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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

In response to everyone here... OF COURSE AI WOULDNT GIVE HER BIRTHCONTROL without actually investigating whether she could take it and what she could take prior to doing it. seriously yall are rediculous... just because i didn't spell it out doesn't imply im a fool ... scolding me about responsibility.... oh please. I'm well aware about birth control and all forms of it and the process it takes to get a pill or patch or shot if any that works for a particular female. I didn't mention this because of course i thought you guys would figure (thats implied), in birth control so let me clarify yes i would give it to her without her knowledge after verifying it wouldn't do her any harm. To me i see this as the only real way to safely do the breeder fetish besides having all the guys have vasectomies. (spelling).... wow... you guys just jump at every thing i say ... amazing.

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ORIGINAL: Destreid

As opposed to what? One that isn't? I can be "forceful" from time to time but really...

And yes I will have a say but that's not what will take abortion of the table. That's... something else. As I keep saying there's a discussion involved. But my "kegger" days are behind me anyway.

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

In response to everyone here... OF COURSE AI WOULDNT GIVE HER BIRTHCONTROL without actually investigating whether she could take it and what she could take prior to doing it. seriously yall are rediculous... just because i didn't spell it out doesn't imply im a fool ... scolding me about responsibility.... oh please. I'm well aware about birth control and all forms of it and the process it takes to get a pill or patch or shot if any that works for a particular female. I didn't mention this because of course i thought you guys would figure (thats implied), in birth control so let me clarify yes i would give it to her without her knowledge after verifying it wouldn't do her any harm. To me i see this as the only real way to safely do the breeder fetish besides having all the guys have vasectomies. (spelling).... wow... you guys just jump at every thing i say ... amazing.

There isn't any way for you to "investigate" whether or not a person could take medication in whatever form without being a licensed medical professional in that field. There are way too many variables in determining an appropriate medication match, which is why people go to school and train for years to be able to do it. You have not stated that you have this training, it is a fair assumption to make that you are not actually ethically or professionally capable of making this decision for someone else.

You honestly think that people are just willy nilly jumping all over you? The reason they are alarmed is because you have stated some very preposterous things. In general if someone feels that they have been continually mistreated on the boards I'd encourage them to look at how they are communicating; if a large group of unconnected people is "jumping" on everything someone says, then I'd look at what that person is saying and how it is being said. Makes more sense then going the conspiracy theory route and you might actually get somewhere in changing what is happening.

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ORIGINAL: OwnersSearching

New to the discussion, and to add my two cents... I've been peripherally attached to the "breeding"/bare-foot pregnant scene for years now, and have had some experience actively participating years ago (though I never did get anyone pregnant-fact). My experiences as such tend to leave the scope of the scene wide open. There have been those that, as part of a fairly tight nit group, "breed" and keep their children "in the family." But more often there are those that give the children up for adoption, or one parent gives up full rights to the other. So as far as the custody/legal side goes its really out there and thing change from person to person.

As far as those that participate in it; "all-walks-of-life" really does sum it up. I've know woman and men that will get there kink on as part of a group (exclusively) while others will go to great lengths to "stud" or be "studded" by the "Best" available, and always return to those select partners. Sub/Dom really doesn't hold as much weight in the scene as it does in other alt circles, at least from my view, I've known just as many dominant women that have actively sought continues pregnancy as much as cock-sluts aiming to be barefoot-pregnant & dripping 24/7.

As for the tangent on breeding vs pregnancy (here I abandon my attempt at being unbiased). Agreed, a lot of the people I've known over the years use the term to dissociate the fetish/kink/lifestyle from the act of child-bearing, parenthood, or even the basic idea of bringing a life into the world. This is one of my major issues with the lifestyle as a whole. Children should not be the "unfortunate" byproduct of a lifestyle and shoved off on one parent or the other or dropped off at the local orphanage to make room in the "mothers" (roll eyes/throw up a little in my mouth) womb to make room for the next unfortunate. Which seems to be general mindset of many of the woman involved any more, and to make things worse the majority of males rarely express any interest beyond "knocking up that bitch" as some kind of bragging right. Case in point are those schmucks in Tennesse that have something like 40+ children from 9+ dif "mothers" each. There is an argument in there for court ordered sterilization.......anyways.....

Now that I've bashed the hell out of the majority of people involved I will say, in defense, that there are some very-very close nit groups that take the responsibility of repeated parent-hood as a result of their lifestyle choice seriously. More so in-fact than most vanilla parents seem to in this day and age. And to those few I tip my hat. As well as the even smaller fraction of the community that participate in the lifestyle by way of surrogacy.

~Michael

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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Once again.. i tell her i want her on it for a spell... she agrees with it.. .because she is my slave... it's freakin easy, the fact that you people don't see the obvious is rediculous, its sad i have to explain such a simple plan.

1. take to doctor.
2. get birth control
3. get her off birth control but still getting pills.
4. give her birth control without knowledge...
5. Breed away
6. Rinse, repeat.

Slave satisfied.

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

In response to everyone here... OF COURSE AI WOULDNT GIVE HER BIRTHCONTROL without actually investigating whether she could take it and what she could take prior to doing it. seriously yall are rediculous... just because i didn't spell it out doesn't imply im a fool ... scolding me about responsibility.... oh please. I'm well aware about birth control and all forms of it and the process it takes to get a pill or patch or shot if any that works for a particular female. I didn't mention this because of course i thought you guys would figure (thats implied), in birth control so let me clarify yes i would give it to her without her knowledge after verifying it wouldn't do her any harm. To me i see this as the only real way to safely do the breeder fetish besides having all the guys have vasectomies. (spelling).... wow... you guys just jump at every thing i say ... amazing.

There isn't any way for you to "investigate" whether or not a person could take medication in whatever form without being a licensed medical professional in that field. There are way too many variables in determining an appropriate medication match, which is why people go to school and train for years to be able to do it. You have not stated that you have this training, it is a fair assumption to make that you are not actually ethically or professionally capable of making this decision for someone else.

You honestly think that people are just willy nilly jumping all over you? The reason they are alarmed is because you have stated some very preposterous things. In general if someone feels that they have been continually mistreated on the boards I'd encourage them to look at how they are communicating; if a large group of unconnected people is "jumping" on everything someone says, then I'd look at what that person is saying and how it is being said. Makes more sense then going the conspiracy theory route and you might actually get somewhere in changing what is happening.

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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

I was noticing last night that there seems to be an increased interest in breeding" fetish. I was reading through the postings and the "want ads" I assumed that this was a fantasy kind of thing (woman on the pill or diaphragm...so they "bareback" and pretend there is a risk of pregnancy) but most posters seemed to be intending to attempt conception. Has anyone heard if there are many people who actually are having babies like this? If so, how do they address custody and support?

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Once again.. i tell her i want her on it for a spell... she agrees with it.. .because she is my slave... it's freakin easy, the fact that you people don't see the obvious is rediculous, its sad i have to explain such a simple plan.

1. take to doctor.
2. get birth control
3. get her off birth control but still getting pills.
4. give her birth control without knowledge...
5. Breed away
6. Rinse, repeat.

Slave satisfied.

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

In response to everyone here... OF COURSE AI WOULDNT GIVE HER BIRTHCONTROL without actually investigating whether she could take it and what she could take prior to doing it. seriously yall are rediculous... just because i didn't spell it out doesn't imply im a fool ... scolding me about responsibility.... oh please. I'm well aware about birth control and all forms of it and the process it takes to get a pill or patch or shot if any that works for a particular female. I didn't mention this because of course i thought you guys would figure (thats implied), in birth control so let me clarify yes i would give it to her without her knowledge after verifying it wouldn't do her any harm. To me i see this as the only real way to safely do the breeder fetish besides having all the guys have vasectomies. (spelling).... wow... you guys just jump at every thing i say ... amazing.

There isn't any way for you to "investigate" whether or not a person could take medication in whatever form without being a licensed medical professional in that field. There are way too many variables in determining an appropriate medication match, which is why people go to school and train for years to be able to do it. You have not stated that you have this training, it is a fair assumption to make that you are not actually ethically or professionally capable of making this decision for someone else.

You honestly think that people are just willy nilly jumping all over you? The reason they are alarmed is because you have stated some very preposterous things. In general if someone feels that they have been continually mistreated on the boards I'd encourage them to look at how they are communicating; if a large group of unconnected people is "jumping" on everything someone says, then I'd look at what that person is saying and how it is being said. Makes more sense then going the conspiracy theory route and you might actually get somewhere in changing what is happening.

You are the one who said you would give it to her 'unknowingly". Go back and read your post. YOU said it, not us. So if you tell her you want her on it for a spell, how is that her not knowing? <scratches head out of confusion>


ETA: Do you know that if she goes off it and then you put her back on it, that there's a huge, huge, chance she will get pregnant anyway? It takes the body a long time to adjust to birth control and why they tell you to use protection also until the pill adjusts.

Plus if you stop and start it can fuck up the hormones and cause fibroids, menstrual issues, such as she will get her menses irregularly which means she won't ever know if she's pregnant or not unless she takes a test. She'd be having to take a test every month since you fucked up her cycle.

Dude, do me a favor. Talk to a gyn so you can get your facts straight about birth control. You don't have a single clue at all.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

LOL

Love how you keep changing your story.

So basically all you're doing is telling her she isn't taking it anymore but she is and she knows full well she is. so you're just pretending and so is she.

You couldn't just say that from the beginning?

No one in your third change now, is doing anything unknowingly. You both are completely aware.

LOL

Funny

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


It's a disgusting thing to bring a child into this world simply to fulfill a fetish.

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

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ORIGINAL: Destreid

As opposed to what? One that isn't? I can be "forceful" from time to time but really...

And yes I will have a say but that's not what will take abortion of the table. That's... something else. As I keep saying there's a discussion involved. But my "kegger" days are behind me anyway.

You're the only one into this, people want to know what you have to say. Quit being vague!

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ORIGINAL: Moonlightmaddnes
I can't see why anyone would want to be pregnant all the time. I am now, and while I do enjoy some things, I still get morning sickness sometimes even in the 8th month! I can't have a drink with my friends. I cant have tuna or most sea food due to mercury. I cant have lunch meats because of possible listeria, I get tired so easy now, I cant bend over very easily anymore and I get short of breath easier since my baby is now big enough to push against my diaphragm. I love a clean house and I tend to get grumpy when it gets cluttered but a day of my normal cleaning leaves my back in pain the rest of the night on top of all the other lovely aches. While this is a time I treasure with feeling my baby move I would not want to do it over and over again. In fact if I have anything to say about it I will not have another baby since this one has made me high risk. That sucks going to all the doctors appointments and the monitoring I have to do every week.