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Your1girl -> Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 4:56:39 PM)
how many people find fake people on here and how many real people on this site..... that engage you on camera but won't let you see or hear them after four days.... due to the sub has not earned the right yet? and no phone number either...

DarkSteven -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:06:35 PM)
Okay. There is no central repository of fake and real profiles. If they cam for you, they're probably real. That'd be hard to fake. But you say they "engage" you on cam but don't show or talk to you? So you are the only one camming? I call bullshit regarding earning the right to a phone number or to see them. If I understand you, someone has had you cam for him but refuses to give anything to you. I sure hope you kept your clothes on, because the cam feed can be captured. That's not a fake you're speaking with. That's a wanker, likely a married one. Welcome to the forums!

SinFix -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:06:55 PM)
None, I hope you didn't get naked or do anything silly... That is the standard HNG protocol, just some guy wanting to get ya naked...

Calligraphy -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:08:40 PM)
I if ever dabbled online, I'd prefer the "I'll get on my cam when you get on yours" approach. If I was met with an end of communication, excuses, complaints or an unwillingness to meet on equal grounds, I'd have gotten all the answers I need.

OsideGirl -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:16:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Your1girl won't let you see or hear them after four days.... due to the sub has not earned the right yet? and no phone number either... That is the stupidest thing that I've ever heard. If a dominant told me that I had earn the right to hold a conversation, get to know them and decide if I like them, I'd tell them to fuck off. And the fact that you cammed with someone like that for 4 days (!) just blows my mind.

InsaneSerenity -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:18:02 PM)
this is just like a normal site, but with kink. That means there are a ton of fakes, a ton of jerks, and a ton of people looking to take advantage of others any way they can. Enjoy, but be wary.

poise -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:20:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Your1girl "the sub has not earned the right yet" One of the first things you need to realize as you start to explore this lifestyle is that both you and ANY potential partner are both on equal footing until you both agree otherwise. This means that, just because a man sticks a Dom label on his profile, it doesn't give him any special powers, or excuse him from the same social interactions you would expect were he vanilla. I feel that having in your profile that you are in need of training is like flashing a bright neon sign to all the men on this site with ill intent, such as the one you recently went on cam for. What exactly is it about relationship skills that you feel you are in need of training?

TheLilSquaw -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:21:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: InsaneSerenity this is just like a normal site, but with kink. That means there are a ton of fakes, a ton of jerks, and a ton of people looking to take advantage of others any way they can. Enjoy, but be wary. I dont think this site has more "fakes, jerks or people looking to take advantage" because it is a BDSM site. I think lairs and users are a human thing and an online thing not just a BDSM thing.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:29:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Your1girl how many people find fake people on here and how many real people on this site..... that engage you on camera but won't let you see or hear them after four days.... due to the sub has not earned the right yet? and no phone number either... Oh wow. A Dom that won't let you see or hear him after four days when they expect to see you?? That's bogus in my opinion. If they get to see you, you should get to see them. I hope you didn't get naked for him, cause those webcams can be recorded you know. As for a sub not earning the right yet? That's bogus too. Since when does a person have to earn the right to converse with another person? The person who told you that is too full of himself. Until you're in a mutually agreed upon dynamic with someone, they don't get to tell you what to do. Most likely he was a married man. At the very least he's a horny net geek. NBMG

littlewonder -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:47:32 PM)
None because I'm not gullible or desperate and I've seen every trick in the book.

LafayetteLady -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:50:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise quote: ORIGINAL: Your1girl "the sub has not earned the right yet" One of the first things you need to realize as you start to explore this lifestyle is that both you and ANY potential partner are both on equal footing until you both agree otherwise. This means that, just because a man sticks a Dom label on his profile, it doesn't give him any special powers, or excuse him from the same social interactions you would expect were he vanilla. I feel that having in your profile that you are in need of training is like flashing a bright neon sign to all the men on this site with ill intent, such as the one you recently went on cam for. What exactly is it about relationship skills that you feel you are in need of training? Well, if at 36 years old, they weren't able to see a problem with this, do you really need to ask what it is about relationship skills they need training in?

lizi -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 5:55:23 PM)
You are in charge of your own choices. If you are making poor ones then I'd reconsider what I was doing. Why would anyone cam with someone that they barely know thinking that a stranger would be trustworthy? There are plenty of people on this site that I'm not compatible with, but that isn't because they are 'fake'.

poise -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 6:14:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: poise quote: ORIGINAL: Your1girl "the sub has not earned the right yet" One of the first things you need to realize as you start to explore this lifestyle is that both you and ANY potential partner are both on equal footing until you both agree otherwise. This means that, just because a man sticks a Dom label on his profile, it doesn't give him any special powers, or excuse him from the same social interactions you would expect were he vanilla. I feel that having in your profile that you are in need of training is like flashing a bright neon sign to all the men on this site with ill intent, such as the one you recently went on cam for. What exactly is it about relationship skills that you feel you are in need of training? Well, if at 36 years old, they weren't able to see a problem with this, do you really need to ask what it is about relationship skills they need training in? I was trying to point out that, because the rules of engagement are no different here than in the vanilla world, that it looked rather silly for her to state she was in need of training in her profile. Many women who are new to exploring submission throw all they've learned out the window when interacting with men simply because they call themselves Dominant.

lizi -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 6:18:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise I was trying to point out that, because the rules of engagement are no different here than in the vanilla world, that it looked rather silly for her to state she was in need of training in her profile. Many women who are new to exploring submission throw all they've learned out the window when interacting with men simply because they call themselves Dominant. I'd like to add too that listing a bra size might not be in her best interests either. Unless she's looking for hook-ups.

Aneirin -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 6:30:47 PM)
Before anyone is anything on this website and this goes for elsewhere too they have to be human first and that means with me at least it's one to one communication devoid of anything scene. If the communication is working it may evolve into scene and whatever may come after that. I am a sub but I am not stupid, I may be desperate but not that desperate, I have my self respect and I will not respond to well, egomaniacs and wankers and although I do have a webcam built into my Mac, I have not used it yet and nor do I plan to as no one I have ever met from this website has even asked never mind demanded to go on cam and so I can understand exactly what kind of person demands of those they don't know and further demands one goes on cam for their entertainment. As to this right to communicate with another, like fuck off and die, who the hell are they to demand such, find another idiot for you will not find one here.

Subano -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 6:42:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven There is no central repository of fake and real profiles Actually, there is. How accurate it is, is another issue - but simply put the word "fakes" after the collarme in the URL and you'll have that central repository of fakes. Just saying ...

dollenburg -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 6:49:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SinFix That is the standard HNG protocol I had to look up HNG - horny net geek

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 6:50:53 PM)
Is this the one?? lol http://www.collarmefakes.com/forumdisplay.php?fid=3

Killerangel -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 6:53:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Subano quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven There is no central repository of fake and real profiles Actually, there is. How accurate it is, is another issue - but simply put the word "fakes" after the collarme in the URL and you'll have that central repository of fakes. Just saying ... That site is some people's opinions of users on this site, it's nothing all too accurate. Which you mentioned. It's actually quite comical how they came up with the fake designations...I forget all of it, but one thing is if someone answers their mail, another criteria is how often they log in, another is if they block the person sending them a message. It's all very scientific [:-]

InsaneSerenity -> RE: Fake people or real people that engage you (1/27/2013 6:54:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw quote: ORIGINAL: InsaneSerenity this is just like a normal site, but with kink. That means there are a ton of fakes, a ton of jerks, and a ton of people looking to take advantage of others any way they can. Enjoy, but be wary. I dont think this site has more "fakes, jerks or people looking to take advantage" because it is a BDSM site. I think lairs and users are a human thing and an online thing not just a BDSM thing. oh i agree. it has the same amount of "fakes, jerks or people looking to take advantage" that vanilla sites do. Sometimes though, some people think this site somehow would not have those types on it, or have less of them.

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