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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 12:30:17 AM

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I obviously missed out a huge chunk of the post....
So apologies if I have rubbed anyone up the wrong way...

But I do stand by my comments...

A lot of these lassies need help...

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 12:35:22 AM

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I'm just wondering why she's on here complaining that no one responds to her or wondering if others think she is ugly. I mean, she's apparently married. Where is her husband? Why isn't her husband around for her to cry to and to soothe her and to tell her she's beautiful?

When I see stuff like this from people with partners I just always wonder why their partner isn't helping them with their emotions or whatever. It makes me so very glad to have the man in my life that I do.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 1:08:39 AM

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It's more that people you are married that is going to be a problem for people.
Certainly in the UK at your height weigh of 120 pounds - 130 would probably look better (not 240) but that is just individual taste. Lose 100 pounds and I bet there would be more takers certainly this side of the pond.
The fact you are married would be the bigger issue for many.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 1:31:25 AM

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I don't want to derail the thread, but shestrouble, your avatar is a close up picture of genitals. The sites rules state that you don't use explicit photos as your primary picture. You can have all the pussy photos up you like, just not as your first one.

And I for one don't want to see vagina lips every few posts in the forums. The forums are for socialising, it's kinda like showing someone your bits in a bar.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 4:24:37 AM

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What's wrong with tits in a bar?

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 4:31:51 AM

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Bits, not tits :P One's private parts, if you prefer.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 4:34:03 AM

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Oh, okay.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 4:36:11 AM

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I don't want to derail the thread, but shestrouble, your avatar is a close up picture of genitals. The sites rules state that you don't use explicit photos as your primary picture. You can have all the pussy photos up you like, just not as your first one.

And I for one don't want to see vagina lips every few posts in the forums. The forums are for socialising, it's kinda like showing someone your bits in a bar.

Actually, it would be VAGINA LIPS in a bar...but, continue discussion, lol...

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 6:47:10 AM

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So instead of insulting my self esteem your gunna insult my weight now? Wow thanks for that

Also if you actually read my profile before I fixed it up you would have seen where I said he works all the time Henderson why is not here a lot but that has nothing to do with this post.
But you don't know me from Adam so I guess that gives you the rite to judge me on what you know nothing of

Also I realty hope your not saying that about my avatar because I no longer have any nude pics

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 7:09:42 AM

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Whoa OP, chill out! No one was criticizing anyone's weight.

Someone else who was posting in this thread had an avatar with a picture of vagina lips. I pointed it out and said you wouldn't go into a bar and show your 'bits' (meaning private parts) and someone misunderstood and thought I said 'tits' - hence the picture of a cow showing off udders. It was a joke, and not aimed at you.

If you look at the bottom corner of each post you will see it says who it was a reply to. You will see we were chatting amongst ourselves.

But also OP, if you start a thread asking whether people think you are ugly, you are inviting them to comment on your appearance, and not everyone will like your appearance. The same is true for everyone. If I say 'am I ugly?' I can't get all butthurt if someone comments on the way I look.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 7:17:59 AM

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I appologize for that I misunderstood

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 7:19:49 AM

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No problem. Glad we got it sorted out.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 7:33:03 AM

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Thank you for your oppinion but I might add that it is wrong

You might not understand the inherent humor in this post, but I assure you it is appreciated.

Oh god. Descrite, I don't normally notice your posts like that, but this one got a hardy laugh out of me. A hardy laugh.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 8:38:03 AM

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So instead of insulting my self esteem your gunna insult my weight now? Wow thanks for that

nude pics

actually, if they were saying you were overweight, they would be just echoing what your profile says. Seems to me that they were just being agreeable.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 10:20:42 AM

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I'm just wondering why she's on here complaining that no one responds to her or wondering if others think she is ugly. I mean, she's apparently married. Where is her husband? Why isn't her husband around for her to cry to and to soothe her and to tell her she's beautiful?

When I see stuff like this from people with partners I just always wonder why their partner isn't helping them with their emotions or whatever. It makes me so very glad to have the man in my life that I do.

Uh, it's called "attention whoring", hello!

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 10:47:07 AM

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well yeah...that was obvious but it's just amazing to me that you, generic you, have a partner but they are not there for you when you need it, even if they are always working. Ya know, Master is always working and busy too but he and I both make time for one another. It just seems like so many like to use work and busyness as an excuse for their relationship failings.

I'm of the opinion that if you are married, in a long term, committed relationship and you both can't even make a little time for each other, I gotta wonder just how strong your relationship is. To me, it says neither of you are even trying nor care to try anymore.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 10:48:21 AM

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OP has contacted me on the other side and I'm going to hook her up with her local munch group. What happens then is up to her and them.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 11:37:16 AM

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well yeah...that was obvious but it's just amazing to me that you, generic you, have a partner but they are not there for you when you need it, even if they are always working. Ya know, Master is always working and busy too but he and I both make time for one another. It just seems like so many like to use work and busyness as an excuse for their relationship failings.

I'm of the opinion that if you are married, in a long term, committed relationship and you both can't even make a little time for each other, I gotta wonder just how strong your relationship is. To me, it says neither of you are even trying nor care to try anymore.

That's sounds like a monogamous bias to me, I'm a little of both I think, I love the intimacy of a monogamous relationship, but intimacy itself is pretty good stuff, and I think one can have more than one intimate relationship - on a social level, it really boils down to that trust issue - a level of detachment from you jealousy circuits is required, and the rapport bubble has to be expanded beyond the dyad to encompass a larger, more diverse group of people.

Mostly to say, I don't believe poly indicates a character flaw as you would seem to suggest, it's a different level of social organization with it's own set of rules.

Then, maybe she's just a slut, I dunno.

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 11:44:32 AM

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I never said poly was negative or bad in any way. I'm saying...where's her husband?? They don't have a poly relationship or anything right now. Right now it seems to be just her and her husband and she's upset that she can't find someone even though she has the permission of her husband. Again, where's her husband? Why isn't he comforting her and helping her with her issues instead of complaining here?

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RE: am i ugly or somethi - 2/10/2013 12:12:36 PM

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I never said poly was negative or bad in any way. I'm saying...where's her husband?? They don't have a poly relationship or anything right now. Right now it seems to be just her and her husband and she's upset that she can't find someone even though she has the permission of her husband. Again, where's her husband? Why isn't he comforting her and helping her with her issues instead of complaining here?

He's busy, is what I gleaned from her profile, maybe she's needy, emotional cuckolding/queaning or something I have no idea.

She is looking for approval from someone other than her mate? Again, not necessarily an indication of much of anything other than boredom, I suppose other issues could be involved, when are they not, but from what I read I heard pretty much straight up bored suburban housewife.

Some of us have to work, you know.

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