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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 1:52:39 AM   
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if it's something you crave to do and do because you want to and not because she wants you to,and isn't useful to her, it's not service.


Even if you are whipped for not doing it right?

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 3:38:34 AM   
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if it's something you crave to do and do because you want to and not because she wants you to,and isn't useful to her, it's not service.


Even if you are whipped for not doing it right?


Yes. And if you enjoyed the whipping punishment and did not correct your mistake then, selfish bio, you have given her nothing except grief.

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 7:07:15 AM   
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Wouldn't it be funny as hell if we didn't 'qualify' for MystressWorld?

Actually no. What would be way, way funnier (and even more confusing) is if you DID qualify. Like findommes and everything else I don't deny the "trueness" of MystressWorld but man oh man.... talk about different worlds.


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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 8:01:23 AM   
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Want to help me draft a letter of inquiry?

Wouldn't it be funny as hell if we didn't 'qualify' for MystressWorld?





I would piss myself!

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 9:31:27 AM   
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dominant women who post regularly on the boards don't consider this type of activity "service." It's sex.


I'm not sure I understand the distinction.

It's forced servitude, being of service, pleasuring the Domme, and, to me, oral service on Domme's demand (in a way, it's osoDd, as opposed to OSODD). :)


Getting down on your knees is only service if you're scrubbing the floor.
Laying on your back is only service if you're working on the car.

If you want to do it, it can't be forced. Therefore, it is not "forced servitude," it's something you're panting to do and it gets your dick hard. There's no service in that, unless it's servicing your cock, which doesn't count as service to a dominant woman.

I can and do get sex from my husband and my girlfriend. They will give me sex any time I want it, any way I want it, for hours on end. All I have to do is say "hey, let's go have sex!" I don't need a submissive to do that. Sex is sex, it is not service. By my definition and from my observation, the definition of most of the women on this forum, service has no sexual component and may or may not be pleasant for the submissive. Washing the dishes is service. So is repainting the living room. Service is practical, useful, makes our lives easier, and comes with no expectation of sex or kinky fun time.



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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 9:34:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Wouldn't it be funny as hell if we didn't 'qualify' for MystressWorld?

Actually no. What would be way, way funnier (and even more confusing) is if you DID qualify. Like findommes and everything else I don't deny the "trueness" of MystressWorld but man oh man.... talk about different worlds.



Hey now...I have a degree in creative writing. Are you saying you doubt my ability to spin a yarn suitable for acceptance to MystressWorld? I think I'm offended.


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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 3:49:07 PM   
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service has no sexual component and may or may not be pleasant for the submissive.


Well said!

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 3:52:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: crossboi


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ORIGINAL: Alecta
if it's something you crave to do and do because you want to and not because she wants you to,and isn't useful to her, it's not service.


Even if you are whipped for not doing it right?

That's not a whipping its her shoe repeatedly kicking you towards the front door that will likely get bolted in your face. The "ooh I was bad" spanky guys are even less sought after than those with "certified by mystressworld" on their naked ass

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 5:41:57 PM   
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The "ooh I was bad" spanky guys are even less sought after than those with "certified by mystressworld" on their naked ass


What sub guys are the ones most sought after?

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 6:04:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: theRose4U
The "ooh I was bad" spanky guys are even less sought after than those with "certified by mystressworld" on their naked ass


What sub guys are the ones most sought after?


The ones who realize that being submissive is only one facet to their personality, who are confident in themselves and their submission, are able to focus on and talk about things not relating to kink/sex/their dick, who are self aware, have standards beyond "female, dominant and has a pulse" and are able to clearly express what it is they're looking for.

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 7:06:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VioletViolence


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ORIGINAL: subinsilicon


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ORIGINAL: theRose4U
The "ooh I was bad" spanky guys are even less sought after than those with "certified by mystressworld" on their naked ass


What sub guys are the ones most sought after?


The ones who realize that being submissive is only one facet to their personality, who are confident in themselves and their submission, are able to focus on and talk about things not relating to kink/sex/their dick, who are self aware, have standards beyond "female, dominant and has a pulse" and are able to clearly express what it is they're looking for.

This & the left out actually fit what a Domme finds attractive, what her kinks are & general geography

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/10/2013 7:36:07 PM   
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are able to focus on and talk about things not relating to kink/sex/their dick,


I never met a man who couldn't wax more eloquently about his dick than he could politics!

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/11/2013 2:41:49 AM   
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What sub guys are the ones most sought after?
It depends on the woman. For example, the ones who come across as being kink or dick centric (hmmmm, we might see a good representation on this thread) generally don't go over any better than horndogs in the vanilla world. Good manners are always a plus and women don't see that coming through when somebody is focused on their genitals or other types of sexual gratification. Most women aren't turned on by a stranger bending over to show his ass or making it clear that his kink is more important than showing that he's a human being.

The traits that make vanilla men sought after are the same in the kink world. Intelligent, a good sense of humor, a pleasant disposition, etc. What draws people to partners if the kink wasn't involved? Honestly, the same applies when the kink is involved because women want the whole package. Just being willing to be the receiver of kink isn't that appealing. It's honestly not that hard for a woman to find a kinky play partner so men who show they bring more than that to the table usually do better.


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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/12/2013 6:38:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		Exactly LP, what's so hard about the concept of:"I'm looking for cock-a-doodle do" not "any cock-ll-do"

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/12/2013 6:51:33 AM   
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Exactly LP, what's so hard about the concept of:"I'm looking for cock-a-doodle do"

You rang?

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/12/2013 6:52:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VioletViolence
are able to focus on and talk about things not relating to kink/sex/their dick,


I never met a man who couldn't wax more eloquently about his dick than he could politics!

Much less likely to start an argument.

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/12/2013 7:14:50 AM   
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It is a term coined by MistressWorld ... Oral Sex On Domme Demand ... the intent is to train the male mind to give, without recieving gratification ...

Similar to Chastity and Chastity devices ... same concept, applied differently.

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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/12/2013 7:18:50 AM   
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Exactly LP, what's so hard about the concept of:"I'm looking for cock-a-doodle do" not "any cock-ll-do"
And yet, the clue by four hint missed at least one on this thread.



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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/12/2013 7:21:07 AM   
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From what little I read, OSODD is a behavior modification program designed to prep submissive males for...umm...shall we call it "fluffer" service?...and cleanup after cuckolding.

Then I had to go look at MystressWorld. Uh, yeah. Okay.

Despite my trepidation, I would be willing to take one for the team, as it were, if you will all agree to take up a collection for any fees that might arise from my application and training for the Domme Corps. Ooh rah!
Before we pay any fees, maybe they could send us some video results of their 'success' stories of their males who have gone through said behavior modification.




Interestingly enough, I know a Domme in my area who actually found Her live-in submissive through MistressWorld. He relocated to Her from another part of the country, and they have lived together for four or five years.

While I understand this is an extremely rare occurance ....

It is also a rare occurance on Collar Me, too.

PS: Oh ... but She says She doesn't have any video's .....


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RE: Where can I find out more about "imposed OSODD... - 1/12/2013 8:25:28 AM   
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It is a term coined by MistressWorld ... Oral Sex On Domme Demand ...

Maybe I'm confused but when the Dom(me) demands oral sex, the damn sub is supposed to give it if that's part of the prearranged agreement. If not, they can walk.
"Coined by Mystressworld" my big white hairy ASS

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