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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

Honestly, no. It is a little creepy to me to think of how my parents might have been kinky.

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

Okay, I'll play. lol

My father would have been a sadistic dominant, totally sadistic. My mother, I'm not sure, but maybe a switch; she could be very dominant sometimes and very submissive to my father at other times. My sister, totally dominant, she's a total control freak and would like to control everything around her. My brother, a submissive for sure; he really knuckles under to my sister-in-law who's very dominant. I know my daughter would be a domme; as a matter of fact, she might actually be, she told me she's used her pink handcuffs on her boyfriend a few times. My son, a submissive. This is all just observations of power exchange, I have no idea about their sex lives and I don't want to. As far as actual kink goes, though, the only one I suspect is my daughter.

NBMG

Loved this.

Okay, I'll bite too. My dad was a dumbinant. A swinger who could not get his wife into swinging, and a sadist who never admitted to himself that beating people gave him jollies. If he had woken up and put a label on it, it would have taken a hell of a mentor to put him onto a healthy path and wake him up to his responsibilities as Dominant.

Mom screams that she is vanilla, but with each marriage she was submissive. The guys even came to her job to pick up her check, having her sign it so that never saw a dime. She cleaned the house exactly how and when they wanted, same for dinner and everything else, but no no no, she was not "submissive", lol. The only reason why she was never tied up is because none of her husbands thought to use rope in that way.

My son...yep. I know he is sensitive to D/s on the subby side of the kneel and I know he likes some aspects of kink. Considering how prudish he is I find this amusing.

My sister is not into BDSM nor into D/s, lol. However...she shocked all of her friends and family (and set women back a hundred years) by insisting that obey be added into her marriage vows. (If she wants to buy a dress, she phones her husband for his permission, etc.) She's NOT kinky...but...vanilla sites would burn her at the stake if she mentioned that time she let some guy put M&Ms inside of her vagina and let him eat them out.

My aunt was "vanilla Domme" and collected a string of "vanilla submissives" who did all kinds of things for her for free, including building her a lovely outdoor structure for her to throw parties in, with glass on two sides. My cousin, her daughter, is not into BDSM but is "vanilla Domme" to men in her life. Fully functional D/s relationships going on strong but each person is deep in denial that it has anything to do with D/s.

I know a lot of people that "if they were kinky" and unafraid of being labeled would fit right in with our MAsT group. Most of the vanilla friends I attract...are submissive by nature and often service sub oriented. *shrugs*

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

My parents had sex three times and it was strictly procreational.

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ORIGINAL: cordeliasub

Like I said, I guess I am weird, but I love the fact that my parents were in love with each other and still are after over 50 years. That was actually the kind of marriage I wanted too.

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ORIGINAL: cordeliasub

Like I said, I guess I am weird, but I love the fact that my parents were in love with each other and still are after over 50 years. That was actually the kind of marriage I wanted too.

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ORIGINAL: LdyViolet
Just to clarify a little better, I meant people you know, not necessarily just family members... and I only look at if they would be more Dominant or submissive in a relationship, not the sexual aspect.