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Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 2:24:14 PM   
bitchdog4master


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Status: offline 		Should a "Daddy Dom" be significantly older than his sub.?
Can a daddy Dom be younger than his sub.?

Entering into a D/lil relation, never had the experience and am curious.
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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 2:38:13 PM   
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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 3:41:07 PM   
TheLilSquaw


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Status: offline 		Eh... that would be YOUR personal preference.
My last daddy, was my age.
The one before that was only 5 years older than me.

It has very little to do with the age of those involved but more to do with the dynamics and relationship between them.


ETA: The search feature on the forums, will help.
Although there is another post on this page about daddy doms and baby girls.

Even though the OP was bleh... there is a lot of wonderful information in the thread about the dynamic.


Btw... your avatar picture is a violation of the TOS. *shrugs*

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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 3:59:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		A Daddy can be older, younger, or the same age as his little. There are no hard & fast rules. Except, of course, for the rule against explicit primary pictures. Rest assured that I've reported yours, OP.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 4:01:59 PM   
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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 4:06:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think it's role playing, right?

Therefore the age isn't really the issue.

It's the position of power and the structure of the relationship which makes it the Daddy Dom.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 4:08:03 PM   
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I think it's role playing, right?



Simple answer.
No it's not role playing.

Although some littles / baby girls do regress they are not role playing.



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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 4:15:34 PM   
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Simple answer. No it's not role playing.

Personally, I think it's a trick question. I think there is a real and serious debate about where the line between "role" and "self" is... especially as one immerses oneself in the role more and more. I think many times in what we do in BDSM the line between "role" and "player" is either wafer thin or doesn't exist. In part, we construct our own realities from the chosen roles. It's just that word "role" has gotten a bad rep in BDSM-land... akin to "fake". That's not it's meaning.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 4:36:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

for the rule against explicit primary pictures. Rest assured that I've reported yours, OP.

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Thank you.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 5:25:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bitchdog4master

Should a "Daddy Dom" be significantly older than his sub.?
Can a daddy Dom be younger than his sub.?

Entering into a D/lil relation, never had the experience and am curious.


Don't get into it for the age. Get into it for the person. My girl is over a decade younger than me, but that's not why I try to nurture her, support her, and certainly not why I love her. I nurture the wonderful person she is, whether she feels wonderful, or not; I support her, because she is a good person worth supporting. As for why I love her...well, I'm not here to write an essay. The Notes version goes like this: she is carefree, funny, bright, sensible, compassionate, inspirational, and even if she weren't beautiful on the outside (and rest assured, she is), when I look in my little girl's eyes I see a young woman that is also beautiful on the inside. She shines wonder in my heart, and challenges my mind.

I wish you a similar experience - it is rare, and fulfilling.


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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 7:15:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bitchdog4master

Should a "Daddy Dom" be significantly older than his sub.?
Can a daddy Dom be younger than his sub.?

Entering into a D/lil relation, never had the experience and am curious.


There are no "shoulds." Each relationship is as unique as the unique individuals involved.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/8/2013 8:11:19 PM   
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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/9/2013 7:06:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		age is not a factor....

I find it's more an issue of those that seek to create an illusion that become problematic when reality strikes.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/9/2013 9:04:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

There are no hard & fast rules. Except, of course, for the rule against explicit primary pictures. Rest assured that I've reported yours, OP.

NBMG


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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/9/2013 10:42:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: bitchdog4master

Should a "Daddy Dom" be significantly older than his sub.?
Can a daddy Dom be younger than his sub.?

Entering into a D/lil relation, never had the experience and am curious.



No. Daddy/little or Daddy/boy or a Daddy/girl dynamic comes in many flavors and quite often, the person in the Daddy role is younger then their boy/girl/little. The relationship is usually based more on the needs of both people and what they are seeking and less on the age factor.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/9/2013 11:40:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

Most 'Daddys' Ive seen in rl are older but a few have been younger.

But conversely not every older/younger is a daddy dom. My poly I discovered to my horror was 15 years older, but we functioned as equals. Had age play entered anyones thoughts I would have been gone faster than you can type wtf!

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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/10/2013 2:17:36 PM   
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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/10/2013 3:30:21 PM   
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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/10/2013 5:26:34 PM   
kiwisub12


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ORIGINAL: subinsilicon

I think it's role playing, right?




When i was playing with a fella using Daddydom criteria, we role played - and it was hot!
He was at least 10 years younger than me- but for the purposes of us, we pretended he was older. Imagination is a great thing.

For those that live it - i have observed that the Daddy is usually older than the little girl - from the real life people i know.

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RE: Daddy Doms - 2/10/2013 5:35:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh yes, in the perfect such affair, a daddy should be at least 20 but better if 30 years older than his little girl. He,HeHeHehe...






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