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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/15/2013 12:53:20 PM

MistressSara7

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ORIGINAL: evesgrden

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ORIGINAL: MistressSara7

So I've gotten a few messages accusing me of being fake, even stating that my profile is fake or my pictures are fake and even had one really rude guy who accused me of being a man. Has this ever happened to anyone else and what is your response, if you even chose to respond to such ridiculousness?

Sara, what's your definition of fake?

I think it's true that you'll take as much money as you can from anyone who contacts you.
I think it's true that you'll humiliate him and give him his wanking orders.

What's fake about that? You're being quite straightforward with respect to what you want.. money/gifts in exchange for kinky cyber.

I've never been called fake, but if I was in your business, I'd say,
"I'm a damn good fetish delivery system. Calling me a fake is not going to give you proof of that. Sending cash, tributes and gifts.... will. You know the rules, and if you obey them you'll be rewarded. If not, then this is good-bye"

Translation: money talks bullshit walks.

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I love it! This is exactly it! I'm being honest about myself and who I am and I'm called fake. Seems the interwebs have got a lot of people perception of reality skewed; one can only be real if you are physically undesirable and lie about their intentions.
Ha what a crazy world we live in lol

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/15/2013 1:04:43 PM

TheLilSquaw

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ORIGINAL: MistressSara7

TheLilSquaw

Ok that's just made me bust out laughing lol. Yeah foot pictures can have anyone fooled lol

So are boobie and cleavage pics!

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/15/2013 6:17:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressSara7

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: MistressSara7

rochsub, at one point everyone's profile was one month old. Also just because I do not stack up to your mental image of what my stats should be, does not mean that my stats are not correct. You do not hold the benchmark and your theories are not absolute.

Your target audience just told you what pops into mind when they view your profile and why you're getting the response you're getting.

Yeah well I appreciate his opinions but his opinions are not fact. My stats and length of time here is what it is and I cannot change those things.

I tried to make it very clear that I wasn't accusing you of being fake. But you asked why someone might think that, and I gave you some theories.

Of course you can't change the time that you've been here. I was just letting you know that people who haven't been here very long, or those with a very low post count (particularly if their post count is "1") are sometimes accused of being "fake".

As others have stated, it's VERY COMMON for women to be called fakes here on CM. Personally, I never call anyone fake. In fact, I'm often the one defending those who are most often called "fakes" (pro Dommes and financial Dommes). But you asked the question, so I tried to give you an opinion. No harm intended. Sorry if I offended.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/15/2013 7:31:36 PM

littlewonder

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like others said, if I saw your profile, I would think you are a scammer with stolen pics.

As for being called fake....eehh.....I've been here for years upon years and I still get told I'm fake and that Master does not exist and that I'm probably 400 lbs and ugly as sin and that my photo is stolen. heh...I just laugh and delete.

If you think you are real, I guess that's all that matters. But I guess it's bad for your kind of business. I would think you would have better luck on actual pro sites than here, at least from what I know of that kind of business.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/15/2013 9:35:17 PM

Casteele

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You fake. I'm fake. We're all fake. there is no spoon, reality is a fake. Everything is fake.

So just laugh at those who yell fake, and move along. Don't waste your time even worrying about them, or their words; they're just keeping you from investing your time more fruitfully with those whom you should be spending it on.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/15/2013 9:42:58 PM

ashjor911

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your boobies are fake .. so you are some kida of fake.. which make you a fake person.. yes you are a fake.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/16/2013 9:13:55 AM

Missokyst

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Nah. Women can easily hold a lot of weight in the boobs and butt. Most of my weight is on my bottom. I easily was 150 and curvatious as heck when I was a belly dancer.

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Although I agree, 150# seems high for 5'1" and those pictures.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/16/2013 9:15:36 AM

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/16/2013 9:18:11 AM

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Yup. I've even had my profile pulled for it.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/16/2013 9:51:16 AM

ccc3333

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lol its better to be called fake than actually be fake... some profile which of course i can't name but would love to... said in their profile "females only" in caps... yet they viewed me.... they were 19 yr old sub... lol... so they chat request me... and i accept... and i say "hey".... up in the webcam section flashes a GUY lol... with shirt off... im like UHHHHH... and they promptly leave lol... creepy.

That is fake! lol

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/16/2013 11:09:56 AM

CynthiaWVirginia

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Yep.

That's when I told them I was a regular munch goer, gave the names of the munch groups and asked them to have their munch or MAsT group leader look up and contact MY munch or MAsT group leader to verify that I am a real person. LOL, that's when they went all spastic on me and screeched that I was trying to send them to secret groups and away from Collarme.

I have even heard of several college kids opening up accounts so they could sit together drinking beer and munching snacks while one of them baits someone online or gets them to do things on web cam so they can all enjoy the show. People go online for many different reasons and it's easy to get gun shy after being at any BDSM site for a week or two.

Btw, even when telling them to "meet up or shut up" to "verify" that you are both real people (in some public place over coffee) some will insist on screaming FAKE. Some have also been burned too many times by guys pretending to be women, being stood up...and are too new to the lifestyle to know that munches exist and are clueless about where to find them...but the rest...yeah...they are looking for a free web camming boobs and pussy show to prove to them that you are "real".

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/16/2013 6:07:53 PM

LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: MistressSara7

So I've gotten a few messages accusing me of being fake, even stating that my profile is fake or my pictures are fake and even had one really rude guy who accused me of being a man. Has this ever happened to anyone else and what is your response, if you even chose to respond to such ridiculousness?

When I (at one time) had a photo of my cock on my profile, clearly and visibly obvious that I could fuck someone from another state while still in the comfort of my own home....yes....I've had wimmens claim I was fake.

I can't help my gifted DNA.

The fact that I've lost enough blood during several of these events to have had emergency services haul me away on a gurney, even as I was still fucking (and have the insurance docs to prove it), has never quelled the naysayers.

I can't help that.

Haters are everywhere.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/16/2013 6:17:50 PM

MstrPBK

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I have been accused of being fake far to many times; and I do get tiered of it sometimes.

Being disabled does not mean I have t lie about who I am.
In fact the people who know me best know best know I 'can;t lie because of the level of my honesty is so high.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/16/2013 6:18:21 PM

obeyxmilla

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In the 3years or so that I've been here (my old profile was Privileged) I've rarely been accused of being fake. I get plenty of other findomme abuse, though.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/16/2013 6:32:27 PM

cloudboy

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Your profile comports to me. It makes total sense that you might leverage your looks to inspire financial domination that then dovetails with shopping. Before I ponied up any money, though, I'd want to know that your curvy pictures were you and not someone else. (Assuming that I enjoyed sending money to brash to talking femdoms who live far outside my own zip code.)

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/18/2013 7:40:47 AM

EsotericLady

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It does. But I really don't care.

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

OP,
It happens all the time.
Especially if / when someone is rejected.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/18/2013 1:20:19 PM

MistressSara7

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Why move the topic?

Anyway, thank you all for your serious and comedic responses. I think the general consensus here is that we're all fake..lol

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/18/2013 1:39:56 PM

jlf1961

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Not fake, but there is a poster in P&R that is making a habit of accusing college grads about lieing about their education, and he is constantly making grammar errors and spelling errors that are significantly found in people with less than a High School education and he claims to have a number of advanced degrees.

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/18/2013 2:19:53 PM

TAFKAA

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Jesus Christ, not another one.

Honestly, I cannot visualise what kind of sad, broken creatures would respond to such a profile. And I am PHENOMENALLY amused that, of all people, it's a bloody findomme that actually gets treated with respect, compared to the usual serving of bullshit dished out to someone new.

They should rename this place PayMe.com

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RE: Have you too ever been accused of being fake? - 1/18/2013 2:29:13 PM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: MistressSara7

Why move the topic?

Anyway, thank you all for your serious and comedic responses. I think the general consensus here is that we're all fake..lol

Probably because it's not kink related in any sense. Usually, silly crap about the site alone has very little to do with BDSM or authority dynamics.

I'll cop to a lot of things, but not to being fake. I used to tell this joke about how did people know I wasn't just some guy from Jersey. It doesn't work anymore.

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