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littlewonder -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 12:23:46 PM)

yup, we all have to work. But somehow, Master and I still make time for each other. Work and life is just an excuse to avoid your partner as far as I'm concerned.

If you can't make time then imo, why are you even married or in a relationship? You obviously have no time.



xssve -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 12:40:38 PM)

Well we can't all be you. I'm not disputing your right to critique, if you post a personal in the general forum, a critique is what you should expect, just saying there is not enough information here to start distance diagnosing marriage problems. Not for me anyway, but I'll let her speak for herself if she wants to from here out.



WiseCracknSadist -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 3:27:21 PM)

I think perhaps you're insecure or something.



EsotericLady -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 3:34:03 PM)

Indeed! : )
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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

Word of advice, don't entrust your sense of self esteem and worth to a group of complete strangers on any website.. especially ones like this. :)




GoddessBych21 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 8:31:30 PM)

Wow thanks so much for insulting my marridge which by the way is perfect I don't remember saying he has no time for me or that he doesn't care I said he works all the time. But get from it what you will. We have a very loving strong relationship and there's nothing wrong with it. I am not complaining. I have been with the same man since I was 14 but if that means im a slut then I guess I am. Thank you



littlewonder -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 10:26:43 PM)

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LadyPact -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/10/2013 10:34:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
Honestly, you werent until I finished reading this thread.

And the other thread.

Seriously, I'm older than you and I've got no problem attracting women and I'm a straight chick. On top of that, I'm probably about twenty years older than you. Plus, I'm married just like you AND have a sub on top of it. I don't consider Myself a skinny chick, either.

Do you want to know why I would never start a thread like this? Because it's not My experience in life and I know it. I talk to people and get to know them. I'm approachable. I know I'm personable and that has a lot to do with others wanting to interact.

There are two options here. Either you had self doubt (the opposite of confidence about who you are) or you thought finding somebody who would be interested in you would be automatic if you created a profile. Neither of those are realistic.




GoddessBych21 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 6:22:06 AM)

Yea thanks cuz you know me and why I made my profile.



DarkSteven -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 6:40:17 AM)


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ORIGINAL: GoddessBych21

Yea thanks cuz you know me and why I made my profile.


Look. I don't know you. But I hate to see what this thread has become.

Please take a break and simmer down. Come back afterward. Because right now, this thread is going to hell.

And, belatedly - welcome to the forums.



GoddessBych21 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 8:24:37 AM)

Why do I need to simmer down? Im not angry just starring true facts that everyone seems to think they know about me



theshytype -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 8:27:14 AM)

I wasn't going to comment on this thread because I honestly hate these types of questions.  Everyone has a different idea of what's attractive to them.  Me personally, I prefer others who are fit, BUT if they have an awesome personality with self-confidence and knowledge, I can most certainly look past that. 

To me, you're not ugly but right now your attitude and insecurity are.   Neither of those will help in attracting someone whether or not they find you physically attractive.  Being around people who seem insecure bring my mood down so I try to avoid them at all cost.  And now, if anyone clicks on your profile and checks to see if you've posted in the forums, they'll see this thread.  It doesn't portray a wonderful personality and, unless you've changed something since I last viewed, neither does your profile.  

As the others have already stated, attracting a woman will be difficult enough as it is in your situation. Not many women are looking to be a play thing to a married couple. There are some, but the competition is stiff.  

I also wanted to say that while  you do have the right to object to any opinion you hear, I recommend doing it with a little more tact.  You can't control how others act, but you can control how you react. 



LadyPact -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 9:19:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GoddessBych21

Yea thanks cuz you know me and why I made my profile.
I don't have to know you. The fact that you created a "why won't people talk" to you thread speaks volumes.




GoddessBych21 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 11:51:55 AM)

Your right.I appologize. But.I might.add u have stated I am not looking for simply.a play thing I am looking for a woman to have a relationship with I understand that may be hard to find being married but everyone keeps saying women don't want.to be just a play thing I am not looking for just.a play thing I want so much more then that. And i am not insecure i have no issues with myself or my body. I realize the.original post made me seem that way but i am not.Also I admit I have made a fool of myself by.how I reacted I apologize for making an ass of myself. Everyone I offeneded plzaccept my.appology



straponprincess1 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 1:23:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

Count your blessings, because there are a lot of idiots on the other side. Have confidence, be secure in who you are and what you want, and potentials will come.


Well put I agree



Hillwilliam -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 1:37:39 PM)

the OP has now joined her hometown group on FET and they have get togethers an average of twice a month and a lot of nice people. Hopefully, things will work out well.



LadyPact -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 1:48:39 PM)

Good. That's a good start. Thanks for providing the OP with that info, Hill.

OP, would you be interested in some recommendations for help with terms and such? That may help as well.



Hillwilliam -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 1:51:08 PM)

Well, she's new, young, a beginner and lives semi nearby. I figured that's what old farts like me are supposed to do.



GoddessBych21 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 3:58:29 PM)

Yes thanks



Rasnow -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/11/2013 11:43:17 PM)

GoddessBych21, the best advice I can give you is to stop using the internet, as it clearly isn't the place for you



GoddessBych21 -> RE: am i ugly or somethi (2/12/2013 5:58:17 AM)

Lmfao



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