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kittinSol -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/21/2006 9:33:42 AM)

Hmmmm... sounds to me like you need to reread what MissAlice had posted, which was humble, respectful and carefully thought out.

It's a small suggestion, but next time don't just post out of a need to 'react'. Very childish. Very naughty.



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/21/2006 10:18:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

i wonder if i can find a ProDomme who'll let me have a session on account...on acount i got no money...LOL



Ever hear of the barter sytem...I have 8 acres of land and plenty of work to be done (clearing a lot for a house,so I have more room for More slaves).Not to mention cleaning the dungeon.Lets not forgot the housework.

slave bishop works full time and I do volunteer work in the community so
I'm sure I can find someway for you to pay on account you have no money.



michaelGA2 -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/21/2006 10:20:08 AM)

i love to cook and bake...love cakes, cookies and brownies the best



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/21/2006 10:29:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

i love to cook and bake...love cakes, cookies and brownies the best


I happen to be looking for one of those too.
Too busy to cook...
So what is your specialty?



andal -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/21/2006 12:02:26 PM)

<General reply to topic>

Dom/mes sending out spam=bad.  Getting worked up when they get pissed off about you actually replying you aren't interested?  Waste of time.  Feel free to vent, though.  Then go on with your life.

<Joke>
While walking down the street, a man notices another man dressed up like a pirate, but his belt buckle was rather unusual.  It was shaped like a replica of the wheel used to steer a ship's rudder.  So he asks the pirate about the buckle.  The pirate replies, "Arr, it be drivin' me nuts!"
</joke>

Pro dommes should be treated like any other professional - rated on the service they provide, and how they manage customer service.  If they charge a fair rate and perform as specified, great!  If they are rude to potential customers, they won't stay in business long at all.  Just like other businesspeople, if they are active in their community and assist others, then they project a good public image and should be respected for that.



MichMasochist -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/22/2006 5:49:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Veryfewcan

Geez, don't take everything so serious...after all it is the internet!
A pro is just that. A professional that conducts themselves in a professional manner. A wanabee pro is just that. A; gee I don't have a clue but know I can make money at this.
For me, I don't even give either the time of day. Reason being, I believe in the lifestyle. Pro's are for players. Wanabee pro's are for players. Are you a player????
It has nothing to do with money. Pro's don't get that concept...or Wanabee pro's.




MichMasochist -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/22/2006 5:53:01 PM)

::thinks thoughtfully how many buttons did she push to find benjis' off button.  [;)]

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ORIGINAL: enigmabrat

::looks for benji's off button::



carde -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/23/2006 5:27:58 PM)

Hi again Y/yall,
Ok, i don't have a southern drawl, but it is still fun to say it.

i guess this will be more of a footnote than anything else, and to me at least, rather amusing.

Since my original post i have received numerous private emails, and must say thank you for all of the kind words. However, although i did not mention any names because it is rude, and flaming is just classless and ignoble, i have also received a few not so nice emails, and seeing as they were sent privately, i am guessing that those people are a tad cowardly.

The original post that i made referred to a Lesbianprodommedyke kind of person who decided that it would be fun to start sending me messages with just periods in them, and then block me from saying anything. There is also a local dungeon that spams a fair amount from numerous IDs that decided to call me every four letter word that they could think of (even deciding to make some up) and then block me from replying.

With all of this i feel less guilty about my original post. To all the Pros out there that are good, and i have heard from them ... You all are great. To all of you "pros" that are not (and the scary part of it is that they actually think they are doing nothing wrong) .... bite me! i take that back ... you might just do that ... hard limit!!!

Sorry if that sounds un subbie like, but you know, outside of here, i am a human being and i do defend myself because things like this are part of life, and i deal with them everyday, and i am not so polite after i have asked nicely to be left alone. [8D]

All that said, i do love the people in this community and hope to continue to stay with it, and find my One again as well as getting to know y'all more.

carde



michaelGA2 -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/23/2006 5:31:04 PM)

for a main course, my specialty is Lasagna. i do not use cottage or rocotto cheese, instead i use a variety of cheeses: swiss, mozzerlla, provolone, american, sharp cheddar.

i also use different types of meat: beef, pork, sausage.



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/23/2006 6:56:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

for a main course, my specialty is Lasagna. i do not use cottage or rocotto cheese, instead i use a variety of cheeses: swiss, mozzerlla, provolone, american, sharp cheddar.

i also use different types of meat: beef, pork, sausage.



Not a meat eater for the most part...so how about something with veggies?



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/23/2006 6:58:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Reflectivesoul

quote:

IMO Me starting the conversation makes Me look more like a hooker and not like a Dominatrix.



Tell us how you really feel, Sassy *chuckles* [:D]



Oh shoot I missed your post...LMFAO
Makes Me think of the line" The truth....You cant handle the truth" classic [:D]



Reflectivesoul -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/23/2006 7:01:09 PM)

heh I always loved that line.... [:D]



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/23/2006 7:31:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Veryfewcan

Geez, don't take everything so serious...after all it is the internet!
A pro is just that. A professional that conducts themselves in a professional manner. A wanabee pro is just that. A; gee I don't have a clue but know I can make money at this.
For me, I don't even give either the time of day. Reason being, I believe in the lifestyle. Pro's are for players. Wanabee pro's are for players. Are you a player????
It has nothing to do with money. Pro's don't get that concept...or Wanabee pro's.



Ummm...Excuse Me dear....BUT I get the concept of the Lifestyle.
If I didnt I wouldnt have My slave bishop,and live as much 24/7 as possible.

Go check out the positive experiences thread and read the 1 year anniversary  one and tell Me as a Pro I have no clue what RL is all about.I can give names
of devoted submissives I found other places.

you make it sound like a Pro would have to see a submissive because they provide a service.A Pro-Domme caters to submissives.That does not mean the sub comes in puts 50.00 on the bureau says what he wants and takes it.

We help live out fantasies,jen pup likes to be a pup...chases the ball,plays with squeaky toy,walk on all fours,get the picture?
I have ones that come here to dress like a Woman because its safe here to do that.
others that like pain and want a good beating.one likes being a horse.
My favorite couple though is the one where the wife comes to watch Me beat
her hubby with the paddle.Just loves to watch him beg.

One last thing...I dont charge an arm and a leg for sessions,I'm a Blue Collar Domme,I dont need the money to survive.My 'gurls' enjoy helping Me out.
I also believe in the Barter System,now thats something that comes in handy.
And thats how I can make money at it....Plus I'm a really good Dominatrix,not to toot My own horn (toot toot).When you are good at something and Professional about it you make money you get regulars you get a following of devoted submissives.






michaelGA2 -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/23/2006 8:06:07 PM)

i could adapt, Ma'am...wouldn't be too hard



lokisgodhi -> RE: Pro Dommes driving you nutz?! (6/25/2006 8:01:30 AM)

carde wrote:

"I had taken down my profile for a bit to take a breather, and just recently put up a new one under the same nick as before. i have received a few emails from "Pro" Dommes looking to meet and for money and such. Today i got an email from a "Lesbian Pro Domme" inviting me to her dungeon for a play party, it was one of those "Dear Sir/sub" cut and paste kind of things. i sent a quick response saying that i was not interested and please remove me from your email list. (instead of the "f**k off that i would have preferred)."

This was your first mistake.

"i shortly got an email back ... in all caps .. saying that i was rude and did not read her whole ad. The one in HUGE letters and caps. Then my email was blocked and i wated a perfectly good retort."

You can always open a new account, ream the little twit properly and then unsub. Or if it's a local play party you can go and put tabasco sauce in the feminine products in her medicine cabinet. Just kidding. ;-)

"My question is (i got so wound up there again that i almost forgot): These kind of people claim to be pillars of the community (D/s), and well respected."

Pillars as in dumb as a post?

"Is this in fact true and i am missing something here, or am i flypaper for freaks?"

Very few are well respected. Check out your local BDSM group and see which area prodommes participate there by sharing their knowlege with lectures, classes and demos. Those are the only ones who are well respected.




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