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RE: Discipline vs Stress Relief - 3/2/2013 4:22:35 PM

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I refuse to allow spankings to be used as a punishment or any kind of correction.

My spankings are gotten for stress relief or foreplay.

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RE: Discipline vs Stress Relief - 3/4/2013 3:03:25 PM

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We do have a punishment dynamic but that happens very rarely.

Sometimes spanking is erotic and sometimes it's stress relief and frequently it is both.
I see discipline as being different than punishment, and more of a maintanence type spanking.

I guess we are the Heinz 57 of spankings.

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RE: Discipline vs Stress Relief - 3/4/2013 3:11:50 PM

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RE: Discipline vs Stress Relief - 3/4/2013 8:09:03 PM

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We don't really do spankings a whole lot in our relationship. It's just not something that he enjoys as much as other stuff does. When he does spank me it's usually just for fun or foreplay.

When he wants to punish me it's usually more along the lines of stuff I absolutely abhor like canings or taking something from me I love or making me do something I don't want to do or just simply tells me how much he's disappointed in me. At that point I'm usually begging and crying for him to absolve me of it so we can move on from it.

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