LookieNoNookie
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ORIGINAL: Pyramus
QUESTION:
Why do some men appear to utterly lose their sense of decorum in this fetish forum when those very same men clearly dress almost always without offending women in the real world. (And why are women more balanced in this regard.)
In two recent threads, it becomes painfully obvious that women:
(a) Do not often want to see naked pictures of we men in our profiles, and,
(b) Do not, in general, find the male genitalia visually attractive
On the one hand, men are clearly restrained in the outside world from showing their primary and secondary sexual genitalia, in that typical male business, casual, sport, and even bedroom attire can not be considered to be overtly sexually revealing.
Specifically, one almost never hears women vehemently complaining about how men dress in the 'normal world'.
Yet, apparently, it's a common no-more-genitalia complaint of women here which is revealed in this vignette which was offered as advice to men today:
VIDEO: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J7CxgpevKuU
The conundrum is why (a large proportion of?) men appear to throw all that unassuming decorum they exhibit in their normal lives to the wind, by peacocking their genitalia here, much to the (cringing) distaste of women.
Why the striking unbalance?
BEGIN STRIKING CONTRAST:
Contrast men with women in the outside world, where it is this man's opinion that women are much more balanced in their action. Specifically, women show far less genitalial restraint in the common world than men do, where many ladies show (and enhance, perhaps even falsely) as much of their primary and secondary genitalia as they feel they can get away with (perhaps inversely proportional to maturity) in those same business, casual, sport, and bedroom attire situations we noted above (where the men showed none).
Witness these commonly heard expressions:
- "Is this skirt too short?"
- "Does it make my butt look fat?"
- "Can you see through my blouse?"
etc.
Having had both girls and boys, I've never had the boy sent home for inappropriate dress (e.g., too short of a skirt), while it's a constant struggle with the girl (who argues vehemently to wear skimpy clothing for reasons unknown to me).
The contrast is striking:
- It appears men show supreme restraint in the common world - yet the unbalance is that some of those men show supreme unrestraint on this fetish web site. In total contrast, women appear to be greatly more balanced in that they show far less restraint than men in the BOTH worlds ... but, concurrently, they seem to at least have a better sense of balanced decorum here, in the fetish world.
So, the question arises:
QUESTION: Why is it that a decent number men are clearly more unbalanced than the women - while the women as a whole, are clearly more balanced, yet less restrained, than the men?
You have some work to do bub.
(Trust me on this).
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RE: Why is it that MEN are less balanced than women in ... - 
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Maybe there's some kind of primal instinct involved in it, not so much in showing it off, but in wanting to get one's dick out there as much as possible, even if only in a vicarious manner. 
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