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BandBslaveVaca -> Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 9:49:27 AM)

We live in a very pretty, relaxed lakefront area in Ontario, close to the Detroit Mi. border.
Most of our neighbours are seasonal (May - Sept) leaving a lot of private time.
Our kids are grown and gone, leaving 3 empty bedrooms.
Many times it has been suggested that we consider renting out rooms or turning our home into a B&B.
As cool an idea that might be I am not interested in "serving others"
My husband thought why not make it a B&B for submissive/slaves.
I am not here to sell rooms NOR is my intent to use this site as a marketing tool.
The idea is good but I am not sure others would feel the same.


So my question is... if you were looking for a place to vacation ... would you consider a stay in that type of B&B




TheLilSquaw -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 9:59:25 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BandBslaveVaca

As cool an idea that might be I am not interested in "serving others"
My husband thought why not make it a B&B for submissive/slaves.


These 2 lines had me going huh.
I love B&Bs.
I admit lifestyle friendly venues are nice to have.
However, if you don't want to serve others or take care of guests how are you going to run a B&B?

Or do you expect your guests (subs/slaves) to serve you or themselves?




EsotericLady -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 10:22:52 AM)

I was actually wondering that myself, LilSquaw. Somebody has to change the linens, cook breakfast, and clean the rooms.... unless she is thinking the submissives would have to do that before they signed out?

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw


quote:

ORIGINAL: BandBslaveVaca

As cool an idea that might be I am not interested in "serving others"
My husband thought why not make it a B&B for submissive/slaves.


These 2 lines had me going huh.
I love B&Bs.
I admit lifestyle friendly venues are nice to have.
However, if you don't want to serve others or take care of guests how are you going to run a B&B?

Or do you expect your guests (subs/slaves) to serve you or themselves?





NuevaVida -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 10:31:33 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BandBslaveVaca

So my question is... if you were looking for a place to vacation ... would you consider a stay in that type of B&B

From what you've described, no.

When I go on vacation, I'm being served. I pay good money for hotels and B&B's and expect good food, good service, and luxuries. Part of the benefits of a vacation is that cooking, bed making, etc., is taken care of.

Plus, I serve my owner. I don't serve strangers.

If you *aren't* implying the guests would do all the work, then I'd still probably have little interest in it. I don't see the benefit of staying in a place simply because other submissives are there. Honestly, that idea seems a little odd!





TheLilSquaw -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 10:34:43 AM)

What does sound wonderful is a B&B that is kink friendly.
Perhaps has a dungeon on the grounds.
Offers friendly service and where taking care of guests is a priority.




NuevaVida -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 10:36:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

What does sound wonderful is a B&B that is kink friendly.
Perhaps has a dungeon on the grounds.
Offers friendly service and where taking care of guests is a priority.

Yes, and open to ALL orientations within BDSM (dominants, submissives, straight, gay, tg, mono, poly, etc.).




TheLilSquaw -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 10:37:48 AM)


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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

What does sound wonderful is a B&B that is kink friendly.
Perhaps has a dungeon on the grounds.
Offers friendly service and where taking care of guests is a priority.

Yes, and open to ALL orientations within BDSM (dominants, submissives, straight, gay, tg, mono, poly, etc.).


EXACTLY!
See THAT is a B&B I would travel to visit. [:D]




TheLilSquaw -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 10:38:56 AM)

OP, I will also mention that I have rented out cabins or vacation homes.
Where I did the cooking and basic cleaning.
However, that is far different from a B&B.




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 10:49:22 AM)

What exactly are you offering for their money?

I can see there being some interest in lifestyle friendly accommodation, but those customers are mostly going to be people traveling with their partners or to meet playmates, not just subs traveling alone.

What you seem to be suggesting is somewhere aimed specifically at subs to come and get the 'serving' itch scratched. So effectively you would be offering yourselves as pro-dominants for an extended period of a few days. Your profile makes it clear that they will be paying you, and that they will be doing domestic chores and renovations. So what do they get in return? Very few people are so much into the service-only submission that they will pay to do your laundry. Are you going to be doing kink sessions?

Also your statement in your profile that they will be your slave in 'any/whatever capacity I decide'. But realistically if they are paying you for the privilege you are offering a service and will have to tailor it to their tastes and preferences to quite an extent, as well as respect their limits.

Ultimately paying for a vacation is a big chunk of a person's disposable income. I assume it will cost considerably more than a visit to the pro-domme's dungeon, and yet promises less. In addition to that vacation time is limited. You would also need to have a back up plan - who will cook, clean, change the beds, sweep the yard etc if the guests don't do it? In reality you won't be able to make them. Some people will show up and not like it, and leave, or just refuse to work. Some will be lazy or just incompetent and things won't be done to the high standards needed for a guest house. You will end up doing a lot of this work yourself. No one will want to come to a place with poor standards, even if they are coming to serve.

You will spend a lot of time checking up on tasks, fixing things and keeping on top of people. How will you deal with conflict when these people that you have no relationship of trust with are living in your house? We actually considered buying a bed and breakfast last year, but what put us off was the fact that you are never off duty. Your guests are there in your house all of the time. If you are tired or sick, you still have to get up and sort things out. If someone has a problem in the middle of the night, you're getting that knock on the door. I imagine this is doubly true if you are offering additional services as well.

So in short, while there might be a way to make this work, I think your current proposition is unrealistic. Particularly if you don't like the idea of serving people. You're suggesting this is a way to profit without doing the bulk of the work, I actually think this will turn out to be MORE work than just a standard B and B. (also won't the bulk of people want to come during the pleasant summer season when all your neighbours are there?)

PS. I'd get rid of the journal entry about having lots of plumbing work to do. Going somewhere with dodgy plumbing is not appealing. And presumably you'll want a qualified plumber to do that, who might not fancy paying for the joy of doing what he does for a living anyway.




Level -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 10:58:47 AM)

Maybe the OP is just trying to find someone to clean their house....




BandBslaveVaca -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 11:19:56 AM)

What I meant was a sub/slave/kink friendly environment.
As for my statement of not serving others... I would not consider myself as willing to serve anyone (as in dominant)

This was not in reference to changing the beds, cleaning or cooking...that of course is my responsibility.

In my profile I list other things as options but only if one wanted to trade services for a vacation.
Excuse my mistake




TheLilSquaw -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 11:26:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BandBslaveVaca

What I meant was a sub/slave/kink friendly environment.



So it would only be kink friendly to subs/slaves?
I only ask this because this is the 2nd time you have put that there.

What if a sub/slave wanted to travel with their dom/me?
What if a dom/me wanted to stay?

If you are going to say it is kink friendly then why put stipulations such as kink friendly for subs & slaves. THAT makes it sound personal IMO.




Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 11:30:02 AM)

I'd go to a place that was kink friendly more than any other place if I was looking to vacation, but it'd have to be in junction with other fun stuff I wanted to do in the area. The kink alone wouldn't draw me. I could stay home and go to kinky friendly events at home, yes even sleep overs and over night functions and stuff.




BandBslaveVaca -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 11:34:09 AM)

Thank you for your feedback, I do appreciate your point of view and agree with most.
Now can anyone tell me how to delete this posting?...lol




TheLilSquaw -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 11:40:23 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BandBslaveVaca

Thank you for your feedback, I do appreciate your point of view and agree with most.
Now can anyone tell me how to delete this posting?...lol



You can't delete posts.
Only the Mods can do that.





AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 12:10:20 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BandBslaveVaca

What I meant was a sub/slave/kink friendly environment.
As for my statement of not serving others... I would not consider myself as willing to serve anyone (as in dominant)

This was not in reference to changing the beds, cleaning or cooking...that of course is my responsibility.

In my profile I list other things as options but only if one wanted to trade services for a vacation.
Excuse my mistake



Well a kink friendly guest house might go down well.

The not serving others thing - in your OP you make it sound like you are saying 'I'd like to open a guest house but I don't like serving so I will get subs in'. Otherwise your own orientation makes no difference if you are just opening a kink friendly hotel.




NuevaVida -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 12:14:45 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BandBslaveVaca

What I meant was a sub/slave/kink friendly environment.
As for my statement of not serving others... I would not consider myself as willing to serve anyone (as in dominant)

This was not in reference to changing the beds, cleaning or cooking...that of course is my responsibility.

In my profile I list other things as options but only if one wanted to trade services for a vacation.
Excuse my mistake


Your profile is gone.

I do think we understood you correctly the first time. Seems you want subs and slaves to pay money and come serve you.




BandBslaveVaca -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 12:45:59 PM)

My profile is not gone... I suspended it for the time being because this post points out concerns I did not think of.
It was not about money, it was more about comfort levels. Many here have made me rethink my position.
Thank you for your input.




Rule -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 2:29:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BandBslaveVaca
Our kids are grown and gone, leaving 3 empty bedrooms.

Move into a smaller house.




littlewonder -> RE: Would you ever consider? (1/25/2013 2:29:45 PM)

No. Why would I want to go to a B&B to serve the owners? When I go on vacation, I wanna relax and have fun and have others do things for ME. I may be Master's slave but I'm not a slave to the world. I'm a submissive personality and I like helping people, but for those who deserve my help or I'm being paid for it.

Otherwise, no I'd have zero interest.




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