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RE: Completely lost - 1/30/2013 6:58:04 PM

littlewonder

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eeerr...he was your one night stand. He was looking for easy sex and you put out.

Next time try to be more selective, take your time and actually keep your brain in your head for now on? Bdsm does not mean you become brainless all of a sudden. Bdsm relationships are no different than any others. You find someone just like you did before you found bdsm.

Just shrug him off and move on and remind yourself there are better.

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RE: Completely lost - 2/12/2013 3:31:38 AM

seekinguncut

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As a Dom I suggest you embrace your next chapter in your life. You have elevated yourself to being a better sub. Congratulations.

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RE: Completely lost - 2/12/2013 4:44:42 PM

tieheruptightly

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Hello! I wonder if you discussed limits, and if so, were there any which were at issue? I think that pehaps the fellow became frightened of legal ramifications for going too far , or perhaps being accused of rape! With the D/s lifestyle, there are many pitfalls, some of which are very impacting to the Dom- I myself love to perform abduction / rape fantasies, yet it is extremely difficult to do them without almost marrying the sub! What is your goal and where did you leave off with this man? There are many good people at this site who will gladly pick up your training where you were "dumped" and might even re-train you for I feel this guy was just using you to get off!

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