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castedaway -> Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 6:50:35 AM)

I was wondering why people here put "bi" in their profile when in description they obviously are looking for girls, and girls only? By that I am mostly pointing out the males and who declare themselves as dominants. It makes things harder to search as it isn't already. [:(]
And other things when searching for m-f couples what is the meaning straigh and gay? Which of them are that because they obviously can't be both :p There are so much potential improvements for this web site.

Other issues would be not knowing which profiles are real, and which fake or wankers. Because of them, people even look upon my profile as fake although i am dead serious in my intentions. There should be rating of each profile under it so everyone should know with whom they are dealing with. Also people expect you to write an essay as first message and later they don't even have common courtesy to reply, or at least not interested.

Still, I met some decent guys so not all is black, but one must be really patient here.



coldslayer -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 6:56:07 AM)

lol at not all is black. interesting. ive never heard that expression before...

The rating thing sound like a good idea... except that anyone with a grudge about anything could tarnish your "reputation". I imagine thats a feature trolls could have fun with as well.



DarkSteven -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 6:57:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: castedaway

I was wondering why people here put "bi" in their profile when in description they obviously are looking for girls, and girls only? By that I am mostly pointing out the males and who declare themselves as dominants. It makes things harder to search as it isn't already. [:(]



Life's tough sometimes.
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And other things when searching for m-f couples what is the meaning straigh and gay? Which of them are that because they obviously can't be both :p There are so much potential improvements for this web site.


If they're m-f couples, they cannot be gay. But there is no couples designation, so it's entirely possible that the m is bi and the f is straight, or vice versa.

There are indeed potential improvements. Then again, its a free site, and changes cost money.
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Other issues would be not knowing which profiles are real, and which fake or wankers. Because of them, people even look upon my profile as fake although i am dead serious in my intentions. There should be rating of each profile under it so everyone should know with whom they are dealing with. Also people expect you to write an essay as first message and later they don't even have common courtesy to reply, or at least not interested.

Still, I met some decent guys so not all is black, but one must be really patient here.


The rest of your complaints are made regularly. We've answered them already.



castedaway -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 7:06:47 AM)

Yes, I am sure this site suffer like most of them from epidemic of fakes but it would be nice if someone find solution to this.

PS coldslayer, I am pretty sure that expression came just from dualism thing [;)]



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 7:06:54 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: castedaway

I was wondering why people here put "bi" in their profile when in description they obviously are looking for girls, and girls only? By that I am mostly pointing out the males and who declare themselves as dominants. It makes things harder to search as it isn't already. [:(]
And other things when searching for m-f couples what is the meaning straigh and gay? Which of them are that because they obviously can't be both :p There are so much potential improvements for this web site.

Other issues would be not knowing which profiles are real, and which fake or wankers. Because of them, people even look upon my profile as fake although i am dead serious in my intentions. There should be rating of each profile under it so everyone should know with whom they are dealing with. Also people expect you to write an essay as first message and later they don't even have common courtesy to reply, or at least not interested.

Still, I met some decent guys so not all is black, but one must be really patient here.


There are many many posts about spotting fakes - there's a search facility at the top right if you want to look them up.

A person can identify as bisexual but only currently be looking for a female partner. Bisexual doesn't mean 'equal opportunities' there's a whole spectrum and many reasons why a person might state they are bi but not be looking for men.

PS - That picture is against the rules. You can't have a penis on show in your primary photo, and it will be removed by the mods. When it is, all of your other photos stop becoming viewable, so do yourself a favour and rearrange them so you have a clothed picture first.

PPS. since your profile is full of pictures of people who are not you, many people may look at your profile and decide you are a fake. Something to think about.



peppermint -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 7:09:31 AM)

Personally, I always wonder why people can't read the rules and follow them.  For example, right where you download your pictures it says no explicit pictures allowed for the main picture that shows up when you write in the forums.  Yet, using your picture for an example, you felt a dick pic did not come under the heading of explicit.  Just so you know, when Collarme uses the term explicit they mean no genital pictures for your first picture.  You can show all with all the other pictures in your profile, just not the first one. 

Yes it is a flaw of the site that they can't check over the pictures before they are part of your profile.  You used to have to get approval for pictures but the site has grow too large to check each one. 



castedaway -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 7:13:15 AM)

But half of picture ARE me, and the other ones are just i added later that I found interesting. But anyone who actually send me a message can conclude about being fake for themselves.

Thanks for profile picture advice [;)]



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 7:23:46 AM)

OK, but also bear in mind that the pictures you add say a lot about you. Personally I would pass on anyone who had a lot of porn pictures or stylised fantasy type shots because I'd think that the most important thing to them is their kink and that they may have skewed views on how it works for real.

You put up whatever photos you like, just bear in mind that you might be choosing photos that appeal to yourself rather than to the other person. Kind of like McDonalds putting out adverts showing images of them making huge profits - they need to advertise what the consumer wants to get from the arrangement (tasty food) and not what they want to get (lots of cash).



Winterapple -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 7:30:01 AM)

It's not unusual for a bi man or woman to put
up a profile where they are seeking only a male
or female partner. They're seeking a partner for
themselves and not here to make anyone else's
search easier.

Your pic is a violation and if there was a rating system
for fake seeming profiles yours would be highly rated.



Winterapple -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 7:33:11 AM)

My post was directed at the OP not peppermint.



OsideGirl -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 8:14:00 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: castedaway

I was wondering why people here put "bi" in their profile when in description they obviously are looking for girls, and girls only?


Because regardless of whether I'm looking exclusively for a male or female, my orientation is still bi. My orientation is not dictated by who I'm looking for at that moment, it's dictated by who I am.



JeffBC -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 9:10:14 AM)

I have to admit, it'd be nice if the search screen contained a box like this:

[ ] Slaves appropriate for Jeff

But it doesn't. I don't really understand why it seems like an obvious upgrade for the site, no? Some of the things you are suggesting make "common" sense but not "computer sense" if that means anything to you. Some of them are just human behavior problems and have nothing to do with the site. Some of them (the real vs. fake thing) are just plain non-starters.



SeekingTrinity -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 9:36:48 AM)

~FRing it~

Frankly I got distracted by the deformed penis hanging off the woman's cheek in your picture to pay attention to what you were saying. That penis is starting to look like Mount St. Helens before it blew its side out during that massive eruption in 1980.



castedaway -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 9:54:40 AM)

I changed the picture hours ago, and it even got deleted by administrator, along with few others. Now i know why people don't write much on this forum

As for fakes, fake is a fake, having penises, captions, drawings, pictures of others or themselves. If someone does not send a message just because of stupid picture then I am not probably into him either.

As for topic, please ignore or delete it



TheLilSquaw -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 10:18:55 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: castedaway

But half of picture ARE me, and the other ones are just i added later that I found interesting. But anyone who actually send me a message can conclude about being fake for themselves.

Thanks for profile picture advice [;)]



The half that are not of you, if you don't have permission to use them from the websites that you took them from.

They are stolen.
PERIOD.
So it does make you look bad, because it makes you look like a thief who doesn't respect other people's property.

IMO it also also makes you appear as if your "reality" is based on porn. Not something real.

*shrugs*



OsideGirl -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 10:21:35 AM)

[image]http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lsbb7yRk9z1qcn7d7.jpg[/image]



TheLilSquaw -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 10:30:30 AM)

Oside that is funny!



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 10:42:33 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: castedaway

I changed the picture hours ago, and it even got deleted by administrator, along with few others. Now i know why people don't write much on this forum

As for fakes, fake is a fake, having penises, captions, drawings, pictures of others or themselves. If someone does not send a message just because of stupid picture then I am not probably into him either.

As for topic, please ignore or delete it


Well that's fine then. If your photos are deterring people who would be a poor match for you, then they are doing their job. They would put me off, and we would be a bad match. The system works. Continue doing exactly what you are doing, and have fun! And I'm sure that in the same way, you disregard a person's photos when deciding who to contact.



mnottertail -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 11:04:40 AM)

I saw a girl with pink fingernail polish and purple toenail polish, so yeah, I've seen some flaws on this site...



LadyPact -> RE: Hardly not to notice some flaws of site... (2/7/2013 11:13:25 AM)

A person being bi doesn't mean that their search is some form of equal opportunity. It may be a case of they have very little interest in one and the majority of sexual interest in the other, but the person is going for truth in advertising.

If you are checking out m/f couple's profiles, I find that most of the time you can figure out which is listed as the primary and secondary from the profile info. Take other things like height, weight, etc into consideration and generally, the bigger of the two is the male or you can correlate the info by the pictures.

Speaking of pictures, fakes, and all of the rest, it's really hard to give credit to your argument about what a good idea it is to rate profiles if your had pictures of other people in yours. Maybe it's one of those case of people in glass houses.......



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