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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 7:00:13 PM   
IntSparked


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Status: offline 		This is a -very- bad idea all around. That's just me, though.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/5/2013 7:13:52 PM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		Dear OP. Don't send her your CC #.

On top of that, please take all the money you were going to send her over the next several months and use it to get yourself a vasectomy.

Your service to the general fitness of the human race will be greatly appreciated.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 7:38:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: spideycool69

2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?

Sorry i forgot to mention something. I buy her clothes from the topshop website. For that i needed her home address and she gave it. We also communicate on whatsapp. Just thought i should tell you this.


My issue isn't that you were not comfy with giving her your cc info but that you were not honest with her.

I would want THAT at all times. To ME that would be a bigger issue than you not wanting to give me your cc information.

I have had a slave give me a open access to their credit cards by giving me my own card on their accounts in the past. The same with giving me bank cards to have access to their accounts.

However, that was not something we did on a whim.
It was discussed prior to me asking for full access and we both knew exactly what to expect from it. We had set boundaries on both parts.

Would I do that with everyone?
Hell no.
I have had finsubs send me recharge cards for prepaid cards.
Or even gift cards for stores of my choosing.
To me this is just more reasonable for most finslaves and honestly less risk for ME.
I don't want the hassle of someone claiming I didn't have a right to use their credit card number or accessing their bank account.





< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 1/6/2013 7:40:05 AM >

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 9:44:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yup Yup, OP, I have to echo the rest of the good words on this:

1) This could end very badly.
2) This also has a level of risk for her.
3) If you're going to move this direction with her, start with something like a pre-paid card where you can step forward a bit but not risk so much at once.
4) You should have been and need to start to being honest with her.


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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 9:51:08 AM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		For pete's sakes people, how does he even know it's a "Her"?

"She" lives in a different country. Nigeria maybe?

"She" has zero risk. The OP claims he knows her address because he had stuff shipped to her. SUUUURE that's "her" house. Even if it is, do you think you can get interpol involved if she drains your ass?

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 9:57:44 AM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?

Sorry i forgot to mention something. I buy her clothes from the topshop website. For that i needed her home address and she gave it. We also communicate on whatsapp. Just thought i should tell you this.

Of course you should.
Give her your bank account numbers too, and you IRA's and any other cash you may have.
Cuz you know what they say about fools and money...

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 10:17:53 AM   
xLaChienne


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ORIGINAL: Kana
Cuz you know what they say about fools and money...



God bless them one and all.

Who else would be buying all my drinks when I go out?

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 10:41:44 AM   
sub4adventure


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Who else would be buying all my drinks when I go out?


Many gentlemen I'm sure.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 1:13:09 PM   
TNDommeK


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ORIGINAL: sub4adventure

Is this really a serious question he's asking?



quote:

ORIGINAL: xLaChienne

Who else would be buying all my drinks when I go out?


Many gentlemen I'm sure.



Best answer ever^

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 2:38:13 PM   
ServiceBoy89


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Status: offline 		spideycool69 don't do it.She use you only for money.Kick her in the ass and find Real dominant woman.You are not ugly.Find woman you enjoy really.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 4:25:17 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		couple points of interest.  has she sucked your dick?  would she trade used panties with you instead of the old visa number?

get back to me.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 5:09:15 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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My best piece of advice is to trust your gut instinct. If you were not comfortable giving it before, what changed between then and now to make you want to consider doing this? Honestly why you would give someone else your credit card number is beyond me. It is an insanely bad idea. Bad bad HUGELY BAD idea. Did I mention it was a bad idea?

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/6/2013 10:52:33 PM   
TwistedPfister


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Status: offline 		If I was a financial domme, I would be looking to find suckers, errr, longterm subs who I could build trust with over time. Thus, the "Walmart card with a limit" trick probably wouldn't work if we're talking about a really GOOD financial domme. Basically, we're talking about con artists, some of them skilled. People who are in the sole business of separating suckers from their money. These people know how to take the long term approach when they have a quality fish on the hook. Much better to work that fish a few bucks at a time, building trust by "not abusing" the credit card number that is given them over a period of months or even years. Increasing the limit by tiny amounts every now and then. And eventually, once the trust is there, getting the real credit card number. I can just hear them: "Why, don't you trust me after all this time?" And then, maxing that card out for thousands. Or maybe that's not even necessary. Why kill the host when you can just get the blood a little at a time?

I realize that this financial domme thing has been argued every which way, and that many feel that it's consensual and there is some kind of service provided. I don't happen to agree. I think the men who give money to these dommes are being taken advantage of because they happen to be weak and lacking in self esteem. My opinion, YMMV.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/7/2013 1:28:42 AM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Isn't that cute. ^^

Perhaps I should add " con artist" to My sig line,lol

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/7/2013 5:23:46 AM   
TheLilSquaw


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Isn't that cute. ^^

Perhaps I should add " con artist" to My sig line,lol



Agreed!
I was thinking about adding it to MINE as well!

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/7/2013 9:52:43 AM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Did it work? *looks down to sig line*. YAY! It did! Lol I'll leave that there until I get bored with it.


What's really sad is, this great and awesome thread has truly educated some while people like that continue to be close minded. I can bet, he didn't read more than one page.

< Message edited by TNDommeK -- 1/7/2013 9:54:39 AM >

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/7/2013 10:07:18 AM   
TheLilSquaw


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I LOVE it!!!!


ETA: Mine worked too! :)

< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 1/7/2013 10:11:36 AM >

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/7/2013 10:29:49 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

For pete's sakes people, how does he even know it's a "Her"?

"She" lives in a different country. Nigeria maybe?

"She" has zero risk. The OP claims he knows her address because he had stuff shipped to her. SUUUURE that's "her" house. Even if it is, do you think you can get interpol involved if she drains your ass?



^^^ This exactly. You have absolutely no idea who this person is.


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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/7/2013 11:46:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TwistedPfister

I realize that this financial domme thing has been argued every which way, and that many feel that it's consensual and there is some kind of service provided. I don't happen to agree. I think the men who give money to these dommes are being taken advantage of because they happen to be weak and lacking in self esteem. My opinion, YMMV.


How can a findomme possibly take advantage of someone who sought her out and opened a dialogue with her. knowing full well what she is from the start? That's ridiculous! This is the internet, if you don't want to do something, don't do it! It's clearly stated in our profiles what we are and what we're doing here. It's not some surprise, they're reeled in by witty conversation and then the findomme card is dropped on them. They know from the start. How does that scream 'being taken advantage of'?

Financial subs are some of the strongest people I've ever known and nobody I deal with is lacking self-esteem. Every sub I've dealt with knows that they are valuable because without a submissive, there can be no dominant.

It's just crazy that someone can say that 40+ year old men are basically victims. Victims of what? Wanting to serve in the way that they prefer?

I just don't understand why there are so many people that care so much about something that doesn't pertain to them in the slightest.

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RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mis... - 1/7/2013 12:50:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AllisonWilder

quote:

ORIGINAL: TwistedPfister

I realize that this financial domme thing has been argued every which way, and that many feel that it's consensual and there is some kind of service provided. I don't happen to agree. I think the men who give money to these dommes are being taken advantage of because they happen to be weak and lacking in self esteem. My opinion, YMMV.




It's just crazy that someone can say that 40+ year old men are basically victims. Victims of what? Wanting to serve in the way that they prefer?

I just don't understand why there are so many people that care so much about something that doesn't pertain to them in the slightest.


Because every male sub here has done something stupid, driven by their insanely strong urge to submit. Because after we've done it, after we've made that phone domination call, or paid way too much to download that video clip or whatever, we realize that sometimes we are not always 100% in control and sometimes do things we wouldn't under "normal" circumstances. I don't know if that's a male/female thing or what, but for you to say what you said above is very disingenuous. Women have been able to get men to do extremely foolish things in the name of sexual fulfillment for thousands of years, and this is no different. When a male sub is all wound up with submissive need, it's not a lot different from an addict Jonesing for a fix. Guys give out credit card numbers, give strange "women" (they hope) their addresses, phone numbers, send them money, do all kinds of stuff because they are worked up into a psycho-sexual lather. When it's totally consensual, that's one thing. When it's done by one person to exploit the weakness of the other for the sole purpose of obtaining their money, that's exploitation, and not truly consensual. As I said, I believe that working someone's need to be dominated against them for money is like working an addict's need for drugs, or an alcholic's need for booze. You can't really say it's consensual when you keep poking at their weak spot. After all, you are giving them what they want, sort of, right? Not really, but you keep waving the hope of it under their noses. And they keep paying. I know you disagree. That's the beauty of the forum. Apples and oranges.

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