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Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist or antagonist when watching kinky porn videos?

I often mentally insert myself as the protagonist & that is its appeal

52% (11)

I often mentally insert myself as the antagonist & that is its appeal

9% (2)

I often insert myself as the protagonist but that's not porn's appeal

0% (0)

I often insert myself as the antagonist but that's not porn's appeal

14% (3)

I sometimes insert myself as the protagonist & that is its appeal

4% (1)

I sometimes insert myself as the antagonist & that is its appeal

0% (0)

I sometimes insert myself as the protagonist but that's not the appeal

9% (2)

I sometimes insert myself as the antagonist but that's not the appeal

0% (0)

I never mentally insert myself as the protagonist so it has no appeal

4% (1)

I never mentally insert myself as the antagonist so it has no appeal

4% (1)

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Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist or a... - 1/20/2013 7:48:52 PM

Etruscano

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Certain porn appeals to me mainly because I mentally visualize myself inserted either as the protagonist or the antagonist in the video.
Porn where I can't "identify" myself with, has absolutely no appeal.
For example, if the male in the video is similar to me, then I can easily identify with the porn, as I insert myself into the scene, and therefore it provides pleasure to me.
If the male is, for whatever reason, very different from me, I can not easily relate myself to the specific actions of the movie - and the appeal lessens as a direct consequence.
Are you similar?

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 7:52:45 PM

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To be honest, insertables really don't hold much appeal for me.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 8:04:36 PM

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Feeble.

But funny anyway. ;-)

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 8:20:50 PM

EsotericLady

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Honestly? I rarely watch it because quite frankly...

My mind is creative enough that I don't need it.

I find it crude and ludicrous for the most part.

and

I personally don't care what other people do behind their own "closed doors." (I'm much more interested in what happens behind my own!)

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 8:26:38 PM

Kana

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I love porn, as in luvluvluvluvluvluvluvluvluvluvluvluvluvluv smut.
But I don't put myself in it. I see it as hawt, not interactive...that is, unless I'm starring in it

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 8:38:23 PM

TAFKAA

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I find this poll unappealing.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 8:48:49 PM

littlewonder

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Neither. I don't watch porn. If I did I would probably feel more in tune with the submissive because well....that's my place and can relate. Otherwise I just find porn boring.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:22:35 PM

Lynnxz

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Protagonist/antagonist... I've only heard these terms referring to hero/villian situations.

I'm not sure which is which in a porn.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:30:04 PM

dollenburg

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I assume protagonist means the one in power while antagonist is the sub, right?

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:40:24 PM

Blankpain

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I never understood imagery as porn but I thoroughly enjoy literature, as erotic discourse.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:42:28 PM

asiansubmissie

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OK. I'm confused. Which one am I?

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:44:42 PM

anaturalsubmiss

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I thought everybody played the role in the movie. What else is it good for?

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:46:51 PM

Lynnxz

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dollenburg

I assume protagonist means the one in power while antagonist is the sub, right?

Oh. I wasn't thinking kinky Dom sub porn.

I think the protagonist would be the sub, and antagonist would be the Dom.

I guess.

It's kind of odd choice of words.

Anyway, I like to picture myself as the one jabbing at the other person.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:49:59 PM

SeekingTrinity

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~FRing it~

Well all I can say is that if you are going to mentally insert your mind in anything, make sure your brain wears a 'raincoat.' Dont want a bunch of little baby brains running around.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:50:31 PM

bayareacouple

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quote:

ORIGINAL: asiansubmissie

OK. I'm confused. Which one am I?

You sub? You're the antagonist.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:53:36 PM

Agent99

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Awright. I had to look it all up fer' me self.

Conflict, Protagonist, Antagonist

Conflict: the opposition between forces in a story

Protagonist: the central character

Antagonist: whatever opposing force the protagonist struggles with, such as another character, environment, or something within the protagonist

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:54:05 PM

Lynnxz

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bayareacouple

quote:

ORIGINAL: asiansubmissie

OK. I'm confused. Which one am I?

You sub? You're the antagonist.

Wouldn't the top be an antagonsist, since they are antagonizing the bottom with paddles/pokey items?

This doesn't work unless there's a central struggle, I think.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:57:10 PM

Longerthanyou

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
This doesn't work unless there's a central struggle, I think.

Dunno but I see it as the drama of a Master/slave relationship, where the conflict is kink while the central doer is the Dom/Domme, and the opposing force is the submissive character of the bottom.

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 9:59:36 PM

pompeii

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All I know is that I like the see the gal get her ass spanked and her tits swinging back and forth and her bung reamed.

What does that make me?

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RE: Do you mentally insert yourself as the protagonist ... - 1/20/2013 10:02:29 PM

crossboi

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Do I get to switch sides?

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