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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/13/2013 11:53:10 PM

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A "fellow switch?" His profile says he's a Dominant, not a switch.

I refuse to draw you a map. If you're not particularly quick on the uptake, it's pointless for you to attempt to understand what I post. And pointless for me to explain it.

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 2:37:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl
A "fellow switch?" His profile says he's a Dominant, not a switch.
I refuse to draw you a map. If you're not particularly quick on the uptake, it's pointless for you to attempt to understand what I post. And pointless for me to explain it.

Oh, you don't have to draw me a map. I already know who's really slow on the uptake. Just because he's looking for switch women, it doesn't mean he is a switch.

He's looking for switch women and sub women because he's wanting the switch woman to co-Top the sub woman with him. See, he could have a woman co-Top a sub woman with him, but she'd still be sub to him. Can't you see that? He just as much as comes right out and says so. See the quote below:

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ORIGINAL: darkalan
Teaming up on a sub would be the ultimate turn on. I helped train a friend of my sub in her Domme tendencies. But most Domme's barriers are up and strong and getting past them is difficult. Thoughts?

So, who's slow on the uptake now?

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 3:04:20 AM

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oh oh, I know who!

Thanks for the laugh NBMG

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Oh, you don't have to draw me a map. I already know who's really slow on the uptake. Just because he's looking for switch women, it doesn't mean he is a switch.

He's looking for switch women and sub women because he's wanting the switch woman to co-Top the sub woman with him. See, he could have a woman co-Top a sub woman with him, but she'd still be sub to him. Can't you see that? He just as much as comes right out and says so.
So, who's slow on the uptake now?

NBMG

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 3:22:58 AM

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oh oh, I know who!

Thanks for the laugh NBMG

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 7:28:10 AM

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Since I "know" you a little better than some of the others here ...I am going to jump in... You would probably better finding a Domme female or a switch than a sub. Hey, I was surprised at the number of Dom/me who are interested in other dominants. I think the encounter with the friend of your sub probably kindled that "hey, it is just as much of a turn own to co-Dom..." Yes, this will start you on the "unicorn" hunt but all is possible. Any chance of hooking back up with the "friend" you trained?

Since you don't know me, to be clear, you are refering to the OP

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 8:55:01 AM

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Man! Everyone just hold on! Why are y'all getting mean on each other. It wasn't that deep a question. It was more of an idea. Any domme out there who doesn't think she is attractive? Forget the leather (I'm sorry I ever mentioned that!) I was just saying powerful women are attractive! And yes my sub was a strong independent woman too. But in a different way - hence the "submissive"

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 9:04:13 AM

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Ok, so basically you're just looking for a normal woman woman who is into kinky sex. There's tons and tons of those out there. You should be able to find one of those just about anywhere.

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 9:09:50 AM

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Rather than overreacting, when this thread goes back to the intelligent discussion of D/D couples or co-topping, let Me know.

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 9:23:40 AM

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I have a Dom friend who I occasionally co-top with. I believe any type of play you are interested in is out there, it is finding the right people. Good luck.

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 9:39:46 AM

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I know a couple of couples who have been together for many years who are both Dom/Domme. They both have their own subs and neither of them switches. Together they have just I dunno...regular sex if that's what you call it, and they every once in awhile will co-top each other's subs. Some people can make this work. It's not too common though.

I have known two M/F dom/dom couples. One ended up splitting up partially over this issue. The other I have lost touch with. I think the first couple (split) were college sweethearts who got into all of this a little later. The second couple started out M dom to F sub but then she sort of flowered into the domme persona. They still occasionally (but not often) played as M dom and F sub but it was trying for them. More for him than her as I recall. Seemed like male subs would like up around the block to play with her without any concern that she was married and in an open play relationship. Female subs avoided him like he was some sort of pariah. As for the OP, I get where he is coming from. The thought of topping another dom who has crossed party lines is hot.

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 9:40:09 AM

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 12:30:06 PM

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Rather than overreacting, when this thread goes back to the intelligent discussion of D/D couples or co-topping, let Me know.

Exactly.

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RE: attraction to Dommes - 1/14/2013 1:47:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Since I "know" you a little better than some of the others here ...I am going to jump in... You would probably better finding a Domme female or a switch than a sub. Hey, I was surprised at the number of Dom/me who are interested in other dominants. I think the encounter with the friend of your sub probably kindled that "hey, it is just as much of a turn own to co-Dom..." Yes, this will start you on the "unicorn" hunt but all is possible. Any chance of hooking back up with the "friend" you trained?

Since you don't know me, to be clear, you are refering to the OP

Sorry Michael. Yes, I have never met you ( although I am sure you are a very nice man) & I was referring to the OP.

On topic...I agree with Delilya..EVERYTHING is out there...it is just a matter of finding it (as the saying kind of goes.."there is a lid for every pot"...no matter how warped the pot is!"

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