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Living a lie - 1/26/2013 7:58:46 AM

luckley

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I know what I must do

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RE: Living a lie - 1/26/2013 8:00:51 AM

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See a pro if you have your wife's blessing. What's the problem?

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RE: Living a lie - 1/26/2013 8:04:04 AM

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I do not have my wife's blessing and seeing a pro domme may be the only solution.There are very few local to me in this area but I understand completely where you are coming from

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RE: Living a lie - 1/26/2013 8:05:17 AM

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Then you and your wife need to go to counseling. Betraying one's spouse is generally frowned upon.

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RE: Living a lie - 1/26/2013 8:17:55 AM

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Luckley, you will quickly discover that we've ready hundreds of stories like yours before. Some guy not happy with the way his wife isn't servicing his kink. He comes here looking for help in cheating on her. Oh, he pretties it up with various 'oh woe is me' sob stories, but in the end, stories like your's are generic.

As a general whole, we see right through your (general) bullshit. We are not terribly sympathetic to it. You will get plenty of advice which you will make plenty of excuses as to why you cannot follow. We will call you vile names (in as much as TOS allows), you will get your jockies wadded, toss a tantrum, call us vile names in return......then flounce off in a huff. Your life being no better for any of it.

Good luck.

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RE: Living a lie - 1/26/2013 8:20:37 AM

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LaTigresse what vile names a permitted here and have u ever seen anyone flounce off

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RE: Living a lie - 1/26/2013 8:23:06 AM

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unfortunately you are right !!!

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RE: Living a lie - 1/26/2013 8:27:36 AM

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Also, if you go over some of the older threads of a similar nature, you will find that what LaTigresse says is absolutely true ... if you have a penis.

Females that come to these boards with a similar complaint tend to get similar advice but it is delivered much more gingerly.

Truth is; if you're doing something behind your partner's back, you should be ashamed. If you're not ashamed, I don't see why anyone would want to partner up with someone that has no conscience.

So, I understand that you're in a bind and that you came here for advice so, here's the best advice I can give you: try to look around (I believe there may even be an appropriate link, here abouts) and find a kink-friendly couples counselor.

Is the issue that your wife is not willing to enter into this lifestyle? That may present even more problems. Like it or not, you will have to balance your desire (mark that word well, please) for kink against what your marriage means to you.

It is a difficult place that you're in and I can relate (to a degree), based upon my own past.

I hope you find the moral integrity to make the correct choice and the personal strength to carry it through.

Peace and comfort,

Michael

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RE: Living a lie - 1/26/2013 8:28:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: snappykappy

LaTigresse what vile names a permitted here and have u ever seen anyone flounce off

Part A.......I am too lazy to go looking for samples of vile names and.....Part B, I assume you are joking.

This site has given stellar examples that give a whole new dimension to flounce.

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RE: Living a lie - 1/26/2013 8:31:51 AM

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Thank you for your really helpful and considered reply

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