NuevaVida
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ORIGINAL: ServosCor I feel there are so many things subs/slaves can do to enrich and educate themselves while waiting to find that special someone. I always told the ladies in our groups.... Do what you can do in the meantime to be the BEST you you can offer to a Dominant :) Goes for the male subs too ... perhaps even more so! Actually, before I met the Mister, I became the best ME I could be....for ME! I improved myself for me, as opposed to someone I had never even met. Actually I was pretty happy being single, so the idea of being with someone again was pretty far fetched to me. And then I met the Mister, and he loved that I had such an active life and did so many things for myself. Since we've been together, I've continued, with his encouragement. Some things I've done: * Taken a painting class * Taken a jewelry making class * Lost a bunch of weight * Started working out / Zumba And a bunch of other things. Not because he told me to, and not specifically for him....but because I find enjoyment in them and doing these things added fulfillment to my life. He hasn't sent me to a particular class, but he encourages me to go to various classes or learn various things as it enriches my life, and he enjoys watching that. He does challenge me in the kitchen a lot. I love to cook and once in awhile he'll mention some obscure or difficult dinner he wants me to cook for him, and then I set out to figure it out. It's fun.
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