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littlewonder -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 6:29:50 PM)

her first post is a complaint. To me, complaining is whining. It's not attractive. Instead of complaining, do something about it. It's what most rational, mature adults do.




GoddessBych21 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 6:34:41 PM)

Thank you for your oppinion but I might add that it is wrong




littlewonder -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 6:43:23 PM)

So you weren't complaining that you don't get contacted at all here? Last time I looked, that's called complaining.

Take it for what you want. Confidence is sexy. Anything else is not.




LafayetteLady -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 6:43:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

her first post is a complaint. To me, complaining is whining. It's not attractive. Instead of complaining, do something about it. It's what most rational, mature adults do.



First post...

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessBych21

Seriously am I ugly? Noone ever talks to me on here or is interested in me :(



quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessBych21

Thank you for your oppinion but I might add that it is wrong


You weren't complaining and whining "no one ever talks to me (sad face)."

That's complaining and whining. And the "Seriously, am I ugly..." most definitely is looking for people to stroke your ego, especially since there are very few people who would tell you that you were.

You wanted a self esteem boost and to whine that people weren't talking to you. It's childish, that isn't my opinion, that's a fact.




descrite -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 6:51:20 PM)

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Thank you for your oppinion but I might add that it is wrong



You might not understand the inherent humor in this post, but I assure you it is appreciated.




littlewonder -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 6:52:02 PM)

glad you caught that too descrite lol.




GoddessBych21 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 7:10:04 PM)

Thanks again for your (facts???) But I did not make this post for yalls self pity or (compliments) I don't need them if I had self esteem issues why would I post naked pictures of myself??




tazzygirl -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 7:14:31 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GoddessBych21

Seriously am I ugly? Noone ever talks to me on here or is interested in me :(


Honestly, you werent until I finished reading this thread.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 8:39:05 PM)

Word of advice, don't entrust your sense of self esteem and worth to a group of complete strangers on any website.. especially ones like this. :)




GoddessBych21 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 9:01:07 PM)

Your right how do I delete this now many very nice people helped me fix my problem and I appreciate them now im done seeing all the negitivity from everyone else




MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 9:22:20 PM)


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ORIGINAL: GoddessBych21

Seriously am I ugly? Noone ever talks to me on here or is interested in me :(

That's really weird. It can't be your looks, because I've got a sarcastic map, an ugly pic of Myself, I promise NO SEX...and I'm buried in messages from hopeful subs most days. Your profile looks inviting enough. You seem easy going and state that you aren't into hardcore, which should appeal to a lot of people who are looking for a live-in situation. I don't know what to tell you, except try reaching out to people rather than waiting for them to contact you.

Good luck,
--MM




littlewonder -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 10:09:28 PM)

You can't delete a thread on here once you create it. You're stuck with it for all the world to see.

And if you think people here were negative to you then I don't think you would like posting here anymore because people here were very nice to you.

As for the naked pics and self esteem....that means nothing. Lots of people with low self esteem post naked pics of themselves for that very reason. They think the only way anyone will like them is if they post nude photos. Is that the reason you post them? Something to think about.




GoddessBych21 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 11:02:52 PM)

As I said some were very nice you must not have read that part




theRose4U -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 11:15:05 PM)

Ummm think I'm starting to see the problem. Unicorn hunting while sitting on your butt, then being nasty to those that know where & how to find them




littlewonder -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/9/2013 11:15:29 PM)

and like I said, there was no one here who was rude or mean to you despite your thoughts.




shestrouble -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 12:09:46 AM)

You know, after reading and listening to lots of people on and off this site, I worry for a lot of the *subs*

Low self esteem is a huge thing here, young girls of 18 signing up for years of slavery, moving to the US with a child in tow, because he said she had to, no way of returning to GB because he is only supplying a one way ticket ... That scares me as a mother, is her life so bad here that she has to flee to the US...

Everyone is beautiful...

You just need the confidence to hold out... ( The previous comment - confidence is sexy, damned right it is.. ) To wait... He is there, don't throw yourself away on one that is not worthy of you...

It has to mean something... It has to be real.

It has to be worth it....




shestrouble -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 12:12:36 AM)

One more thing....

How do I get rid of that damned *iscream* under my name...

Please.....




thursdays -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 12:21:53 AM)

It will disappear after a certain number of posts... so you just keep on a'postin!




LafayetteLady -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 12:26:03 AM)


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ORIGINAL: shestrouble

You know, after reading and listening to lots of people on and off this site, I worry for a lot of the *subs*

Low self esteem is a huge thing here, young girls of 18 signing up for years of slavery, moving to the US with a child in tow, because he said she had to, no way of returning to GB because he is only supplying a one way ticket ... That scares me as a mother, is her life so bad here that she has to flee to the US...

Everyone is beautiful...

You just need the confidence to hold out... ( The previous comment - confidence is sexy, damned right it is.. ) To wait... He is there, don't throw yourself away on one that is not worthy of you...

It has to mean something... It has to be real.

It has to be worth it....


Did you even read the post? Her and her husband are looking for a female play partner. How much of that wine have you drank?




shestrouble -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 12:27:18 AM)

Aha....

Now I understand it...

Thank you thursdays

tx




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