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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/1/2013 6:12:47 PM   
Pyramus


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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

Who the HELL says that men are far less balanced than women????



I understand the 'emotional' imbalance you bespeak of ... but this thread was intended to flesh out the apparently imbalance of why men, in real life, almost never (if ever) strut forward cock first; but here, in fet life, (some) apparently do.

The women clearly, based on the threads I referenced, don't appreciate this - so I simply asked why it is so.

The balance comparison, with respect to women, was that women seem to act somewhat similarly in real life as in this fet world, at least in their profiles. There was a great explanation of the balance in the women a few posts above, which essentially said women are tastefully making themselves attractive to me.

After having read all the responses, I'm learning a lot - and - I'm leaning a bit toward the fact that men aren't as comfortable strutting their stuff as the women, who have much more experience in it than the men do. So the men act like, well, like pubescent kids, and they need to learn from their mistakes, just as teenage girls learn what's appropriate to dress in and what's not (as witnessed by my kid being sent home from school for violating the dress code, for example).

Men seem to violate the dress code here - but there is nobody to send them home to school for their parents to lecture.

The balance is in respect to the actions

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/1/2013 8:06:49 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Someone said that women should be 'tolerant'. That's not a realistic comment.

What are we expected to do? Have sex with people we find a turn off? Sorry, I don't owe anyone a pity fuck. I can tolerate pics but it won't change my opinion of the poster. If you're told repeatedly this is a bad idea should you want to actually meet a woman, yet you keep doing it then I have to assume you're shooting yourself in the foot for a reason. Usually the reason is that you don't actually want a relationship so you self sabotage to prevent it. And instead of taking responsibility for what they do, then they complain that all the women here are fakes/bitches/men haters.

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RE: Why is it that MEN are less balanced than women in ... - 2/1/2013 8:22:31 PM   
EsotericLady


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It's simple.
Women are whores all the time.
Men are only whores here.


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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/1/2013 8:27:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

. Usually the reason is that you don't actually want a relationship so you self sabotage to prevent it.


I definitely see it this way too..and if I see cock I instruct them it's a violation of TOS (like they didn't KNOW that, since it warns NOT to right in the POST PIC section). Most remove the offending pic within a few minutes, GOOD BOYS. The ones that don't aren't worth devoting time to beyond hitting "Report Photo".

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/1/2013 8:40:30 PM   
EsotericLady


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Status: offline 		My feeling on all this is...

Look at all the threads in these forums that bring up this same issue....the overabundance of male penis photos on this website.

Look at all the male posts...they don't understand why it bothers the women.

Look at all the female posts...they don't understand why the men don't get it.

Solution: The only way to change things is for people to change, which is not going to happen.
Therefore there's no sense in bringing it up for discussion anymore.

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 6:19:48 AM   
Subano


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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 8:35:34 AM   
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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 8:37:36 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

My feeling on all this is...

Look at all the threads in these forums that bring up this same issue....the overabundance of male penis photos on this website.

Look at all the male posts...they don't understand why it bothers the women.

Look at all the female posts...they don't understand why the men don't get it.

Solution: The only way to change things is for people to change, which is not going to happen.
Therefore there's no sense in bringing it up for discussion anymore.



I've said it over and over again.

In the transaction of a sale, the opinion that matters the least is that of the seller. It doesn't matter if the seller thinks he has the most amazing car on the face of the planet. If no one else agrees, the car will remain unsold.

Major retailers don't try to change their target audience to suit them, they change to meet the expectation of their target.

Men out number the women here, by a large margin. Which means it's a buyer's market. If your target audience tells you over and over again they don't like your advertising campaign and choose to ignore that, then you are lowering your possible rate of sales.





< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 2/2/2013 8:45:56 AM >

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 8:40:54 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I wrote a treatise one time.  The stupid chicken dance.  It was my first post here under this profile.

The point for all you folks is,  if you examine our animal kingdom (of which we are part) you will find that most all of the females in that kingdom have never never never ever seen a penis in their life (except accidentally or when they are sucking it), but they are fucked silly with them constantly, and are quite happy to be so.........think about that, you got time.  Its the other stuff that stuffs the old seal clubber in the gash. That makes the beast with two backs, that tats in the tweeds, that parks the caddillac in the garage, that puts the pony in the barn, that plays hide the weenie........

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 8:41:56 AM   
Baroana


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ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

My feeling on all this is...

Look at all the threads in these forums that bring up this same issue....the overabundance of male penis photos on this website.

Look at all the male posts...they don't understand why it bothers the women.

Look at all the female posts...they don't understand why the men don't get it.

Solution: The only way to change things is for people to change, which is not going to happen.
Therefore there's no sense in bringing it up for discussion anymore.



This.

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 9:12:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

.....think about that, you got time.  Its the other stuff that stuffs the old seal clubber in the gash......


You're such a romantic!!!

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 9:12:39 AM   
mnottertail


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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 9:15:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

My feeling on all this is...

Look at all the threads in these forums that bring up this same issue....the overabundance of male penis photos on this website.

Look at all the male posts...they don't understand why it bothers the women.

Look at all the female posts...they don't understand why the men don't get it.

Solution: The only way to change things is for people to change, which is not going to happen.
Therefore there's no sense in bringing it up for discussion anymore.



I've said it over and over again.

In the transaction of a sale, the opinion that matters the least is that of the seller. It doesn't matter if the seller thinks he has the most amazing car on the face of the planet. If no one else agrees, the car will remain unsold.

Major retailers don't try to change their target audience to suit them, they change to meet the expectation of their target.

Men out number the women here, by a large margin. Which means it's a buyer's market. If your target audience tells you over and over again they don't like your advertising campaign and choose to ignore that, then you are lowering your possible rate of sales.






The desire to be one's self, to be chosen for it, is stronger than the desire to "sell" themselves, for some.

Even if that means being a dick, or waving it around like a lasso.

< Message edited by Level -- 2/2/2013 9:17:19 AM >

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 10:46:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		Honestly... I've never given this phenomenon more than a moment's thought.. The cock pics just make me think "dude, you're either looking for something completely different to me, or you know fuck all about attracting a woman...."

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 10:59:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think the cock pics are because men don't know how to advertise like women do. And, they therefore make the mistake of advertising like the women do.

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 11:16:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

The point for all you folks is,  if you examine our animal kingdom (of which we are part) you will find that most all of the females in that kingdom have never never never ever seen a penis in their life (except accidentally or when they are sucking it), but they are fucked silly with them constantly, and are quite happy to be so.........think about that, you got time. 



What an intriguing observation. That had never occurred to me before. You scintillate today, my dear Ronald!

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 11:19:00 AM   
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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 11:19:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Honestly... I've never given this phenomenon more than a moment's thought.. The cock pics just make me think "dude, you're either looking for something completely different to me, or you know fuck all about attracting a woman...."


To tell the truth, it baffles me more than it does a lot of women, I think. I like to imagine that I can 'explain things about men to women' - but I can't do it on this subject. I can only really conjecture.

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 12:28:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Level


The desire to be one's self, to be chosen for it, is stronger than the desire to "sell" themselves, for some.

Even if that means being a dick, or waving it around like a lasso.


And that's entirely their choice. But, when guys come here asking why they're not meeting anyone and the women tell them their reactions to the cock shot...the guy tries to justify it. It's a situation of either accepting the situation you've created or changing your approach to appeal to the "buyer".

To really understand the situation you just have to look at how porn gets approached. More men watch porn than women. More women read "bodice rippers" and 50 Shades of Grey than men.


< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 2/2/2013 12:34:58 PM >

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RE: Why are MEN far less BALANCED than women ... when i... - 2/2/2013 12:47:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		The title of the thread is funny to Me. Nobody's going to go for the bad joke about the fact that the male peacock is showing off his plumage to attract the female and *not* his genitalia?

Earlier in the thread it was mentioned that women should be tolerant of the men who do the nude shots. I actually am tolerant of it as long as it's the second shot or beyond. Primary photo? Unlike sexyred, I do report those. If it's the second or later photo, I figure it's My fault if I see something I didn't want to because I'm the one who went looking.

Unfortunately, guys, you can't argue Des' point. Even if we are tolerant as you would like, it's not going to improve our impression of you. We know you are reaching to be appreciated visually as a sexual being but our instincts don't work that way. The sight of you becomes a lot more enticing after we have gotten to know more than the physical.


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