago. You weren't saying something ludicrous back then, too, were you?

Re the OP: On the whole, my advice to malesubs is that they're generally best advised not to be nutcases. It's dreary.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:28:29 PM

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Yes i have avioded her requests on several occassions and ive made excuses for it. Apparently, she bought it.

I need to ask something here, and I apologize for going off topic, but, if you get to decide what you will and will not get for her,
and if you actually lie about the reasons for refusing her, where exactly is the Dominance and the submission?
What were your reasons for refusing her something. And not the made up reasons please. I'd truly like to know.
There have been many threads recently about the allure of financial domination, yet rarely do we get the actually fin sub to post.

Well, its a bit complex. Its like I have a split personality. Part of me wants to be milked and controlled by a beautiful money mistress while the other part doesn't. I dont decide what to get for her and what not to. Sometimes she would order me to buy her a gift and I wolud obey. Other times i would back out but come up with an excuse. I wolud never let her know im backing off though. Hope i mad some sense. I think this is commom. Sometimes money slaves do back out right?

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:32:49 PM

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Spideycool,

Could I gently request that you stop taking the piss and go away?

Many thanks.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:34:28 PM

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Only if you are comfortable with her maxing it out and leaving you with the bill. And if she does do this, then you may not hear from her again.

I wouldn't do it, but then i'm not into financial domination.

Your call really.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:38:56 PM

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Thanks for answering, spidey. I can't really say what is common behavior for money slaves, I imagine your
submission is mood based? (truth be told, there are some days I'd rather not iron His clothes either, but don't tell Him that, ok?)
Perhaps you would enjoy visiting some of the current financial domination threads in General BDSM to gain other perspectives on this.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:40:49 PM

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2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?

How long have you known your money mistress?

I have known her for at least an year now.

If you've never met her face to face.....you don't know her, she's basically a complete stranger.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:44:23 PM

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Two words come to mind. Dumb , Ass

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:44:30 PM

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Yes, yes you should give it to her.

I wholeheartedly think it's a great idea!

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 4:54:44 PM

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Hmm... Honestly, I think that there's a children's story with three goats in it that's missing a troll.

Now.. shoo... get back to fairytale land.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 5:41:36 PM

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2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?

Sorry i forgot to mention something. I buy her clothes from the topshop website. For that i needed her home address and she gave it. We also communicate on whatsapp. Just thought i should tell you this.

Some credit card companies allow you to create a number for use only with a certain retailer, or one that has a spending cap that you control. Here's the link to Discover Secure Account Numbers.

https://www.discover.com/credit-cards/member-benefits/security/create-online-account-number.html

These services are mostly used as protection against hackers. Even if a company reveals your credit card number through a hack or just being negligent, people using such special credit card numbers face little risk. Maybe ask her why she wants it, and then give her an account that would let her do what she wants, while protecting you if she suddenly went crazy.

This, of course, is if you want to do this in the first place.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 6:50:01 PM

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I say if this is something that you want to do, then definitely use a pre-paid only card as was mentioned earlier.

UPS mailboxes give you an actual address and rather than a box number, it gives an apartment number. Someone could easily give out their 'home' address that's really a UPS box and nobody would know. Google voice could be a 'home' phone number. See where I'm going with this? Just because someone says it's true, doesn't mean it is. At the end of the day, she's still just an internet stranger.

I've never been entirely comfortable knowing credit card numbers of my subs. I know I'm trustworthy and that I wouldn't rack up a huge bill and disappear and my subs have always known that but it still doesn't seem like the smartest idea because as far as I know it's fraud to use a credit card that doesn't belong to you, even with permission from the credit card owner.

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