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men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hitting on them.


men are hitting on women when they approach a strange
  8% (3)
they zre just being friendly and my son is full of bunk.
  8% (3)
no clue
  11% (4)
i am a man and when i approach a woman i am hitting on her
  11% (4)
i am a man and am not hiiting on a woman just because i approach her
  34% (12)
i am a woman and when a strange guy approaches me he is hitting on me
  8% (3)
i am a woman and when a strange guy approaches he is not hitting on me
  17% (6)


Total Votes : 35
(last vote on : 3/4/2013 3:50:42 PM)
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men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hitting... - 1/27/2013 6:03:47 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		My son says that menare hiiting on me all the time. I thinkhe is nuts.
My son says any time a guy approaches a woman he doesn't know in public, he is hitting on her.

So, the guy who offers to shovel snow for me?
The guy at the grocery store who noticed what i had in my cart and handed me coupons related to it, hitting on me?
The guy who strikes up a conversation in the isle at blockbuster?

I think people are just nice and friendly, not looking to hook up.

Am i missing out on opportunities to flirt?

I really dont pay these things any attention.
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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 6:11:22 PM   
jlf1961


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Status: offline 		Half the time I am simply offering an opinion, after hearing her say something, that may be helpful.

The rest of the time I would say it is asking where the damn store moved something to.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 6:15:04 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		I know! I am pretty sure i very often have a bewildered expression on my face because the store is always rearranging things.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 6:19:25 PM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
Am i missing out on opportunities to flirt?

Yes. Yes you are! And not because any of them are or are not hitting on you, but simply
because they are nice men.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 6:21:27 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		He's wrong that they're necessarily hitting on you. However, it DOES provide an opening, should you want to use it.

If someone strikes up a conversation and you like him, simply keep the conversation going until he asks for your number.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 6:22:34 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		Aha! To bad I suck at the whole flirty, womanly wiles thing. I think at 48 I may be to old to learn those tricks.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 6:29:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		It isn't ALWAYS flirting, but for some guys... yeah.

Do you want it to be flirting?

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 6:38:25 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		I am not invested either way. My son and I (he is 24) have differing views on this. I have never once thought a guy was hitting on me, just never even crossed my mind. HE IS OFTEN SAYING! "THAT GUY WAS SOOO HITTING ON YOU?" My response is usually, "what guy?"


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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 6:47:13 PM   
theshytype


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Status: offline 		I never assume they're hitting on me, just that I have a friendly face.
If they linger, that's definitely a sign.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 6:48:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lol. Yeah, I imagine some of them are hitting on you, your radar is just jammed.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 7:35:34 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		what your son says seems to be my experience.

Never once have I had a male stranger approach me unless he wanted to get with me.



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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 7:41:31 PM   
ResidentSadist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

My son says that menare hiiting on me all the time. I thinkhe is nuts.
My son says any time a guy approaches a woman he doesn't know in public, he is hitting on her.

So, the guy who offers to shovel snow for me?
The guy at the grocery store who noticed what i had in my cart and handed me coupons related to it, hitting on me?
The guy who strikes up a conversation in the isle at blockbuster?

I think people are just nice and friendly, not looking to hook up.

Am i missing out on opportunities to flirt?

I really dont pay these things any attention.



So, the guy who offers to shovel snow for me? ............ That is hard labor and he really wants you to give him some "hard" labor in return


The guy at the grocery store who noticed what i had in my cart and handed me coupons related to it, hitting on me? .................... He really wants to "feed you" more that just whats in your cart.

The guy who strikes up a conversation in the isle at blockbuster?.............. Were you in the porn section?


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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 7:59:03 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		My favorite pick up line from the grocery store, "Would you like a free massage?"

My favorite line to use when I lived on the ashram, "Would you like to see my tent?" This wasn't clear to H, who misheard me earlier when I was talking to someone else and thought I was a lesbian, but he got with the program once I started playing with his nipple ring.

B used this line to arrange a threesome with him, me, and R, "Would you like to see K's tent?"

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 9:22:45 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		Sometimes they are, sometimes they aren't. Lately, in my world, the majority of them are being more than just platonic.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 9:35:01 PM   
EsotericLady


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Status: offline 		Well I would presume the best way to find out? Ask them!

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 10:21:52 PM   
punisher440


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Status: offline 		OP,when I strike up a conversation,sometimes I'm hitting on a woman other times just being nice...so your poll doesn't have an option for that so I did not vote.I can not speak for the other guys...but I can say most women can tell when I'm trying to do more than just pass the time.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/27/2013 10:25:13 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		If someone approaches me, I think they are being friendly or needing to ask something. I do not automatically assume every man who chats with me wants to get with me.

It has always been really obvious when someone hits on me.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/28/2013 2:18:46 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I never recognize it either. But, on the rare occasion I have been inveigled into conversation, the hitting on becomes obvious about 20 minutes later.

I think he's right. Unless it's a boy scout helping you across the street, then they're trying to earn a merit badge or some such.

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/28/2013 2:22:48 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

So, the guy who offers to shovel snow for me? ............ That is hard labor and he really wants you to give him some "hard" labor in return


The guy at the grocery store who noticed what i had in my cart and handed me coupons related to it, hitting on me? .................... He really wants to "feed you" more that just whats in your cart.

The guy who strikes up a conversation in the isle at blockbuster?.............. Were you in the porn section?



Tell one of them, Thank you, but I won't suck your dick.  He'll be gone.

Tell one of them, OK, I will suck your dick.  He will shovel your mothers driveway, your aunts, your fuckin gramas.........and then....

So yeah, I am with RS on this one. 

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RE: men only talk to women (strangers) cuz they are hit... - 1/28/2013 2:30:55 PM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		Hmm, you might give out a "I'm up for casual sex"
vibe...

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