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RE: transformation? - 1/11/2013 12:16:53 PM

sissytobefeminiz

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hi VioletViolence in reply to men are soooo focused on their cock and how big it is.

that's where the tops aka masters/daddys differ from the bottoms such as myself aka subs/femm bois or sissys who loves and enjoys
dressing up all in femm cloths and going out on dates in femm cloths and being treated as a girl in every way differ
while there focused on their cock and how big it is. were trying to figure out how to get rid of ours to better satisfy them more as a
women rather than trying to enlarge it

if i was able to i would get rid of mine right now in a heart beat .... not that i have'nt been trying to get rid of it
i've just been having a hard time trying to get it done ... when i try on my own its seems to be harder to get any where with it
since i have no idea on what to do first unless i can find someone who i can serve who will take me on as there own that knows
how to do transformation's and who is willing to transform a cross dressing sissy such as myself into a girl of our dreams
to where both of us are happy with the out cum

but myself i realy enjoy guys with big huge cocks but then again im a bottom and always have been
i would do what ever it takes to be transformed into a real girl right now if i had every thing to do it with
if i had all the hormones i needed for it right now i would use them right now to enlarge my breasts as well as round out
every thing else that needs it

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RE: transformation? - 1/11/2013 12:34:10 PM

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OP: I tell my guy what he'll wear, how to cut his hair, how to shave, jewelry, etc., and agree this is a given.
Their workouts are also defined; enough for health and a bit of body-sculpting, but not too much which interferes with health, let alone a relationship, charity work, etc.
TV's are a hard limit, so absolutely no feminising clothing or behaviour. No alcohol or drugs are a given, too.
Later in the relationship, we discuss body modifications., such as tattoos, branding, piercings, circ, etc., and a hot talk that is, too!
Come to think of it, training a good straight man to take a strap-on is a bit of body mod ;-) although much less pain and blood than breaking a hymen.

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RE: transformation? - 1/11/2013 2:50:53 PM

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hi VioletViolence in reply to men are soooo focused on their cock and how big it is.

that's where the tops aka masters/daddys differ from the bottoms such as myself aka subs/femm bois or sissys who loves and enjoys
dressing up all in femm cloths and going out on dates in femm cloths and being treated as a girl in every way differ
while there focused on their cock and how big it is. were trying to figure out how to get rid of ours to better satisfy them more as a
women rather than trying to enlarge it

Er, no.

The comparisons and groupings you just made aren't universally accurate or applying. You may be accurately describing *your* orientation and feelings regarding your penis and it may be shared with others (as I know it is), but that does not make it something that applies broadly or to all.

Tops/masters/daddys aren't all the same thing.
Bottoms/subs/femboys/sissies aren't all the same thing.
Your description of yourself and others like you is VERY penis-focused in that post.
Many bottoms/subs/femboys/and even sissies are quite concerned about their penis size and wanting a larger one.
Many tops/masters/daddys aren't that concerned about their penis size and wanting a larger one.

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RE: transformation? - 1/11/2013 2:56:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: VioletViolence

I was reading along till I saw this....

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Oh, and he did this thing years ago that caused his penis to be about an inch longer. I told him to cut that out because I didn't like it. So he stopped doing it and went back to his normal size.

And my eyes did this... o.O
Really? He increased his penis size? And the fact that you didn't like it and made him go back to normal does kinda make me giggle, since men are soooo focused on their cock and how big it is.

Yeah he did. It was funny how I found out...

I'd been noticing something felt different during sex for a while, call it a month or two. A bit more discomfort sometimes but nothing terrible or needing addressed. Just the occasional (hm, that's different) sort of thing that I wondered about here and there but shrugged off as just the quirks of human bodies and sex.

I'm walking into his room one day and he's walking out, we meet at the doorway.

He for some reason at that moment grins at me and says, "I made my penis bigger!".

I'm like, "What?".

And he explains about the size increase and how he managed it.

The lightbulb clicks on.

"So *that's* why things have been feeling weird!"

"What?"

"I've been noticing something feeling different lately and couldn't figure what it could be!"

"Oh, okay"

"It freaks me out that it got bigger. It's not supposed to do that"

"I.... sorry?..."

"Stop it"

"What?"

"Stop it, I don't like it"

"Really?"

"Yes"

Sure enough, next time we were naked and he was "happy" I inspected things.... yep, about an inch, inch and a half difference.

Took a couple months til everything felt normal again.

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RE: transformation? - 1/12/2013 10:30:31 AM

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I just love how he was all proud, only to have you be all "Stop it". Just goes to show not all women want a bigger cock. I know if my lover suddenly started trying to make his penis bigger I'd do everything I could to convince him not to.

Also @sissytobefeminiz, Rumpus is correct you're making a lot of inaccurate assumptions in your post. And pretty much everything you post comes off like a very thinly veiled personal ad for you to find someone into your kinks. That's really not appreciated on these boards.

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RE: transformation? - 1/12/2013 2:54:40 PM

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well that what i have seen in others if it sounded like i was assuming or thinly veiled personal ad its not ment to i know i have a hard time
saying what i realy mean at times some times it just comes out in the wrong way when im trying to say some thing one way and it ends up comming out the other way and getting lost in translation along the way and at this point i had forgotten what i was realy trying or
what i realy ment to say .... i try my best to try to say what i mean but some times i fail in it i know i guess thats what i get for not
talking to anyone for so long because i was tired of being hurt by others as a result but i do still try to say what i mean if it comes out
wrong then im sorry some times what i say can be taken in more than 1 way i been trying to avoid that but does not always work
if i did that i am sorry i was not trying to do that some times others read more into things than whats there as well
such as when someone might be trying to be funny then if someone reads it they may not think its funny and take it the wrong way
it all depends on the person ...personaly i forgot what i was trying for for that im sorry...and im sorry i even talked or said any thing

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RE: transformation? - 1/12/2013 5:35:48 PM

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You should be incredibly proud of yourself TheLilSquaw! That is just awesome!

Congrats to you from me!! :)

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I went from requiring 5 medications to none, between the diet change, work out, and herbal stuff.
I went from being 257 to 158 and I am still losing. (since May)

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RE: transformation? - 1/12/2013 9:59:59 PM

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I for one would like to see you empowered enough in your own life to pursue this "transformation" on your own, without the help or input of another. Something that deep should...must...be personal, be entirely you...it is too big a change to add kinky desires into it really. Really.

The whole feminization fantasy...is great as a fantasy. But it does NOT work in real life. My advice. Do this for yourself. Do it on your own. Don't make it a fetish event. Make it part of your authenticity. Become a woman externally because you are one internally already.

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